和女生聊天，前10句怎么聊更有吸引力？情商高的聊天语句900句

 “yuanshi”guanliandebici，doubixuyigexianghuzhijianzhangwodequanguocheng。xianghuzhijianzhangwoshenme？henvshengliaotianhuati100juyounaxie？lirujibenziliao，ru“jiaofa、nianji、gongzuozhong...”；lirugerenaihao，ru“gechang、duanlian、qukanshu...”，yeyouxuduo。qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

 zheizhongshibiaocengshangnenggouzhangwodaodeneirong，zhenduilejiegan、guishuganeryanhuichuxianfeichangdademibu，yeshiganglejiedeqingkuangxia，bixutandaodeneirong。

keshi，jinjinxianghuzhijianzhangwozheizhong，shijishangshihaibugoude。weihe？

第一：许多男孩子一开始和女孩聊天，通常会发生过多掌握的难题，也就是发生在过多把专注力和活力放到“相互之间掌握”的份上，导致闲聊较为枯燥乏味，沒有诱惑力。

biruchangchangtichuwenti，yiwenyida，zheijiushihendianxingxingdenanti。

dier：youyunanhaihenvhaiganglejiedexianliao，qi“youyisi”he“shiyongjiazhi”zhei2dianshiyouweizhongyaode。

 yejiushiyaoranglingyifangganjue，nishiyigeyouyisi，youqu，nengliaodelai，yougongtongyuyandenansheng；erqie，jinliangdeyaoranglingyifangganjue，nishiyigenenggoudailaitakaixin、zhuanyezhishi、naizhishiganqingdenansheng。：nvshengshuohuizuohaochideqingkuangxia，keyishuo：zheiliyingdangyouhuanhusheng！

 zheizhongquanshihulianwangliuxingcihui，shiyigeqianqixianliaoshifengongnengqiangdadeliaotianxiaojiqiao。shanyuyoushihouyingyongneiyangdeyuhuihenvhailiaotian，zaiqianqideqingkuangxiabianhuirangnvhaizaizaiqianyishizhonglibianganjuewomendoushiyigefengquyouyisidenansheng，nvhaiyingduineiyangdenanshenghuitebieganxingqu，ganjueyougongtongyuyan；bingqiehaikeyizhanxianchuwomendoushimingbaishixiashishangchaoliu，genshangshiqi，youyitongshipinyuyindequnti。

3、展现本身使用价值

zhanxianshiyongjiazhiyoulianggeshijiao，yeshiyoulianggefangwei

shijiao1：liji、zhengliankaizhanzhanxian，fangweishiyingshiyongjiazhi，liru“caifu、shenxing、jiyi”

 yongliji、zhengliandefangfakaizhanzhanxiandeqingkuangxia，yaoliuyideshi，zheiyishiyongjiazhiyidingshixiangduieryanbuneimagaodeshiyongjiazhi，huanjuhuashuobuneimafukuadeshiyongjiazhi，guogaodeshiyongjiazhihuikanqilaiyouyizaizhuang，bianchenglexianbai。

 biru：dangtandaomeiweide、zhufandeqingkuangxia，jiadingninyouzheixiefangmiandeshiyongjiazhi，nenggoulijifazishenpengzhidemeishidetupian，lijizhanxianzishendejiyihenfeichanghao。suihoushuo：zuotianwanshangxinkexueyanjiude，kanjianruhe

 bingqiegengguanjiandeshi，neiyangdezhanxianhainenggourangnvhaizaizaiqianyishizhonglibianrenzhinenglidao，dajiakenengshiyigegujiajiaju，shiyigenuanxindenanshen。

shijiao2：cebiandekaizhanzhanxian，fangweishiruanshiyongjiazhi，liru“youzhuiqiuwanmei、youpinwei、youjinquxin”

 yongcebiandefangfakaizhanzhanxiandeqingkuangxia，womenkeyigengqiangdezhanxianzishenderuanshiyongjiazhi，yejiushiyingchenwenzhangkaitoutijide，weilegenghaodirangnvhaizaiganglejiedajiadeqingkuangxia，tabianhuiganjue，dajiajuyouhuodadaotadeyigeqianzaixingmubiaodepinpaixingxiang，huanjuhuashuo，rangnvhaizaiguannianshangmianganjuewomendoushiyige“gaopinzhi”denansheng。qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

 biru：zaiwanbixianliaodeqingkuangxia，dajiakeyishuo：xianbuliaoleha，lingdaoganbuzheilifenpeilexiemeirirenwubangwo，feiyaoyaowozuo，yaoburanbuanxin，youshijianzailianluo~

 genjucebiandeshijiao，quzhanxianwomendoushiyigeyoujinquxin、youzerenxindenansheng，neiyangderuanshiyongjiazhizainvshizhaoduixiangshangbianshishifenguanjian，yeshifendadajiafende！

 zaijugeshili：genju“penyou”dezhenshishenfen，cebianzhanxianwomendoushiyigeyoupinwei，yongyougaopinzhishejiaoquanzi，shanyuxuexipeixundenansheng

liru，tandaochimeiweide，tandaopengrenmeishi，keyishuo：zheijiyishiyiwoyipenyouneilixuede，tahuideketaiduole

 genju“penyou”neiyangcebiandeshijiao，yilainenggourangnvhaiganjuedajiayouzhishangdetexing，cizhi，zheiyeshiyigefeichanghaodehuatitaolunmaixiang。youyupenyoushejidaodao“dajiashenbianderen”，congerhenyoukenenghuitandaotadepenyou，naizhitandaoershiershi，naizhishitandaoyiqiandeqingganshenghuozhongdeqiannanyouqingganhuatitaolun，ranghuatitaolunjinyibushencengcixialai。qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

 congxianghuzhijianzhangwodequanguochengzhong，dajiajiuyingdangbayouyisidejuededailainvhai，zaixianliaoquanguochengzhong，zaiqianruyixie“texing”“shiyongjiazhi”dezhanxian，shijishangbianshiyigehaodexianliao，yeshiyigeqiadangdexianliaoluojisiwei。

 youyixiedixionghenyoukenengrengzaifannao“womeiyoushenmehuatitaolun”，shijishangnantibuqujueyunimeiyouhuati，nantiqujueyunimeiyougousi，meiyoufengfuduocaizishenderichangshenghuo，zaochenghuatitaolunbijiaoyouxian。

 jinyouzaiwomennongdongxianliaogousijizhanxianshiyongjiazhiyihou，dajiahenvhailiaotianquanguochengzhongcaihuiba“weiheneimeliao”“yemeiyouhuatitaolun”deyizhongyihuo，qudechenggongzhuanhuacheng“yingdangneimeliaobijiaohao”deyizhongxianliaogongzuonenglishang。

 henvshengliaotianhuati100juyounaxie？wozaizheizaishuoshangjiju,xuduopenyouhenyoukenengdoukanlewodewenzhangneirong，yeyizhaoshangbianshiyongguozheizhongxianliaofangshi，youshihenyoukenengmeijuyougongxiao，fandaoguanlianyulaiyucha，woxiangshuodeshideshi，zheizhongliaotianneirongkeyiyong，dannixuyaocaiyongqiaruqifen，erbushilijijiuyongzheiliao，womenkeyihuanweisikaoyixiayixia，ruguowomendoushinvhai，tarenjidajianeiyangliao，dajiahuishishafanyingni？yinciaxiangyaobahuatitaolunliaohao，zheishangbiandeyidianneirongshibuzude，neiyangfeichangrongyibahuatitaolunliaosi。