找不到女朋友怎么办？追女生用错了方法怎么办?

 zhaobudaonvpengyouzenmeban？tadequezhenduiyixienvshenghuijuyouxiyinzhudegongxiao。dantameifatongyongxingzaiquanbunvshengdeshenshang，zhengfutianxienvzuihendebanfa，qiegenshihouzhangqixingguanliandepinzhiwuguan，youyurenjijiaowangdeshushishifou，zhongyaohuoshihudongjiaoliubicideshizhi。zhinanxihuanshenmeyangdenvsheng？

第一、彻底不在意另一方到底是谁的共处法

 zheierdeliaotianhuatihenxianzhubatarenjijiandanhua，zhibamubiaoshizuoyigenvsheng，erbushibatadangzuoyiweiyouzhedujutesederengetezhi、richangshenghuo、jiazhiguannianderen。youyuzheizhongfangshi，meishenmechongfenkaolvbierendeqingkuang、qingxuheyixiang，ganjuezishenxiangfenxiangshenghuolingyifangyidingdeting，zhenduijiangchizaoanlingyifangjiuyidingdejiena。ganjueguanzhulingyifang，lingyifangjiuyidingyaorangniguanzhu。

 yiban nvshengneixinzhenzhenzhengzhengdexiangdekenengshi：woyouyujiabanjiadianpobudeyiaoye，haixuyaobeiniducuma?nandaoshuowobianbukeyiyoushihouchidianfeiqiwushicai?tianlengwoshibuhuizishenjiayifukuzima?waibianyouyutianwoshibuhuidaisanma，haiyongnijuede?yexunihaoyunqi，yudaoyigeduinirichangshenghuoxihaowenhaodoufeichangxiwanghefangzaixinshangdenvren，neizheizhongdebanfahuiyouxiao(jinjingailvjihuweiling)，yaoburanzheileimanbuzaihulingyifangqingxutihuidezhuiqiuwanmei，zaoyibeilahei。zhinanxihuanshenmeyangdenvsheng？qinggandejinduhenzhongshishuangzhonghudongjiaoliu，jiarujinjinyifangjijidehenhaidehua，neishijishangmeihendadeshijiyiyi。

第二、生产制造一种我很在乎你的错觉

 chenglandiyitiao，meiyoubabierenshizuoyigexiangxideren。zheizhongfangshilibianmeiyouyigeshijiaonanhaiziyaoquzhangwolingyifangdejiazhiguannian、ganqingguanherenshengguan，yinci zheizhongguanzhu，dingduojinjinzaishengchanzhizaoyizhongwohenzaihunidecuojue，zhiliyujinjinshiyongzheizhonggerenxingweizuodao“worangnijuedewohaizaiguanzhuni”demudi。zhengfutianxienvzuihendebanfa，yexuquefaanquanganhemeishatanlianaideganjuedenvshengqueshihuiyoumeiyouzhongzhao，zhiyaoshilijingganqingkankedenvsheng，jiandaozheileizhuiqiuwanmeifazhinengganjuehenlengzhu，youyuzheileinvsheng，huicongzheizhonggerenxingweijiangjiechu“wohenguanzhuni，dannishisheiawoshijishangmeiyouhenzaiyi，woduibiedenvshengyehuiyongxiangtongdejiliang”。

 meiyouyigeren，baohanxiangyaozheizhongfangshizhuinvshengdenanhaizi，nengzaizishenzhibeisuanzuoyigezongtimubiaodeguochengzhonghuigaoxingde，youyurenzheiyisheng，doushizaixunzhaozhenzhenzhengzhengdezhangwohejieshou，yincizheileijiqiaozuiduochengyishibanke，quemeiyoubanfatuidongniyutamaixiangshenrudezhangqiguanlian。

第三、堆积式追求完美法

 neiyangdezhuiqiuwanmeifazuifengxiande，bianshibarendebenxingjijiandanhua，zheiershuodejiandanhua，zhideshirenweikeyong1+1=2zheileigongshijisuanxiyinrendebenxing，jianyieryan，bianshiganjue：woguanzhu+gongxiang+xiangliao+duochupeng=tahuiaishangwo。shifouyouhenlejieni?shifouyehenxiang“lanhaoren”dexinlizhuangtai：juedezhuanchejiesong+songwanfan+xiudianzijisuanji+fuqian=tahuiaishangwo。neiyanghuibuchenggong，shiyouyuyongcuofangshishijicaozuorendebenxing，qiezheileiqingxinghaitoulouchunongnongquyuedeyuyi。youyizhong，wozheizhongzuo，shiyinweirangnixiaishangwodejuede。zaimeiyouzhidaolingyifangxinlizhenshidexuyaohehaipayiqian，yiweidexiangyaoduijidefangfagenbierenhuanai，huanhuodecaiguaiyi。zhaobudaonvpengyouzenmeban？erzheizhongderen，yefeichangrongyijuedezishenrenlaorenyuanyouchixinbugai，yincitongchangyuanqihuihenshen。youyubenlaihenshijingerdequehaiwufadedaoxiangduideshouyi，shubuzhiyoushihouxiyinzhubingbushikaomangan，zhishiqiaojing。