追女孩子的聊天技巧，撩女生就是这么简单！

 zhuinvshengruheliaotian？shijishangquanbudenanshengdoushihuiyouneiyangdejuede，mingmingzhong，niderenshengdaoluhaoxiangdengdaizheyiweipiaoliangconghuidebingxuenvwang，wuyijian，nipengdaole，keshiyixianliaojiufannankan，chukai“chiwanme？”“zaiganshenme？”，niyagenjiubuqingchuyingdanggenniyunshizhongdebingxuenvwangliaoshenme。zaijiashangjiarudajiazhongjianshitongshiguanxi，neiliangongzuozhongdoushudehen，quechukaigongzuozhongzhiwaicongcizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，ruhehetahuihua，rangtaganjueninyouchudongtadexin，qiaoxiangtadexinfeini？nijuedeniyongyuanbuzhidao？ng～buqingchujiuzhengquele，youyuzhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshibixuxuexipeixunde。

追女孩子的聊天技巧１：找话题聊天

 xianliaodezhujianshiyihuatitaolunzhujiande，yigehaodehuatitaolunhuirangliangrenyueliaoyueyouyisi，yueliaoyuezhaojiabuzhu，erbutaihaodehuatitaolunmeiyourenxiangyaozaiciliaoxialai。

yincizhujiandediyibu，nangongsatuojiulaijiaodahuoer，zheiyihuatitaolundaodiruhexuanbarencaishiduide。

xianliaozhongdexinshourumenfangfa，jiandanyidonghaobawo，guanjiandeshi：heli。

 keshiduihenduoreneryan，zheiyizhaohuatiliaotianbianchengjixujiejue，mingquetichunaxiehuatitaolunduinvshengeryanyouxiyinzhuxing？nangonglaoshilaiduinishuo，huatitaolunquanshiyouxiyinzhuxingde，guanjianjiuqujueyuzheigehuatitaolunrengchuquyihou，xiabianyaozenmehui。

 henduorentandaozheierjiumeiyouhuatile，haiyouderenlijijiuwen：kandenayigeyingpian。wenba，niwenba，wokanniyihuizenmehui。

 zhenduizheileijibendehuatitaoluneryan，zheileiliaotianhuatishibuzhengquede，zheiyijibendenantijinjinniweiyihoushuodehuazuodemaixiafubibale，nixuyaojidenidemudi：shiyaohetaxianliao，bingbushiaikantazaikandenayibuyingpian。

zheigeshihouqiadangdechulifangfashijinjinweiraozhetadehuidaxiagongfu。

 dangyigerenzhuanxinzhizhidezuoyijianshiqing，neimazheiyijianshieryidingshiduanqineikeyixiyinzhutazhuanzhulide，niduizheijianshiqingyiqiedeyidiandianpingdoushihuidadongtadexintai。

 qiewubaliaotianhuatibiandepingpingdandan，zhenduijibendehuatitaoluneryan，nijiaodadeyoushibianshinengjiyushiyongjiazhi，nixuyaozhanshichunikeyijiyudeshiyongjiazhi，erqiejiangzheiyishiyongjiazhiewaitayijingzuodeshiershang。

nanshengzhangwodeyidingyaoduo，tazaikanxijupian，nizenmeliao？

 wangxingyedeshenshangkaoa，quanzhongguoderendouqianzhouxingchiyizhangyingpiao，yongnidekanfabazheigehuatitaolunfasandiao，liaotianliaotian，tajiubuyuankandianshijule，youyunishuodehua，biyingpianyouqu。

追女生的聊天的技巧２：装作撤兵

zheileifangshishiyongdangnvhaimingquetichumoucengmiandeguidingshi，ninengxianrangtayibu，suihouzaiyanlidajita。liru：

 jinguantingqilaihenqianbian，keshi，nenggouyijunvhaidefanyinglaijianghua。yibanzhuangkuangxia，nvhaihuiganjuenihendiaopi，suichuzairangtakaixin，tayehuibuduanrangnihuifu，naizhiyehuijiaonidenicheng，xianghuzhijiandouzui，shuoshuoxiaoxiao。

追女生的聊天的技巧３：事情话题讨论

“《houlaidewomen》nikankanlemeiyou？”

