和女生聊天，哪些话题百试不爽？情商高的聊天语句900句

 shijishang，nenggourangxianliaobugaliaodefangshixuduo，xuduohuatitaolunlijingyouzhangdesuiyuechenji，beizhengshinenggouxunsutuidongguanlian，lvshibushuang。neima，younajizhonghuatitaolunshijingdeqishijianmoliande？henvshengliaotianhuati100juyounaxie？dajiagairuheyongzheizhonghuatitaolunquxianliaoni？jiuyaowohuiyingzheihaoduogenanti。qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

一、提高友好度的四类话题讨论

 henvhailiaotian，richangdehuatitaolunfanzaqiegeyoubutong，danpubiandenenggoudagaifenchengzheijizhong：shehuifazhanhuatitaolunlei、richangshenghuorichanglei、gerenaihaoleihexinlizhuangtaiganqinglei。

 richangshenghuorichanglei、shehuifazhanhuatitaolunleihegerenaihaoleiguishuyujishixingjiaoweigao，jiaoweifeichangrongyijinrudehuatitaolun，heshidiyicishijianduanxiangyushigenjuyixieredianxinwenshijianhuoshirichangsuoshixunsulajinguanlian。

 zaiqizhong，shehuifazhanhuatitaolunleijiushizhitantaomouyishizhengyaowen、redianxinwenshijianlaibiaoshubicizhijianduizheiyishiqingdeguandian，lirujinriganggongbudedisanjidujiaqianpaideng；

 richangshenghuorichangleijiushizhipubianbagua、duijinrigangchanshengshierdediaokan，lirudajiashitongxuemennenggoubaguaxiasheihesheichuduixiangle，huoshiqiyefantangdemalaganguoyoujiageshangzhangledeng。

 henvshengliaotianhuati100juyounaxie？gerenaihaoleijiushizhigenjuxianghuzhijiandegongtonghuatizaochengxintaigongzhen，lirutaolunyitongxiaidedapaimingxinghejianshenyundong，xiaidetesemeishihuoshichuangzuozhe，xiangtongzhichuhuizaiduofangmianlajindajiadeguanlian。

 erxinlizhuangtaiganqingleiguishuyudajiaxianghuzhijianyouyidingshuipingdezhangwoyihou，genjuduilingyifangzaigerenaihaoherengetezhikaizhanfenbianyihou，yanshenerchengdegengduofangmiandeshenjiao。

 xinlizhuangtaiganqingleizejiushizhigenjuhuhuanbiciduirenherenzhijianjiaowang，duiyouyi、ganqinghezhenqingdeguandian，congerzaochengxinlishencenggongmingdian，jinershidajiadeguanliangengjinyibu。

erdajiapingchanghenvhailiaotiandejuedaduoshuhuatitaolun，dounenggoubaokuozaizheilijileihuatitaolundangzhong。

二、从疏远到亲密无间，大家应当如何聊？

 xianliaoyikaishidemudishipobingzhilv，congshengshudaolejiebixuyigequanguocheng，zheishinenggougenjuliaoyixieyitongdegerenaihaorangbicixunsuchanshengqinggangongming。

 keshidabufenzhuangkuangxia，nanshenghenvshengdegerenaihaodoushihuichanshengwucha，feichangrongyishenxianganliao，lirunvhaihenjidongdehenanhaiziliaozongyijiemuhezuihongliuliangxiaosheng，ernanhaiziquehuihenvshengliaonbayongshiluobaihedulanteshoushang，zheishibianhuijuyoufanguolaideshijixiaoguo。

yiner，zailiaogerenaihaoleihuatitaolunshi，yidingyaotizaozuohaogongzuo，duoquzhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao，yiwentiweidaoxiang。

xianliaodexiayigehuanjie，bixubicixunsutigaoyouhaodu，conglejiedaoqinmiwujian。

zheigeshihoubixuyourichangsuosuiwangganqingleinantizhengqueyindao，bahuatitaolunliaoshen，chanshengxintaigongmingdian。

 lirugenjushierxingzuohuoshimouyiyingpianyanshendaozheiyihuatitaolunzhong，huoshigenjumouyibaguaredianzidongtiaozhuandaozishenduimouleijiazhiguannian、renshengguanhuoshilianaiguandejianjieheguandianzhong。

zaiwomenhejiaowei“men”derenjiaowangshiyingdangliaoshenmehuatitaolunni？zheibixuyiju“shixia”deqingjingshijinantishenrufenxi。

