追女生时的心态有多重要?

 zenmeyangzhuinvsheng?tingjianzheiyinantihenduorenhuishuozhuinvshengdezuigaojingjieshihaohuachedudongbieshu，shangyicaichan，huoshishilinghuoyunyonggezhonggeyangfangfahezhaoshu。bingbushizheizhong，jiugenshaolinsidedaogaosengyaoliangongyiyang，zuixianyaoxuexi(yijinjing)jiushishuoxinfa，caihuishibangongbei。 zhuinvsheng jiqiaoyounaxie?

yi，zuixianwomenlailejieyixiaxintaidezhongyaoxing

 zenmeyangzhuinvsheng?xintaizhuangtaishirenmenyonghuanfanzadezhuanyejineng，tameifagenjuyinrudefangfaruzhuniderennao，zhiyoujianjiandixuexi。shijianhuodongsuanshizhenshidejiaoshi，shishishang，youzheyouliangxintaizhuangtaidenan youxiurencaizuifufengcai。

 yiqianyouyigexiaobaobao，xiantianxingyouyizhonglizhidexinxin，zheileixinxinhuirangnvxingfahuo。wobuzhiyicidefajue，xuduonvxingjiandaotadiyiyan，jiuhuijuedenanshou。tahenmangran，zheizaitalaikanshiyouyouhuolide、ziaode、henshuaidexinxinjuede，zenmehuirangdiyicijiechudenvxingjuedenaonuni?

 wotanbaibenzhiwuxuzaiyinvxingdetihui，yaoshishaxiao，dangzuoneijiushinvxingduiniyouganjuedezhuyaobiaoxian。zheierjiushinidediguo，zainidipanzhei，yiqietingnide;

 piaoliangdenvrenshenghuozaizishendewangguoli，tajuedezishenyouzhezhukongxinpianquan，renherenyingdangqinfentaotadeqinglai。ertazuoweizheishijiedexiuluoshen，nenggoujueceshibushixiangyaonichuxianzaishenpang。

 keshiruguonizuoweixiuluoshen，yiqiejiangyuelaiyuedabuxiangtong。nizishendebixujiangbianchengzhuyaodeshiyongjiazhi。ninengrongxutazaizheigeshijietingliuyihuier，keshizishizhizhongnibawozhudaoquan。nichengdanfahaoshiling，youyuzheijiushinidediguo。niweitazuoweiyiyijianshijiushishuorangtaganxie，rangtajuededaotaxiangyaoni，erbingbushinibixuta。

 ruguonizaihudenvshenglejieniyouzheduozhongduoyangdeshenghuo，huoshinibijiaomangdeneishihou，tamenshizaitaiqidaijinjinweiraozainipangbian。yinci，tamenyaozuohenduoshierlaijinigaoxing，nijiangbianchengtamendexiuluoshen。

 yixienanshengfajue，piaoliangdenvrenchanggendiaojiuhezheixiegaozitaidexuanshouyouhui，erqiewanghusuoyi。zheizhongnanshengyibanhanyouyizhongjurenqianlidexintai，duizheixiezhiaidenvshengkaizhanjiance，genjuceshizhecaihaiyoujihuibianchenghuodetamenguanxindedutenvsheng。

 tashiyizhongwufadiyudeyouhuoli，nvxingzuomengdouhuidianjizhezenmerangzishenbianchengzuigaiyutapeiduidenvxing，qidaizheileimeilinanrenzhangqidiliudaozishenshenpang。rutonggushihoulianyinzhuzhongmendang，renmenzongquxiangyutongzheixieyuzishenpingjiqitarenpipei。renmenzishentongchangweizuigaimouleiyingxiangliergaoxing，feichangshilaizitarenduizishendexintai，zheiwomenyiqijuedekaolv。

rujinwoxiangjiaohuinideshi，zenyangyikaoyuzhongbutongdegexinghuahuoxintai，laixiyinzhuzheixieyuangaoyutalishudengjidenvxing。

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?zuixianshizenyangqiadangdidashanmeinv。wuxucaiyi，zuilihaidedashanmeinvxiaoshouhuashu，tongchangyejinjinyigehenjiandande“hai”zijiunenggounaxia。

 dabufennanshengbingbushilejie，tamendouxiangyaoyibukuihuabaodian。yincishoujiweixinshangmeirichangyouxuduorenfasiliaogenwoshuo：zenyangcainengqudechenggongdedashanmeinvpiaoliangdenvren?

 wonenggendajiashuodeshi，dashanmeinvbuqujueyuyanyu，gangkaishiyiduanhuihuadezhongyao，jiushinideshentiyuyan、lianbuqingxu、shengxiangyuqi。dangniyouyudanyoubeihuijueerrentifadou，huoshimeifajiangchuhualai，neima“kuihuabaodian”yejiubushangni。

 youyicixueshenggenwoshuoyoumuyouyizhongfangfa，nenggouhenyouhaodixiyinzhunvxingdejizhongzhuyili，yeyaodaziran，bukeyirangtajuechachunideshitu。

yibiangengqiangdezhengmingcailiao，rujinrenmenquxiangxiangyixia。

 zaiyedianli，nitaruqianwang，gangkaishigenyigenvrenxianliao。jinguannidemudijinjinjiance，bingfeiduitayounaxieaihao，keshinvxinghuirenweijini。buguanniganshenme，dougenggaibushangkeguanshishi。

neizheiyineishihougaizenmebanni?

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?feichangjiandan，yizhaonideniantouquzuoshier，wuxudanyougenqitananshengbutongxunchang。zhuyinvxingdemimiyanyu，kanyixiatamenshibushixiangyaogennixianliao。

 dajianenggouduoquxunlian，zaimeiyigechangsuoduiganglejiedenvshuo：hai，nizhangdehenxiangwoyigepenyou。liaoguohaoduogenvxingyihou，taxunsujiubawoleqiadangdeshentiyuyan、yindiao，erqiehuodefanmiandehuifu。dahuoergaoqingchuma