追女生前要确定好自己的心意

 zenmeyang zhuinvsheng ?henduorenjiandaoleheyidenvsheng，zongyouzhuiqiudechongdong，laidaozuizhongyouyizhihuizhuibule。huoxuzheixierenyaoshuozishendanliangxiao，yeyouxierenshuozaidenghuier，guojirizaizhui。shijishangzheizhong“zaidenghuier”，huozhe“haipa”deniantougengshizhuiqiunvpengyoudechoudi，yaolejie，zaizheiyishijian，xiangyaodengnvshengzishensonghuoshangmenlai，jibenshangshibutaikenengde，ruguonirenshuaihuozhefuyou，buranzheileitianjiangdehaoshier，xiangdoubiexiang。neimazhaozheimeshuo，zenmeyangzhuinvsheng?wojuedeyeburongyifeichangdejiannan，yaolejie，wojuedejuedaduoshudenvshidoufeichangdekeling，tamenzaishehuigongdedeyueshulixia，daduoshuzhiyoudengnanshenglaizhui，jinritaruguosheqilenidezhuiqiu，tamenyehuidanyoudaoshihouyeyourenlaizhuihaiyaodengduojiu?zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

 shouxian，dajiayaoyougetiren，neibianshiyaozenyangxuanzhonglingyiban。xuanzhonglingyibanxuyaoyouchengxin，bubibaodingwanxiajiuzoudexintaizhuangtai，yiyangde，haiyaoshiqiankaolvdaogexinghuadepeiduinanti，yifangzhilairiyeyaoyoutichufenshoudekunhuo，shubuzhitashijianrenjianzhide，yaoshibiciganjuelingrenmanyi，zaihaodejiannandoushinenggoubaituode。

yinciruguonijuedezishenbuhuiliaotian，yebubiqinei，nvhaikandejiushinidefengcai，ershaoliuyinideneirong。

c.youzhexianghudezongtimubiaoyumudi，shikaiqitaxinlideshouxian：

 rangliangrenyouxianghudezongtimubiaoyumudi，feichangfeichangrongyirangtayoulianggerenshigongtongmingyundecuojue，zheidoushihenduohuahuagongzichangjiandejiliang。cileizhuangkuangzaidaqiyelifeichangpubian，xianglaobanhemishuyinweiliangrenyaoxianghuyingduiwaibudeexingshijian，yinciyefeichangfeichangrongyichanshengqinggan。

 wojuede，zishenhaikeyixiangyixiaxia，rujinniyunitongxuemen，ruguoyikuaierduitongzheijiangongzuozhongerqinfenshi，shifouhuijiaoweiqinmijiechuni?

 yiyangde，ruguonenghaiyoujihuinenghetaxianghujiejuekunnan，huozhezainiantoukeyilizaitaneiyimiandehua，bidingnengmashanglajinyutazhongjiandejianju!

 tongyang，zaishuohuashangdoushixiangtong，yuqishuoshi“nihewo”jiuburushuoshi“renmen”laidehaola。zainaoquxialai，youdeshihou，zishenruguofanlenaxiecuohuozhemouxielingrenlejieyemianshangdemimihaikeyirangtalejie，huoxu，yingshuodefangfonizhiduitazijishuoyiyang，neimayinweilianggerenjuyouxianghudemimi，yefeichangfeichangrongyilajinbicidejianju;huozheshuoliangrenyikuaierfanleyixiecuoerbuxurenlejiedehua，yeshiruchuyizhezhimiaoe。

d.goutongjiaoliushi，yaofangzhiwen“shi/fou”laihuiyingdenanti：

 youxieren，zaigangpengmianshi，yizhitanmeiyouyiliangjujiumeiyouhuashuojiangle。zixixiangyixiaxia，henduoren quanshifanlexiangtongbuzhengque，jiushishuolaowenmouxie“shi”huo“bingbushi”jiunenggouhuiyingdenanti..ng，haoxiangshuo，niwenta：「nikanbukanyingpianni?」jiubibushangwenta：「nipingshiyoushenmeyulehuodongni?」laidehao。youyumeiyicitayaoshishuo“shi”huo“bingbushi”jiukehuiyingdehua，neimalianggerendetanhuaneirongbingbushituranzhijianjiugaoyiduanluoma?

e.yunvhaigoutongjiaoliushi，wubiliuyimouxiebunengfanfumingquetichudebihuijuzi：

 nvhaifeichangrongyizaoshouanshizhedeshuipingbinanshiqiang，zhenduinanshiganjuebuzaiyidefanfujuzi，zaiqianyishizhong，haihuishangxianvshideniantou。

 pirushuo，yiweinvshiruguozishenganjuezishenpifuanchen，neimaniruguozongshizaijiangtarendejifuruhebutaihaodehua，huirangtawurenweiniyizhizaixianta，tashiyikaishixiangchushibixuyaoliuyide。

d.kuazannvxingdejishu：

 woxiangyao，dajiayelejie，yaoxianglaizhui1genvsheng，zongzaisuonanmianyaokuazantayiliangju，shubuzhijiushishuoxuduorenkuazanderangnvshixiangyong，youxierenquemapihuipaixiamajiaoshang。

 yaokuazannvshi，bixuyaomingquetichu“shijide”suoshu，zenmeshuo，haoxiangnikeyizanyang1genvshiyouduohaokan，bukeyishuo“nihaopiaoliangya”，zhishiyaogaoqingchudeqiangdiao：“nidejifuhaohaodiyo!”huozhe“nideshuangyanhaoyoulingqia!”dengde，yaoyanzhiyou“wu”，yaogaoqingchudebiaodatahaodediqu，buranfeichangrongyilingrenzaochengzailiuxupaimadehuanjue，neimakuazantasuoxuyoudejingjixiaoyijiubutaihaole。

 huozhehaikeyihuangefangfashuo：“dajiadouganjuenihaopiaoliange”yizhongde，yunyongtarendeyuyan“dajiadoushuo”laikuazan，neimanvshifeichangrongyiganjuezheibingbushifengcheng，zhishizhenzhengde。

e.rentidebujingyichupeng，shitigaoxianghuqinggandehaofangshi：

 zaiganglejiedeshihou，woxiangyaodajiachangyougongzuojingyan，jiushishuorenherenzhijianderentijianjujiaoweiyuan，bujinshibutaishu，zaiyucitongshidoushirenmengerenxingweidetedian，duibutaishuderenyaolakaijuliyiceanquan。

 budanshixintaizhuangtaishangzheiban，chuwaizaidezhuyaobiaoxiandoushizheiban。yincishuozenmezhuinvsheng，dangliangrentanhuaneirongtandefeichangkaixin，erzaishentishangdai“wuyijian”dechupengshi，nengzaizaiqianyishizhonglitigaoxianghudejianju。

huoxu，zheiyideyongdeyoufangfa，buranyilingrenyou“qinhai”dejuede，keshihuazhongyouhua，zheidoushifeichangdebanfa。

 yincishuo，weishenmezaijiaonvyouzhichu，dajialaoxiangqiyaozenyangqiandaotadeshoushixiangtongdedadaoli，nengyourentishangdechupeng，zegengnengtigaoxianghuqinggan。

 yincile，ruguoyounvshengzongshiwuyijiandepengpengniruhede，jinguanbubiaodatabixushiduiniyouganjueruhede，zuishaonenggoubiaodatajiangnidangzishenyouxiurencaihuiyouneiyangdezhuyaobiaoxian。