女生不肯理你，如何追女生?怎样提高情商？

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1.顺水推舟。

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？nvhaiwojuededouhenbaguakoucaihao，jiarutayunixianliaofeichangshaohengan，weibishitameixingquaihao，youjianghuijiushinizishenzhaodehuatitaoluntaifawei。shizhezhechuantoushenpangderenquzhangwotaxiaixienaxie，changchangzuoxienaxie，suihouzaipingshixianliaozhongbujingyidejianghuatitaolunladaotayouxingquaihaodefangweishang，budanburongyikanqilainankan，yehuirangtaganjuedajiazhongjianshiyouxianghugerenaihaode。yaoshiyikaiqihuaxiazi，nikeyikaixindeliaoxialai，liaotabujiusuiyueranlema。liaotianjiqiaonaxiehao？zenyangtigaoqingshang？

2.說話不必太立即。

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3主要表现自身。

 dashandejiqiaoyounaxie？zhuyaobiaoxianzishenhuoxubingbushizhi“touhuaisongbao”，zhishizhuyaobiaoxianchuzichanzuoweiyigechengshunanrenyingdangjuyoudeqichang。chuanzhedabanjianyiganjingzhengjiejiuxing，buyongqili，taiguodezhuiqiuwanmeibiaomianzhiyouzaishenkeyinxiangshangyouyidingdekoufen;dangdan，zheijiushiwochangshuodeyigeci，nanhaizizailianaijieduan，wojuedezuiguanjiandejiushishuoyaoyongyudandangyoushiminggan，nikeyirangtaganjuenidequeshiyigenenggoujiezhuyibeizideyouxiurencaixing。