追女生的时候，学会合情合理“欲擒故纵”

 zenyang zhuinvsheng ?zhuinvshengdeshihou，xuehuiheqingheli“yuqinguzong”，nengrangnigengrongyiliaodaomeizhi。benwenrenmenjiulaitaolunxiazheiyihuatitaolun。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

一、怎样追女生?

 xuduodixiongchangchangfanzheileibuzhengque：lejiemouyimeizhihou，jiaweixinhaoyou，suihoumeiriliaolailiaoqu，jiuneiyiliangju，meiyoushenmejindu，huozhipaoniunenggouyong“yuqinguzong”，nijiumeilitale，yincijiaowangba meilimeizhi。

gangkaishimeizhihaifaleyiwen，zhihoujiumeishashengxiangle。

 xuduogemenzheiyishihoujiugangkaishishangnao，fengkuangjimeizhifaxiaoxi，fajue，youxieren，fajuebeishandiaole，youdefajuemeizhibiyiqiangenglengmole。

yuqinguzong，bingbushishineimeyongde。

3、yuqinguzongdejibenyaosu

zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?yuqinguzongdejibenyaosushi：yanzangchongdong，youqianrushen。

dangmeizhiduinidouhaimeihendaxingquaihaodeshihou，nikeyixuehuiyanzangzishendechongdong，bubipuluguoduoyaoqiugan。

yiqingqingsongsongdezishi，qutiejinmeizhi，niyaoqiuduyaohemeizhiduiniyouhaoduzhengbi。

shuorenhuajiushishuo，nikeyiyijumeizhidefanying，pulushiduoshaoyaoqiudu。

 xuduonanhaizi，changchangpuluyaoqiu，yingshengshengjiushishuo1gediaosia，yidakou1gepiaoliangmeinv，haoxingganmiren，xionghenda，tuihaozhangzheileidehua，zheileihuajiubieshuolehaome?

 dajiayaolejie，zaizheiyidanshenhanchangkuangdeshidai，dajiabuyingdanglunluowei“nannaidiaosi”debuweishanga，xuduonvhai，yingduirulangruhudediaosi，jianguaibuguai，haiweichifangbei，naizhidichuyanfan。

 yexuxuehuiyanzangzishendechongdong，“jinyuxi”gaolengnanshen，nideyaoqiuganzhuyaobiaoxiandeyueruo，meizhiduinideqiuzhiyuhexingquaihaocaihuitishangqu。

naozilizhidianjizhemeizhidenanhaizi，yuebunenggaobiedanshen。

4、zenyangyazhidiyuqinguzong

创建舒适度

ziwotisheng，waizaihebenzhi，zheizhongwoyemeiquduotanle。

youyidianergengguanjian，shiniyaoxuehuihemeizhigaohaoguanxi，bingchuangjianqishushidu。

jianshaoyaoqiugan，huodemeizhidexinlai，nidegongjinenglimeineimaqiang，neimayihoudajiajiunengzaojiuchudaliangdeshijianhegailv。

lingwai，yeyouyiyunizhangwota，yegenglejienvren，duinieryan，jiushishuopaoniude1gexunlianma。

jishizuobulenvpengyou，niyizhizaitazheieryehuodehenvhaigoutongjiaoliudeduanlian。

yiner，jianshaoyaoqiugan，zaojiushushiquan，yongzheizhongpingjingdexintaiqugoutongjiaoliu。

学会分散化要求感

yaoqiugantaiqiangdenanhaizi，tongchangshenpangnvhaifeichangshao，dajianenggouguanchayixiaxia。

lejiegaofenshudiandenvhai，jiuhenbudelikechengbierendenanyou，zheileixintaizhuangtai，zennengliaodaomeizhini?

 womenjianyishi，dahuoerpingchangduogengezhonggeyangmeizhichupeng，genhaojigemeizhigoutongjiaoliu，bieyouyiqiexintaizhuangtaichengdan，nibieliaosaojiuxing，jiudanchunxingshuoshuohua，zaimingqueguanlianyiqian，zheileifangshi，nengxiezhunifensanhuayaoqiugan。

 ruguonixiangyaoshenhualaoguguanlian，nijiuzaicixiayijieduanduice，buhaodehua，youyigenvxingpengyoudoushimeiyoushenmewenti，zheisuanshi1gegaoduandaqinanhaiziheyixingpengyoujiaowangdeyazhizishi。

“youhaogandu”suanshiguzongdejiben，xiangyaodiaoshangta，qiantitiaojianshi，jinibixudeyouhuolia。

 yiyangshijinvhaichixu10geyelidaowananhaomeng，weiheyoudenanhaizinengrangmeizhidaozhui，youdenanhaizizhongzhihou，meizhisongyidakou，zongsuanbulaifanwole。nantichuxianzainaer?

 youhuoli。qianmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitayouhaogandu，houmianyizhongnanhaizishinvhaiduitadichu。yiner，xiangyaoyongyuqinguzong，qiantitiaojianshi，meizhiduijinibixudehaogandu，zheiyifangfanengjinkuaicujindajiadeguanlianjindu。jiarunvhaiyuanbenjiutaoyanni，niruheyuqinguzongdoubuqizuoyong。yexuxiangrangnvhaixiaixihuanni，quhaohaoditigaozijideqiangzhishiyongjiazhiherouxingshiyongjiazhi。