内向男生如何追女生聊天？找不到女朋友怎么办？

 zhaobudaonvpengyouzenmeban？neixiangxingnanhaizizenyangzhuinvshengxianliao?neixiangxingnanhaizidequexianbianshibuzenmehuijianghua，zhengfutianxienvzuihendebanfa，danbingbuyiweizhebukeyigaijin，zhixulejiejichudexianliaofangshi，jibian bukeyileiyanposuo，yekeyiyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliubuganga。zhinanxihuanshenmeyangdenvsheng？xiabianjiulaijiaonikendinghaoyongdezheijigechangyongzhaoshiba!

创建基本联络

 zheihuishinidejiaoliugengweichangshun。xiangenmeizhiquhuxiangpeiheyijiangongzuozhong，suzaogongshanggan，bamoshengrenbianchenglejiedepenyou，nimenzhongjianyongyouganaiduijie，jiubukenengzhanxiandiaonangaliaodexianxiangle(henduorendoujinjinzaimeiyoulejiedeqingxingxianeixiangxingeryi，pashuoshuocuodiaolianmian，guandiancengmianwoyiqianjiangdaoguoxuxuduoduodeyouguanxianliao，buqingchudekeyizaikanyikanyiqiandeneirong，quanshihenzhongyaode)。

 zhinanxihuanshenmeyangdenvsheng？birunishizaixiaodaxuesheng，xiangyaoquzhuiyigexuejie，nikeyihetaquyijiafandiandagongzhuanqian，yitongquchenduyingwen，yexutianjiatongyishetuanhuodongcanjiazhutihuodong;birunishidagongzu，xiangzhuiyigetongchangdemeizhi，keyiyuemeiziyitongquxuehuabing，yitongquguangmiaohuideng;birunishishangbanzu，keyigenmeizhibaoyigetuanqulvyou，keyihetayitongqudapingpangqiu，fengzhengdeng;genmeizhisuzaogongshangdezheijianshiqingguanjianshiyaojiaohuxingqiang，benshenhenyoumohenhaowaner，zhengfutianxienvzuihendebanfa，neimetagenchuqudetihuishixinxide，erqienimenzaihudongjiaoliushihuiyoumoshengbianlejie，naizhiwuhuabushuo。

关键词法

 xuehaobawonvshengjianghuadeguanjian，bawozhuguanjianzi，yeshishifenzhuyaodexianliaozhuanyejinengzhiyi。jiarunvshengshuolebantian，niyijuguanjiandoumeibawozhu，kenengtajiushangnaobukenlinini。lirunvshengshuo：“ganghemamatongdianhua，younaomaodunle，qingxuhenbutaihao。”tamenguanjianci，jiuhuiyou“mama”、“naomaodun”、“qingxuhenbutaihao”sangefangweinenggoutuokuan：

 tiyibuyaoshuoduorangzhediannimama，zhongjiutashilaorenzheileidehua，nidoubuqingchushizenmehuishinaomaodun，neiyangshuowanlenvshengzhinenggengqi。“henyoukenengmamajinriqingxubudahaoba?womamayoushihouyeneiyang。”(yongmuqinlaituokuan)“youyushishenmeyuanyinnaomaodunni?”(yongnaomaodunlaituokuan)“ena，wolejieni，yibanwoxinqingyumenjiuaichulai guangyiguangchidianwupin，nishima?”(yongqingxulaituokuan)。zhaozhengqueleguanjianci，caikeyirangxianliaodoutandaoguanjianshang，yekeyirangnvshengjuedezishenbeigaoduzhongshi，bingqieganjuenidebaogaoshiyoujiazhide，caihuixiangyaopeinixianliao。

了解体会法

 bizhaonanhaizi，nvshenggengkanzhongxintaitihui，yincinvshengzaichuandiyijianshiqingdeshier，henzhongshijuede，neimaninengbunengbawozhutayaoxiangchuandadejuede，erqienenggoufuheshanglai，jiubiandezhiguanzhongyaole。nanshengxihuanzhangwoyijianshidelailongqumai，nvshengzechenmiyuyijianshisuochanshengdexinqingtihui。dangnvshengzaigongxiangyijianshishi，gengqidainikeyiganshoudaotashixiadetihui。yincidangtarangnijiangyixielijingdeqingkuangxia，shijishangshixiangzheniguanzhutadangchudetihui，erbushihuizonghuoshixiajielun。zhaobudaonvpengyouzenmeban？neiyangcaisuanshidongta，caibukenengrangtarenweinifawei。