“turanjuedeyinweiwosuanzuoyinxingpinkunhule。”

 zheizhonghuatitaolunhuifashengzaimeiwangezhongweixingongzhonghao，zhihuwenda，jinrijinritoutiaozheixiegezhonggeyangwenhuachuanmeizhanghuzhong。weihedajiadouxiaixiezheizhonghuatitaolun？youyuzheizhonghuatitaolunjubeitantaoxing，yipianwenzhangchuanchuquyishunjianyueduwenzhang５ｗ＋。

 renshiqunjudongwu，yuyanbiaodanenglishijinpaizaisisuogongzuonenglixiadedierdagongzuonengli，naizhigaoguoqulexingdonggongzuonengli，yuyandezuoyongbianshigoutongjiaoliu。

 erzheizhonghuatitaolunzhenghaonengdadongzheiyigoutongjiaoliudedian。shiqinghuatitaolunshizaochengdajiaxianliaochongdongdemeiti，erqieshizhuduomeitizhongbijiaohaodeyizhong，shikedejidenidelizudian，nishiyaohetaquxianliao，erbushizhengzhipandingsuotiaoxuandeshiqingzhongsheiduidaodishisheidecuo，youdehualiaojiukeyilea，sheiduidaodishisheidecuogenniyoushenmeguanxia。

yincizheileijubeitantaoxingdehuatitaolun，bianshiniyunidejipinnvshenxianliaoshikeyiyongshangdegaopinzhihuatitaolun。

追女生的聊天的技巧４：有意“驾车”

 zheileiyoumojiqiaozairichangshenghuozhonghenpubian，bianshishengchanzhizaoyigewuhui，rangnvhaifuxianglianpian，zuizhongzaihetabiaoshunideyisi，bingdiaokantadeguannianbujiankang，liru：

nanhaizi：nilejieshijieshangshenmezuiying，nvxingzuiaile，youqishihunhoudenvxing！

 zheishihou，ninengyijutadexiaobiaoqinghebiedefanying，jiaru，fajuetayouyuhuoshipiezui，biaomingtaxiangwaile，ninenggongbuhuida：“niyaonalilaidao，bianshiluozuana”。ziran，zheileifengqudefangfabukeyifengrenjiuyong，naizhishibukeyichangyong，youyu，youyixienvhaihuijuegennanshengtanzheileixiandudehuatitaolun，youshihoushuoshuoshijixiaoguohuoshinenggoude。

追女生的聊天的技巧５：读心魔术——了解另一方要想说些什么

duxinmoshubingbushigefengshuixuanxue，yebushichaozirannengli，tashijibenshangmeigerendoujuyoudezhuanyejineng。

 xianliaodeqingkuangxianiyidingyaohuiduxinmoshu，duxinmoshubingbushizhenyaonijiangzheigerenshenmeyangziwanwanzhengzhengdefenxichuqu，nizhibixubatajiangdetamendaodiyouzheshishenmeyisinonggaoqingchu，zheiyitianjiuzaoyifeichanghaoliaole。

“jinrimeiyoushiyule，jianfeishoushen。”

 danglingyifangjiangchutamendeqingkuangxiadaibiaoshenmeyisi？buqingchuba，wobuzhidao。shuobaileduxinmoshu，yidingshichuangjianzainiduitayouyidingzhangwodejibenshangde。

jiarupingchangtashigeduishenxinghenzaiyidenvsheng，tamendeyisishi：woganjuewobuhuipang，nikuaikuakuawoshencaimiaotiao。

 jiaruzheiyinvshengfeichangshaozaiyinaxieshenxingbushenxing，tamendehanyibianshi：woxiangjianfei，nikuaikuakuawojiaowoyongcan，buxiangchifanhaoe。

 yiyangdeyigenanti，buyiyangderenshuochurukoujiuyiweizhelebuyiyangdehanyi，yincinixuyaoxuexipeixun“duxinmoshu。”yijutaderichangxiguanxing，gaoqingchu：tajiujingshuoqinaxie。

追女生的聊天的技巧６：装作否定再认可

 nvhaichangchanghuiwennanhaiziyixienanti，liru，shibushinijiaoguoxuduonvyou，shibushinihenyanfandeqiannanyouzheixie，zongzhipengdaonantiniyetaobuguo。neima，dangnvhaizhiyinideqingkuangxia，gaizenmeyouyisidehuiyingtani？

 liru，nvhaixunwenni：“nichangchangdahuanvhaima？”shibushinilikexiangfouding：meiyou，wozhidahuaniyigebale，suihoujiujieshule？

 xuduonanhaiziganjueshuohuangdoubudui，tanbaishuodoubudui，zongganjuenvhaiburongyiraokaizishen。neima，nichedinenggoubitagengche——ninengxianzhuangzuofouding，suihouzairenke，shengchanzhizaofengqushijixiaoguo，liruninenghui：“buchangchanga，yitian……yejiulejieyiliangbaigeba。”

再例如：

neiyangtingqilaishifouyouyisixuduoleni？

追女生的聊天的技巧７：推拉门式闲聊法＋造成求知欲

 xianliaozhongqiewuyiweidiqushuncong，yiweidishuncongzongshiranghuatitaolunyuelaiyueyulaiyusuoranwuwei，daozuizhongtalijiduandiaohenijianghuadexiangfa。

 shenmeshituilamenshi？tuibianshibalingyifanglakai，shishuyuan，daji，fangan。labianshibalingyifanglajinlai，shiquyue，zancheng，zanyang。erzhequeyibuke。

tamenhuiyingyihoulingyifangdexinlihuodongmiaoxieshishenmeyangzi？

“wobianle？naerfashengbianhua，zhangdehaokanle？huoshixingqingfashengbianhua，tashishenmeyisia。”

