闷骚男如何追求女孩

 changchangbeiwendaodewentizhiyiyou“woxinggemensao，wogairuhezhudongzhuiqiunvhaini？”，qishizhiyaoyougezhengquedesilu，heyuanyiziwogaibiandexinxin，zhainanyekebiannanshen！

一、我们该如何追求女生

1、抛弃自卑心

 xiangyaotanlianai，yaopaoqizibeidexin，xiangtanjiukeyitan，yidingyaoduizijishuozijikeyi。bushidengdaoniyouxiule，dengdaonizhuanleqian，dengdaoniyuelifengfudian，dengdaoneitianhuanghuacaidouliangle。renshengxuyaojinglihetiyan，shouxianniyaojiejuezijidezibeixin，huiyounvhaixihuanwoma？shitayanguangbuhaocaihuixihuanwo。duizijiyouzheiyangdexiangfazhudinglenideshibai，yidingyaodongderuhezhudongquzhuiqiuxinyinvsheng。

2、明确目标

 womenganrenheshiqingdouxuyaoyougemingquedemubiao，caihuijuedeshijianherizimeiyoubaibaiguoqu，liru：nixiangdashanxihuandenvhai，zheijiushinidemubiao，neixianquedingnixihuannvhaidezhangxiang，zheijiushinidemubiao，chanshengyixilienizhuiqiudexiangfa，shishixingdong，caishitiyanshenghuodeguocheng。

3、yongyanshenzhuanqing，rangtazhidaoniduitayouhaogan

 dangnixihuandenvhai，mubiaoyijingbeinisuoding，niyaoyonghanqingmomodeyanshenhehuayuquhetadiaoqing，buyaoxiangxiaotouyiyang，zhishitoutoumomohuozaizijidexiangxiangheyiyinli，juedetashinixinzhongshengjiedebailianhua，zhibudingnidenvshenhaizaiguitianqitananrenle，xihuantajiuyaozhengdaguangmingrangtazhidao。rangtazhidaonishidongderuhezhuiqiunvhaide。yinweiniyaoshixiangyixiayigelianruhezhudongzhuiqiunvshengdoubuzhidaodenansheng，zhihuitoutoumomodiguanzhutade，tazhihuijuedenimeiyounanrenqigai，zhihuitangzaitawannianbeitaidemingeli，tazenmehuiyaonini？nvrentongchangdoubuhuixiangyaoneixiexiangaiquebuganquzhuiqiudenanhai，guiguisuisuiheqieruo，shijianhuangfeile，zuihoudedaoyipiankongbai。

4、kantashishenmeyangdefanying

 ruguoshuonimeicimomodikanzheta，ertatongyangyeshimomodikanzheni，haoxiangbicizaiyongyanshenzhuanqingside。zheijiushuomingtakaishizhuyiniduinitongyangyouhaogan，zheishijiunikeyijinxingxiayibu。ruguobuxiangyishangsuoshuode，neimejiushinimeiyourangtazhidaonixihuanta，huoshishijianweidaodeyuanyin。zheishinijiuyaojiayiyidiangongfu，shihuashuogongbudao，shibuchengma。

5、kaishizhudongzhaogeliyouhuojiekoujiejinta

 jiarunikendingtaduiniyoufanyingle，neinijiukaishiqujiejinta，jizhu，yaoyizhijianding，fengdupianpian，wenrutaishanbandeyangzizouxiangta，buyaowujingdacaicai，youqiwulidizouxiangta。nvhaixuanzenanpengyouyeshiyaoshaixuannishifouxiangtaishanyiyangkekao，jiarunidewaibiaobuchuzhong，tayehuibeinideqizhi，nidemeilisuoxiyin。zhiyaomanmanxuexihuitihuiruhezhuiqiunvhai

6、zaitashangxinshiluoshizhudonganweiguanxinta

 yinweimeigerenyouyuyixieshierrangzijishangxin、tongku、fannaobukan，zheishizuikewangyouyigerenlaianweiguanxinwomen。zaizheigeshihou，jiaruyougerenzhudonglaianweiniguanxinni，nihuijuedeta（ta）zhendehenhao，zaizijishangxin、shiluoshi，zhiyoutazuilejiezijidongzijidexin，shihoudangnihuiyiqinimeicishangxin、shiluodeshihou，anweinideguanxinnidezongshita（ta），buranerrandihuituranhenxianghenxiangta，henxiangtazuozijidenanpengyou。suoyidangyigerenshangxin、shiluodeshihou，dedaoyigerendeanwei、guanxinshi，womendouhuiduizheigerenyinxianghenshen，huibaanwei、guanxinwuyiweishiai，dongdezheixieyejiangchengweiyigeshidongderuhezhuiqiunvshengdenanhai。

zheishijiebutongderen，youbutongdeaiqinglinianheshenghuomoshi。

nixiangyaodedaonvren，dedaotaderenhexin。

bujinjinniyouqian，nigoushuaineimejiandan，gengduodeshiniyaodongderuhezhudongzhuiqiuta。

zhengfutadediyibu“duxin”

guanchatadebiaoqing，dudongtadexiangfa，yongzhenchengdexiaotaolu，rangtatanluxinsheng。

 rangnvrenqingxubianhuashizhuinvdehexinzhihexin，zhongdianzhizhongdian。shierrangtagaoxing，shierrangtaxiaofanzao，rangtaduiniyouneizhongyouaiyouhendeganjue。