追女生时，男孩需要迈过的“三道坎”

 gurenshuo，xingjunzuozhanyiguzuoqi，zaiershuaisanerjie，jiankeshuo，chujiandeshihouxinlibubiyouyouyu，yidanyouyujianjiuhuininggu。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？zhaocilaikan，aiqingzhongyingdangdoushiyouneiyangdedaolide，yigerendaozhuiqiuaiqingdeshihou，bukeyiyouguoduodegulv，gulvduole，yejiushishuomeilezhuiqiuduifangdedanliang。yigenanrenwangwangdanshen，jiushishuoyouyutongguobulexinlide“sandaokan”，yaoshimaiguoqujiunenggouziwotisheng。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

不肯凑合

 renwanggaochuzou，shuiwangdichuliu。dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？yigerenxiangyaozhuiqiuxingfudeshenghuowukefeiyi，youyutashiyoujinquxindezhuyaobiaoxian。keshineiyangdeguannianzaiaiqingzhong，jianghuijiuhuibianchengzaochengdanshendeyuanyin。suoyourenzaixinzhongzhongdoushiyijuzishendebiaozhunqutiaoxuanyigebizishenshaoweiqiangyidiandezhixiqinshu，zhengyouyumeigerenzheiban，neimajiubixuxuduorenjiangdibiaozhunqurangbu。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

 keyizuochuzheileirangbudedabufenburongyishinanxing，jiushishuoyouyunanrenhenvrenshiyouqubiede，nvxingyidanshaohuayuanquqingganhuishenxianweiji，ernanshenghaoxiangnianlingyuedayuehuizaoshouqinglai，meimingqiyue“huitengren”。zhengyouyuzheiban，nvxingyibanhuijianjiandijianshaozishendeguifan。keshibingbushiquanbunanshengdoushihaoyundepengdaoyigexiangyaojizijirangbudenvren，yincibukencouhebianbianchengledanshendeyuanyin。

不肯低下头

 dashanjiqiaonaxieshiyong？nanshengyizhizihaode，jinguanyixienanshengpalaopo，keshibingbukeyiyiweizhetabinvxingcha，yibanjiazhongzhongquanshinanshengjiaoweichuseyidian，youyuxuduodananzizhuyidenanrenaixiangyaozhaoyigebizishenqiangshidenvren，jiusuanzheiyiqiangshidenvrenjijishuomingzishendeqingyi。zheishiguannanshengdemianziwenti，zhongjiu“chiruanfan”zheiyijiaofabingfeihenshunerde。

 neiyangbuxiangyaodixiatoudenansheng，zhuiqiuqitanvxingshibai，yingduixiaizishendenvxingyoujuedebuzixin，buxiangyaojiena，neimajieguojiuzhiyoudanzhe。shijishangzheidanshishizishenxinlide“kaner”tongguobule，zhuanhuanqitadegousixiangyixia，ruanfanhaibingbushisheiaichijiunengchide，zaiaiqingmianqianmeishenmeqingmianbuqingmiandenanti，bizishendexifuerchabingbushidiulian，diuliandeshibenlaibuhaoqueqiangzhichengzhe，dangele2gedexingfukuaile。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？henvshengliaoshenmehuati？

不肯服输

 nanshengneixinzongyouyizhongxuexing，tashiyigenanrenbenjiugaiyoudexuanhuanhedanliang，yincimianduikunjingdeshihou，nanshengburongyibuyansheqi。zhuiqiunvxingdequanguocheng，jiushishuonanshengdezuozhan。zaoshoucuobaihebuchenggongshiyuliaozhizhongdeshier，xuduonanshengburongyisuibianbeijibai，juedejingchengsuozhijinshiweikai，zishendezhenxinzaozhongwannenggouchudongduifang。ruhezhuinvsheng?

 zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？neiyangbuxiangyaofushudexingqingjiubianchenglenanshengdanshendeyuanyin，jinguanjingshenkejia，keshidiaosizaiyikeshushangjiuyixieguoduguzhile，tianyanaliwufangcao，aiqingyuanbenjiushishuomeiyoudaolide，xihuanjiushixihuan，taoyanjibianshinulizaihaoyeburongyiyoushijixiaoguo，yincizaiaiqingshangfushubingbushishifenkechi，nadeqifangdexiafangxiannanerbense。