拉近关系的话题，如何聊到她的心?

 dangyigerenxiaishanglingyigerendeqingkuangxiajiuxiangyaoqutiejinlingyifang，keshitiejinlingyifangyihoudeliaotiandehuatishijiaoweiguanjiande，wozelingyifanghuidichuni，neiruhegenyixingpengyouzhaohuatiliaotianerni？shijishangyaoxianggenyixingpengyouchupeng，heyixingliaotiande100gehuati,neimaxianliaodefangfayidingyaozhaohaola，yeyoubianshihuatitaolunzheigeshihouzuihaoshibianshishunshuituizhou。zhongjiushixiangtiejinlingyifang，lingyifangduinidoubulejie，zheigeshihouyaoranglingyifangxianduiniyouhaogan，yincijiuzhaoyixielingyifangjiaoweixiaidehuatitaolunliao。niliaotianhuatijiaruhuodelelingyifangderentong，neimatacaikeyizaicidegennigoutongjiaoliuxialai。yinweinishuodehuatitaoluntameishenmexingqu，lajinguanxidehuatiliaobushangjijubierenjiuduinimeile，zaicizaitanxialaidebixule，bianhuixuanzelikai，yincishunshuituizhoushijiaoweiguanjiandeyidian。

一、如何跟异性朋友找话题聊天呢

 yaoxiangtiejinyixingpengyouzhaohuatiliaotianjiuxuyaoshunshuituizhoule，yaoxiangdedaolingyifangdeqinlai，zheigeshihounizuixianyaorentongzishen。yigengkuaidefangfazhangwolingyifangzainaercengmianjiaoweiyouxingqu，neiyangcaikeyidedaolingyifangderentong。nisuotiaoxuandeliaotiandehuati，jiarukeyizaochenglingyifangdegongmingdian，zheigeshihoucaikeyijilingyifangliuyouyigejiaoweishenrudeyinxiang。

二、拉近关系的话题

 １、xianglajinbicizhijianguanlian，zuihaoshilejieyixialingyifangdehuoxuxihao。yaobazijideyixiegerenaihaoshuojilingyifangting，neiyanglingyifangbianhuihuirangni。

 ２、liangrenzaiyiqinenggouliaoyiliaoxiaidetesemeishiyou，youqishinvhaizaitesemeishicengmianyibanzhuangkuangxiadoujiaoweiyouxingqu，jinguantamenkoubianshuoyaojianfeijianfei，keshiduitesemeishishimeiyoudikangnenglide，zheigeshihounenggoujiangnizhizuodeyixiemeishijieshaojilingyifang。

 ３、liangrendegongzuoqingkuang，huoxugongzuoneirongbuyiyang，nenggoujiangnidegongzuozhongtexingjiangjilingyifangting，yiyangjiukeyiwenyiwenlingyifangdegongzuozhongshinaxiede。

 ４、jiarulingyifangshiyigeaihaolvyouderen，neimanenggoujiangnilaiguodeyixiediqujiangjilingyifangting，lirunilaiguodeyixiefengjingmingsheng，duitashuodouyounaxiecengmiandezhuanyezhishi。

 ５、xiongmeiyeshiliangrenxianliaodeyigehuatitaolun，zheigeshihounenggouliaoyiliaozishenjigexiongmei，huoshishiwenlingyifangjigexiongmei，neiyangnenggoujiazhongbicizhijianzhangwo。

６、duijianglaidefanganhaikeyiliaoyiliao，niyidingyouduijianglaideyigezhunbei，nenggoujiangnidezhunbeigaozhilingyifang。

７、liaoyixieshenpangerzuihaodepengyouyeshinenggouda，baninhaopenyoudeyixiejiongshihuoshishihengaoxiaodeshiqingjiangjilingyifangting。

 ８、zhishidelixianghua，haikeyigenlingyifangshuo，neiyangnenggoulajinliangrendejianju，ruguonishuotongniandeyixieshiershi，yekeyirangtaxiangdaotaershideyixieshi。

 ９、nenggouliaoyiliaomingxingbagua，nvhaiyibanjiaoweiyouxingqudehuatitaolunbianshimingxingbagua，banilejiedeyixiedapaimingxingsuochanshengdeyixieshiergaozhijilingyifang。

 １０、hainenggouliaoyiliaorichangshenghuozhizhongdeyouqudeshibi，heyixingliaotiande100gehuati,lirunijingliguonaxiegaoxiaodeshiqinghaikeyijiangjilingyifangting。