追女生的时候男生需要改变自身什么?

 xuduonanhaizizai zhuinvsheng dehuanjie，nanmianhuidoushiqinshenjingliguobeinvhaihuijuedezhuangkuang，daozhihenkunaohaishangxinyujue。youxieren，aiyigerenmeiyouliyou，neima，buaiyigerendouyaoyouyuanyinba。zhenduinvhaieryan，buaiyigerendeyuanyinhaizhenyou，erqiezheiyiyuanyinxiqiguguai，rangrendadieyanjing。huanjuhuashuo，zaitaneixin，jiushishuotaoyanni，yiqieshiernenggoubianchengbuaideliyou。nanhaizizenyangcainengchudongyigenvhai，dedaotadehaoganduherentongni?zenmezhuinvsheng?zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

01nikeyihuidabanzishen，huidiaozhuannvhaidexintai

 shijishang，nvhaiduinanhaiziyemeiyoushenmetingdadeguiding，bingbushixiangyaonimeitianhuashujialipin，meitianyinshizuodui，nongqingmiyi，yaoshishinengrangtajuedewennuan，juedexinlaijiujiuxingle。

nanhaizigennvhaizaiyiqideneishihou，duozuoyixiewennuandeshier，neiyangnvhaijiuhuixiangyaogennichupeng。

lanmandenanhaizi，shanyuzaishenghuodesuoshishang，jinvhaichuhuyiliaodeyiwaijingxi，caihuirangnvhaiduitashenshendichimi。

04yaorangtaduinijuededaotashikaopu

renmenyixienanhaizi，tongchangtaiguoqingtiao，zuoxiehaiziqideshi，zheibushiyingdangde。

 suoyourenxinli，doushiyongyoubuanwendejuede，jiazhongdeyaosu，huoshishijiaowangderenweizijichanshengdeweihai，doushiyongyouyidingdegongxiao。

 nvhaigengshiruci，tamenjingchangkongjukumen，zongganjueshenghuobuanwen。yinci，nikeyijitayizhongweiyigan，rangtatihuidaotashi，neiyangcaikeyirangtaduinizaochengyikao。

 nanhaiziduinvhaidekuanwei，ruguogegefangmiande，lirunichangchangshouhouta，duojianxinta，zaipengdaonantishi，quyutayiqideyingdui。jianjiandi，tayejiuhuiyikaoshangniba，yikaozaochengyihou，qinggandazirankeyijianjiandiyuelaiyuenonghou。

tanengchengdande，nikeyikuanweiheshouhou，tabukeyichengdande，nikeyinengweitazhichengdianqiyipiantian。

huanjuhuashuo，zaitaneixin，niyeshiyigetashikaopuderen，buguanshashi，tadiyigexiangdaoderenquanshini。

05nikeyiyouzerengan、jinquxinqiang

 nvhaizaigangkaishiyiduanlianqingshi，doushidiaochananhaiziyoumuyouzerengan，jinquxin，youyutamenganjue，yigemeiyouzerenganhejinquxindenansheng，shiburongyijitachanshengxingfukuailede。

 yizhiyu，yigenanhaizixiangyaoyibianjiazhongyibianlianrentatashishidejianfuqiyiwu，shizuiguanjiandeyaosu，zheiyexianeryijianbianchengnvhaizhaoduixiangshibibeidecengmian。

renmenchangshuo，qiongmeishier，keshibukeyiyibeizijiushizheiyangqiongxialai。

 shijishang，nvhaixiangyaojiageyigebiaozhunbingfeifeichanghaodenanhaizi，tongchangyouyuneiyangdenanhaiziyibanquanshihenqinfen，henqinfen。zainvxinyanzhong，tanengjiandaojianglaideqidai，caihuijienani。

 meiyounajianvhaihuijiageyigekanbudaoweilaideren，niyebuqinfenbuqinfen，neishirihaizenmewan?yinci，youzhejinquxinshizuiguanjiande。

 nvhaidouaichusedenanhaizi，zheibingfeizhinifeiyaoyouduoqudechenggongduofuyou，zhishijinichongzudezerengan，jinquxin，nengjitayigexingfukuailedejianglai。dongma。

 nanhaiziyaogaoqingchu，jibianduinvhaizibiaobaiqudechenggong，yezhishishiliangrenguanliandegangkaishi。yihoudeluhaihenzhang，renzhongdaoyuan，xiangyaoniyongzhenxinshiyiqukandai。aiqingcongbushiyigerendeshi，shiliangrenxianghunuliqinfendejieguo，yiqiewanmeideaiqingquanshiyongzhenxinshiyijiaohuode。aiyigerendaibiaoshenme?zheidaibiaoyiwu，yaoyongyudandang，bingqieweitadexingfukuaileerqinfen，weishiweilaishenghuoxingfukuaileerqinfen。

 yiyangde，aiyebixukuanrong，xianghushenaideren，xianghudexinshizuiwennuande。zaihaodezhuinvshengjiqiaodoubukeshimangmudi，zhishiyizhenxinshiyiyizhenxinshiyiqudadongta。nikeyilejie：quanshijiebuaideliyouyouxuduo，eraidebiaoxianzhinengyige：jiuxianghenizaiyiqi。yinci，renzhenquzhuiqiuniaidenvshengba。