追女生为什么不可以常常联系?怎么样追女生？

 nanshengzaiqingganzhongyushangzishenxihuandenvsheng，huibuguyiqiedezhuiqiuta，keshizheiyiguochengyouxuduodaxuewen，jiarubuliuyizheizhongxijie，yizhiyisichanlandadefangfa，zhuiqiujiuhuishibai，rangzishenfenshouhounanguo。zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？zhuiqiuaiderenshibixuyixiezhuinvshengjiqiaode，nvhaibudanyulaiyuduiniyouganjue，bingqiehaihuiduinitouhuaisongbao，juedeyouanquanganlibukaini，nizuigaixinlai。“zhuinvshengweishenmebukeyichangchanglianluo，yuanguqishibushihennan，dongdezheizhongjinjinzhuazhudebawotadexin。”zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

一、维持恋爱的感觉

 zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？pengdaozishenxihuandenvsheng，jiuhuigangkaishizhuiqiu，zhaoyigeyuanyinbiaoshuqingyi，henzaoyiqianmeiyouhulianwang，meiyoushoujishang，jiuhuijixinaidenvshengxieyifengqingshu，biaoshuzishendeaiyi，xiechengzishenxiangshuodehuagaozhilingyifang，zuixihuanta，jiaruqiahaotayeduiniyouganjue，huirangnihuifu，jiarutaoyanni，jiuhuihuijueni。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

 yongzuizhenzhengdebiaodaxingshi，jiushishuoqinzixiedebiaobaixin，tanazaishoushangduzhenixiedeyiziyiju，huihendadong。duinizaochenghaogandu，nvshengyikanjiuhuihenduiniyouganjuedeboxueduocai，juedenihaowuyiwendonglanman，shigedongzuiaideren。xiangyaojiangneifenzhenzangxinli，xiangyaotingnidexiaogushi，jiushishuoyiduanmeitan。

“nanhaierzhuinvhai，bixuweichiyixiexinxian，rangtajuedefangqini。”

二、拉开距离

 yixienanhaierhuixiangnvshengyiyangnianren，xihuannianzhelingyifang，feichangrongyizhuiqiushibai，zhuiqiuyifenganqingbixulakaijuli。lingyifangxiangyaonideneishihou，nizhenghaochuxianle，weitapaiyoujienan。tabuyongnishi，jiuzaifujinyouyu，erqiepeitazuoyixiexihuandeshi。zenmeyangzhuinvsheng？zhuinvhaijiqiaonaxiehao？

 budongaidenanhaier，zhuiqiulingyifangdefangfabumingbailakaijuli，helingyifangdejianjuhenjinjinmilianxi，zuizhongquebuqingchuhuirelingyifangbukaixin，changchangquzhaotaliangrennizaiyiqi。zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？chanzhetaliaogebuduan，nanhaierjingchanglianluonvshengjiuhuiranglingyifangzaochengyanxuexintai，juedezishenhenizaiyiqimeiyousuiyi。

 nixiangyigezhangbudadehaizi，xihuanhetazhandaoyiqi，tagenniyizhizaiyiqibuqingqingsongsongyebukaixin，jiarunidonglakaijuli，jiuliqudechenggonggengjinyibu。

三、与众不同的个性化

 xuduonanshengzaizhuiqiunvxingdeneishihou，meiyougexinghua，meiyouzhengfu2gan，bumingbaisisuo，meiyoushangjinxin，zhushibixuzuncongnvshengdejianyi，tajuedehenizaiyiqitinglei，jibianliangrendeguanliansuihao，tajuedebushangtengxi，juedenimeiyouqipo，meiyounanziqigai。

 nanshengzhuiqiunvshengdeneishihou，yikaishinijuedefeichanghao，nenggoushuochengwuketiaoti，bashidedoujileta，shijianzhangleliangrendeqingganquefaleyixiewupin。

 jianjiandidemeileneileijuede，xiangxuanbuhenizaiyiqi，peizainishenbiancisheng，taquemeiyoutongyinideguiding。juedejinguanduihenhaode，nengkaolvni，keshiqueyidiandoubuyuanhetazaiyiqi，meiyouzheileiniantou。

 yixienvshengxihuanxingqingwangdaodenanhaizi，budannengjitaanquangan，hainengyouyizhongzhengfu2gan。pingfandeshenghuomeiyoujiqing。nijuedezishenbixubierenzhaoliaoxiangyigexiaohaizi，bierenpengshouzhongneixin，niquefalegexinghua。

 nanshengzhuinvshengdeneishihoubiemeitianlianluo，youyijuhuajiaojulichanshengmei，lakaijuli，weichixinxian，weichigexinghua，duishenghuomanhuaixiwang。

 zenmezhuizijixihuanderen？ganqingzhong，buguannanrennvrendoubukeyitaizhanzhelingyifang，youzishendegexinghua，wulunnaxieshierdoubukeyiqianyibaishun，fouzedehuahuiranglingyifangzaochengyanxuexintai，buxiangyaotiejinni，neifenqingganbukeyizaici。