 “nibianle”tashitui，rendouxiaibeibierenchengzuoshijiandingxinnian，shuofashengbianhuabianshizaishifangchulaiyige“fangan”dexinxineirong，er“huoshizhiqianhao”wuxingzhongyoutishengleduilingyifangdehaowuyiwen，zheijiushila。yituiyilazhongjian，qiuzhiyujiuchulai。

 “zhiqiannixingqinghenwenwan，rujinjuedelengjunlehenduo。”neiyanghuiyingduibudui？neiyangdalejiudengdaibeilaheiba。jilao，zheierdetuibingbushishiniqueshimabieren，jinjinweiyihoudelazuoyigemaixiafubibale。

 “zhiqiannishilinjiameimeidejuede，rujinyulaiyuxiangwenweneryale。”zheijuhuarentingleduoshushi，rendouxiaiherangzishenjuedeshushiderenxianliao，tuilamendejutiquanguochengquanshizanyang，jinjinweilegenghaodirangxianliaogengchangshuneryi。

追女生的聊天的技巧８：装作附合

gennvshengliaotianshi，dangtajiangleyixienimeirenkedehua，ninengzenmehui？jilao，qianwanbiebianbota，buranmeiyoubudeshanzhongde。

 lirunvshengshuo，wofeichangfangannanshengchouyanle，chousile！niruguohuranjinbuzhuzhanliqilaitichouyannanshimenshenzhangzhengyi，duitadunangdao：“dajianvxingpishibidajiahaiduo，wochouyanzenmela？”nvhaiquebaoshoutibaolikai，neiyaozenmezuoni？

jiaoniyizhao，xianzhuangzuofuheta，suihouzai“cai”ta。

neiyangjiburenaonvhai，younengrangtaganjuenijianghuashifenyouyisi。

追女生的聊天的技巧９：拉进心理状态关联——妖魅挑逗术

 dangnvhairangnijijizhudongdexingquaihaozhibiaozhishi，biaomingnizaoyizaitaxinliyongyouyigefeichanghaodeyinxiang。zheishihoudajiajiukeyigenjuyixieyoudian“tiaodou”deyuyanfangfalaijinyibulajindajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanlian，ji：xinlizhuangtaiguanlian。

liru，nvhaiduinishuogeziyihou，ninengshuo，haibucuo，laibangwoguaimomotou。

huoshi，nvhaihuiyingniyigenanti，ninengshuo，neimeguai，lai，xiaoshuaigerangnijiangshanggetiantong。

 youhuoshi，dangnvhairangniyigebijiaohaodeganenhuikui，jijijiyutanlunhuatishi，ninengshuo：“juedeniyinggaishijiaoweiaiwandeneilei。”suihouwuluntajiangnaxie，nidoulijiwenta，“neimenigaoguoduoshaogenansheng？”

 genjuneiyangyoudianjijinpaideyuyanbiaoda，jiarudajiazaoyitaruyigefeichanghaodexiangchuhuanjiedehua，neimafeichangrongyijiunengjiangbicizhijiandeguanlianlajinyigegengjiashenrudehuanjie，nvhaizheishiyegengnengyouyizhongchuliandeganjue。

追女生的聊天的技巧１０：浮夸赞扬

 zheiyifeichangrongyilejie，bianshiyongfukuadeyudiaozanyangchuipenglingyifang，jinguanbiaocengshangyoudianerchaofengdeyisi，danshishishangyeshizaikuanvsheng，zheileifangfadezanyanggengnengtishengtiaozhanxing。lirujinvhaizhaoxiangdeqingkuangxia：

 zhuinvshengruheliaotian？haola，zhishangbianshizhuinvshengdeshidaliaotiandejiqiao，nixuehaolemeiyou？shijishangzhenzhenzhengzhengdejishuxingshizaishizhanyanlianzhongjianjiandilianchude，zhishangzheizhongfangfa，youyixienihenyoukenengzaoyihuile，eryouyixieduinieryanhenyoukenenghaihenshengshu。naizhishencengcaiyizheizhongfangfadekexingxingfenxi，dajiayixieganqingjinglibingbushihenfengfuduocaidedixiong，xuelezheizhongliaotiandejiqiaohou，jiaodadeyihuotongchangshi“wanyiwoqueshiyingyonglezheizhongliaotiandejiqiao，nvhaiganjuewohenyouqianghuadiaogaizenmeban？buliwolegaizenmeban？“shijishangduiyuzheigewenti，dahuoerchedibubidanxin，rendouxiaigenkeyiweizijichanshengkaixinheguishuganderenzaiyiqi，woganquexinguoquchangchangbeiju，bianshiyouyuni”shanren“zuotaiduole，”shizairen“zuotaiduole。jiranguoqudelaofangshibukeyiqudechenggong，weishenmebuquxuexiyixiaxindefangshini？