追女生时，女生觉得跟你在一起很累是什么原因?

 zenmeyang zhuinvsheng ?qingwenyixia，nvhaiweishenmehuijuedegenwozaiyiqihenlei?haishuozaigenwoyuehuideshihouxiangshangbanyiyang，qingwenwogaizenmeban?nvhaijuedeshenxinpibei，tongchangyou3geyuanyin。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?

1、欠缺上进心

 lirunvhaizuoshengrideshihou，tafeichangxiwangjiedao1gelipin，feichangqidaiyuninqujita，keshijieguoniwangjilehuoshisuiyisailegelipinjita，cuxin，huirangnvhaiduinideqidaichengkong，naizhichanshengwujie，juedenibuzaiyita，yincijuedeyunijiaowanghenlei。

 baohanyixienanhaiziyaoyuenvhaichulaishizhongdoumomojijidebujiji，zheijiuhuirangnvhaijuedewojuedeniyemeineimaxiaihezaiyita。

 zheileirenshuodechaohaotingdianshizhinanshuaige，shuonantingjiushinilan。lirunijuedezheiyishiwolijineiyangbanshifeichangjiandande，juedenvhaijijiwaiwaiwentiduo?keshinvhaixuduoshihoujijiwaiwaiyouyutabulingrenmanyi，tajuedenanshou，youshishijuedenibuzaiyita，youshijuedenimeichengxin，youshijuedewobuzhongshita……

zheileirenzuifeichangrongyibeibierenmadeshisha?

“niruheyidianeryebuchengshuqi!"

nanhaizibeibierenshuobuchengshuqi，wojuedeshiqingshangdidehanyi。

 zheileirenzuifeichangrongyichudenantishijiaowangshizhaoliaobushangtarendetihui，jiushishuojuedezishendeshiergengguanjian，youdeshihoujiufeichangrongyihushidiaotarendetihui，lirubuzhongshinvhai，tajiuhuijuedewobuguanzhuta，suihoutazongyouzheizhongbubeijienadejuede。

 zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?neiyangderenruguozaoshoucuobai，feichangrongyiyihuishenqueshidaodedixianbianchengtiangou，yuanyinyefeichangjiandan，huanshiyouyutazhiguanxinzishendeyushi，zisizilibuchengshuqishizhiguanxinzishende“de”，erbianchengtiangoutongchangshibuganhuoshidanxinsangshi，tashiyimashi。

yincixuduotiangouquguanzhu、wenhao、guoduozaiyinvhai，wojuedeguigenjiedihuanshiyibiantazishen!

neima，xuduorenyaowenle，zhuiqiunvshengbujiushishuoyibianhuodema?

 xiangyaobingmeiyoucuo，danshiyiduanhua，shixianquzhi，bixianyuzhi，dangnitaizisizili，jieguojiufeichangrongyibianweiguitian。nidelizudianhezhuguanyinsutarentihuihuode，nitaiguodulingrentihuidaonidezhuguanyinsu，huijifatarendefangyulixintaizhuangtai。

 zheiyangyilai，nidenuli，zaiyiheguanzhu，feichangrongyijirenyizhongtashifangshibingfeimudi，jiarushuonidezhuguanyinsubuliang，biaoshuzhuguanyinsudefangfayouguoduculu，tarenjiuhuishifendichu。

 lirunajiapenyouduinizhenxinshiyi，najiapenyouzhaoshuduo，ninandaoshuobuqingchuma?jianghuiduinidefangfayiyang，youxierenjiujuedetaduinitingbucuode，keshiyouxierenjiujuedenalibudui。

 tashirentihuifangmiandenanti，jinjinjiaruzijizhuguanyinsubuliang，nisuocaiyongdebiaodaxingshiyingdanggengweiqiadanghelingrennengjiena，lirutarenbingle，lejiezuixihuanta，jiarutaduinibingbushilejie，nijianghuibuyilijisongyaoshangmensongwupin，jiarulejietapenyouhuoshihaoguimi，nenggoutuotahaoguimiqukanwangta，suishoudaixieduitarentiyouyichudewupinyiwang，jiusuantalejienidezhuguanyinsu，dannineiyangbiaoshugengweilingrennengjiena，keyirangtajuedeshushi。jiusuannijiushishuofenbiexin，keshinidejutifangfakeyijirenyizhongshushierbingbushidichu，yeburongyifazhanqushibianchengguitian。

跪舔是什么?

 dangnidoucaiyongzheizhongdanyihuadefangfa。jiuhuidaozhinidenuli，nideguanzhu，rangnvhaijuedenibingbushizhenxinshiyi。niyizhizaitashoushangzuozheizhongshierjinjinyibianhuodeta，yincihuirangtarenjuedenanshou。

 yinweinidegezhonggeyangnuli，youmeihuodenixiangyaodeshijixiaoguo，suihoujiuhuiyuelaiyuegengmailidequnuli，huijuedezishenshifouchengxinbuzu，nulibuzu。suihougerenxingweifangshidazirandijiubianweiguitian。

 lirunvhaibingle，keshidajiadeguanlianweidaonagefenshang，niquezhuyaobiaoxiandehenguanzhuhenzaiyi，jitasongyaoshangmennaxiede，neinvhaijiuhuixiang：nihewohaimeiyoudaonagechengduba。

 nijiarushuonineileiyibianquhuodetadexintaizhuangtai，jiuhaipatarenbuqingchujiushiniweitaganlenaxie，suihoujiuxianglaizhuyaobiaoxianzishennulileshiduoshao，liruwojiniganlenaxie，rangnimailaishenme，wangtuyongzheileifangfaqudadonglingyifang，danneiyangtongchangzongshitishenglingyifangdehaikuanxingjingshenyali，duidajiadeguanlianfazhanqushifanerqilefanzuoyongli。

 zaizheileishihou，nvhaixuduoshihoudoushixiang：nidequejilaidaowowupin，woyouxiangtanqishibianyi，danzheigerenwoyoubuyuanjiena。yincijiuhuirangnizaochengzheizhongnuanweidexintai，gouzhenibuduannuli，shijianzhangle，yejiutianle。

bubirenweiquanbunvhaiquanshihongcha，xuduonvhaigangkaishibingbushizheimoyang，daduoshuquanshibeitianchenghongchade。