yibanzhuangkuangxia，yonggerenaihaoleikaiqihuatitaolun，yongxinlizhuangtaiganqingleituokuanhuatitaolun，bianshiyigechangjianzhaoshu。

youyu，dabufennvhaidouburongyidichuxinlizhuangtaiganqingleidehuatitaolun。

neiyangdefangshiyiyangshiyongnvhai。

dangnvhaipengdaoxiaidenanhaizi，keyiyongshehuifazhanhuatitaolunleinantikaiju。

youyuduibiyunvhaidexizhiganqing，nanhaizigengquxiangyugenjuduiwangluorediandepingjialaishifangyali。

 jiarushuohenvhailiaotiandeguanjiandianshilingtinghelejie，gennanhaizigoutongjiaoliudeguanjiandianzeshijilingyifangchongyudezhanshisheji，suihouzaixianliaozhongxiangqufujixu，zhujianguoduodaogerenaihao，neiyangcaisuanshihenanshengliaotiandeduice。

 ziran，yeyouyizhonghuatitaolunbixubiciyouyidingdeyouhaodu，zuishaoyaodaoaimeicaikeyijinyibugoutongjiaoliu，zheilishigerenyinsileihuatitaolun。

liruershi、chengzhanglicheng、renshengmubiaohexinghuati。

jiarudajiazaoyidaozheiyibu，biaomingdajiazhongjiandeguanlianzaoyichuxianyichangqinmiwujianle。

三、迅速拉进关联的12个难题

jiaruniqueshibuqingchuzenmekaiqihuatitaolun，neimajiushizheyixiaxiabiandehaoduogenantiba。

1、tangruonenggouyuedaoquanshijieyiqieyigeren，niqidainenggouhesheigongjinwancan？

2、niqidaizishennengbianchengzhimingrenshima？weihe，ruhexiangde？

3、zenmeyangcaichengdeshangshi“wanmeideyitian”，weishenmeni？

4、ninyougechangzhuanjiyigerentingma？jinqiyicishishenmeshihou？qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

 5、tangruojianglaibansuizhekejidefazhan，huifashengrangmeiyigerenhuoyibaisuidejiyu，keshi60suiyihou，zhiyoutiaoxuanweichi60suiyiqiandesiweiherenti，ninengtiaoxuannayige？

6、peipeipei，niyoumeiyouxiangxiangguoniguoshishishishishenmeyangzi？

7、jiyixingpengyoutongdianhuashi，ninengzhunbeichongfenxiashuoqishenmema？

8、aiheqinggan，zainixinlidoushishayingxianglini？

9、zhiqiankushishenmeshihou，youyumouyirenhuoshimoushi？

10、nijuededuinieryan，younaxieshiershikendingbukeyiwanxiaode？qingshanggaodeliaotianyuju900juyounaxie？

11、jiarulingyifangzaoyibianchenglenizuihaodehaoguimihuoshijiyou，nijuedeshenmeshiershibixutalejiede？

12、nijuedeniduinijianglaideyibanyounaxieguiding？

 shijishang，xixinsisuobianhuidedao，zhishangdenantishijishangshijiyiyibingbuda，zairichangxianliaozhongdabufenrenyebuhuipengchudaozheizhongnanti。

 keshi，zheizhongnantiquelaiyuanyuyigezhimingdexinlixueshiyan，shiyanjieguogaozhidajia：renherenzhijianyaoxiangcongshuyuandaoqinmiwujian，wubiyaogenjuyouqiandaoshendehuatitaolunchixudefenxizishendexinlizhuangtaizhidaobicizuodaoxianghuzhijiantiaomingdeshuiping。

 shiyanshihou，haifajueleyigeyouyisidehua：nanrenhenvrendeqinmiwujianshuiping，gentamenduiyiyangdenantidehuiyingshibushileisibingmeiyoutaiduodelijilianluo，yejiushishuo，“sanguantongyang”bingbingbushiweihailiangrenhunyinguanxidebibeitiaojian。

jinguanzhei12genantijinjinnanhaihenvhaixunsulajinguanliandefeizhengquedaan，danyouyidianshikendinghuida：

 henvshengliaotianhuati100juyounaxie？dangshuangfangyaozuodaoxunsulajinguanliandemudi，baozhengfajuebicizhijianxinlizhenzhengniantou，chixutanxunbicizhijianxinli，kendingshiyigetongyongxingdefangshi。