追女生的时候，别死在仪式感上

怎么 追女生 ?仪式感就像蔬菜中添加糖。如果你不洒它，它将是无味的。如果你洒了太多的食物，它就会被破坏。当谈到女孩关心而男孩头痛的话题时，“仪式感”必须算作一个。追女生技巧有哪些?

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