怎么能找到女朋友？如果你第一步做错了，可能就会屡屡失败

 henduorenhuizaixinzhongwenyixiaziji：weishaqijinjiaobushangnvyou？suihou，zishenhuizhaodaozhuduoyuanyin：womeiqian；wokanqilaibuzushuai；wobuzenmehuixianliao；woshengaohenai……queshirudajiasuoganma？yaolejie，youyixiewaizaideyaosuhenyoukenengduitanduixiangyouyidingdeweihai，keshizhenzhenzhengzhengjuecechenggongyushibaide，yidinghuoshibenzhiyuangu。nijiarunengbawozhunvhaidexin，kuaisuzhaodaonvpengyou,neimaniyejiunenghuodeniyaoxiangdeganqing。zenmenengzhaodaonvpengyou？neimaxiangtannvpengyou，youjigefangmianhenzhongyao，zuizhongyaodeshidiyibu。zuixianyingdangzuodeshisha？jiarunidiyibuzuobudui，neimazaoyulvcibuchenggongdejieguo，yeshibidingdele。

第一，明确你是不是确实想恋爱

 youxierenjinjinganjuenianjidao，yingdangzhaogeduixiangle；huoshishiganjuebiedexiaohuobanmendoushiyounvbanle，haiyoujihuiyinweiwozhaoyigeba；yihuoshimeishuozhiyan，queshiwufajujue。huaizheneiyangdexintai，neimajinjindanfangdedengziyuan，kuaisuzhaodaonvpengyou,zishenbuzhudong，neimameinvpengyoudoubuguaiyile。

 shijishangnishibushinengxunzhaoyigeshihedenvyou，zuixianyidingjiushinineixindequeyouzheiyiyaoqiu。youyunimingquezishenqueshixiangtanlianaile，neimaniyejiuhuiqinfenqukuozhangzishendeweixinpengyouquan，xiangbanfajieshidaliangdexinpengyou。neiyangbianhuitishengniqudechenggongdegailv。

第二，自我评定，勤奋更改

 yidannijueceyaochuduixiangle，neimajiuyidingyaoduizishenyouyigeqingxidelejie，erbushimeiyouzhenduixinghemudexingdixunzhaonvsheng。nixianyaopingdingzishendeshuizhun，baohanbenzhide、waizaidebiaozhun，suihoujianlixiangjiejiaonvshengdezhonglei。pingdingwanhouzhihou，niwubiyaogaibianxianzhuang。

 jiaruwaiguanshejibiaozhunbingbushifeichanghao，neimaqimayaorangzishenzaipangrenqingxinganjingzhengjie，nayigenvshengdouburongyixiailalilatayounigandenanhaizi。gaijianfeishoushenjiujianfeishoushen，gaiyundongjianshenjiuyundongjianshen。benzhidehanyang、jianshi，yeshibixutigaode。zongeryanzhiniduinvshengdeguidingyuegao，neimanixuyaogenggaidejiuyueda。

第三，取出胆量，学好积极搭话

 haonvrenxuduo，danmeirenhuijijiduinixianyinqin。yinci，jiandaoxiaidenvsheng，nixuyaoquchuchongzudedanliangjijidahua。bubiganjuezishenbiaozhungouhao，jiuyidinghuiyounvhaikanxihuanni。shijishangdaduoshunvshengquanshimiantianhuochuantongde，nvshengzhuinanshengjinguanyeshisikongjianguan，keshiyidinghuichanshengzainideshenshangma？yinci，nijijile，jiyujiuhenyoukenenglaila；niruguoyouyouyuyu，neimazaihaodejiyu，nishibawobuzhude。

第四，把握住幽会的机会，在关键点层面打动另一方

 jiarudahuachenggongle，neimanijiuxuyaozaojiulianggerendeyouhuijiyule。jiarulingyifangyuanyiyouhuile，neimaniyidingyaozhangwohaozheiyijihui。nenggoushiqiantantinghaonvrendeaihao，liruxiaikandeyingpian，xiaichidelingshi，zuiaiguangdelvyoujingdian……guanjiandiancengmianyidingyaojinlianggaohao，neiyangzuifeichangrongyidadongnvhai。

 yidingliuyibukeyiguoxiaoqie。zhenduiguodushengchijianyongdenanhaizi，nvshengneixindoushihuiliuyoubudahaodeyinxiang。jishiniyaozhihouguoａａzhiderichangshenghuo，keshizaidiyiciyouhuideqingkuangxia，zuihaoshibubiａａleba，nikeyidanfudejiuxiangyaohongbaoyixiahaola。

第五，选准机会再告白，就怕功亏一篑

 youhuijihuizhihou，henyoukenengnvshenghaimeiyouzuizhongmingqueshifouyaogenniyizhixiangchuxialai，youyutahaixiangzaiduozhangwoniyixie。yincizaichongzuzhangwonvhaideyongyiyiqian，niyidingbubijiqiegaobai，taizhejilefandaohuibalingyifanghetui。zenmenengzhaodaonvpengyou?jinji，tebieshizaibukeyizuochuyixieguoduqinmiwujiandexingwei，youyu，yudaomiantianhechuantongshidenvhai，tajiyoukenengjiangnidangzuo“huaxinnan”kanlai，neishihouhenyoukenengjiugongkuiyikuile，niyiqiandeqinfenjiuquantulaole。