追女生过程中的3个常见错误，切勿违犯!

 zenyang zhuinvsheng ?doulejie，nvhaibingbushizhuilaide，zhishixiyinzhulaide。neimaxiyinzhuyihoudequanguochengni?dangnvhaixiangyaoherenmenxianliao，chupeng，youhui。kanshangqushigefeichanghaodekaishi。ertongchangruguoniganjueshunshunlilideneishihou，ka，silele。nanhaizizaixiyinzhuzhihou，zhibuguojinlaidaonvhaidetiaoxuanquduan，dequezhenduinanhaizilaijiang，qudedesuanzuoyifuhaopai。zhuinvshengjiqiaoyounaxie?keshichupengdequanguocheng，shiyigedadajiafendequanguocheng，lirunidetiexin，shanxin，sanguanzhengzheixie;lingwai，doushinanhaizipuluquexiandequanguocheng，yigekoufendequanguocheng，youyurendouhuifancuowu。xiyinzhuhouchupengquanguochengzhongde3gechangjiancuowu，bixuyaolaojizaixin，qiewuweifan!

1.guoduzishen，xiaizhenglun

 “jinguanwojiaoweichuantong，keshiyeganjueneiyanggengnengfanyingnvhaideshenxing。zongsuandaoxiajile，huoxuyaoxiuchuzishendeshenxingla......”

guanliangengqiangdezhuangkuangxianaizhinenggoushuo：

“jiyilidouxiangqinichuanneijianyifukuzidejiemianle，bixufeichangxingganmiren，heihei。”

2.一心的单方努力

 chupengguoguoduodexuesheng，henduorendouxiayishiduinvhainuli，bingqieshimeiyouliyoude。guanxintitie，shangbanzhuanchejiesong，xiayishifuqian，banvhaidangzaowuzhuxiangtongjingfeng。daozuizhonglingyifanghaibangbushangmang，juedezishenxianggezhizhang。shishishang，renmenaiyigeren，yizhixiangmailideduitahao。changshizheileifangfalaibiaoshuhezhengshizishendeqingyi，“huhuan”nvhaideqinggan。wojuededangnineiyangzuodeneishihou，wojuedeshibiaoshuleshuangcenghanyi：

1.woshimeiyouzishendenansheng，wonengjiangnidangquanqiu。

2.wochukaixintengni，meiyoubiedekechushideshiyongjiazhi。

zuoyouwojuedehaixing，erdangnuliguoduo，yibufennanhaizinaizhihuimengfachuzheileiniantou：

“woduinineimehao，jiuyingdanghewozaiyiqi!”

 tashinanhaizizaiqianyishizhonglidexingzhuang，yinerhuiyinqimouxiesuoyaoshouyidegerenxingwei，liruanshizhelingyifangzishendezhenshishenfen，yuzainvhaixinlideyingxiangli。nvhaizehuijuededaonameirenbibeiduan，ganjueniduitahao，tashifouye“yingdang”duiniyouganjue。

 dangzheileixintaizhuangtaichuxian，jiuzaochengledaziranxiaidezaocheng，nvhaixinlijiekanghuizaochengxiyinzhuwailiu。shishishang，nvhaijibianjieshouni，doushichuziyukeguanfangmiande，erzhenshideqingganhekeguanshibuxianggande。xuduonanhaizibazishenbianweilelianqingguanlianzhongde“gongjizhe”，ruguo“gongji”gongzuonenglijianshao，huoshilingyifangpengdaogengqiangdetiaoxuan，mashangjiunenglikaini。

恰当方法：

 meiduanlianqingguanlianzhong，nvhaizhenduiqinggandeganshou，bingfeilaiyuanyuyutazainishoushanghuodelenaxie，zhishizaiyutazaizheiyiduanguanlianzhongnulilenaxie。renmenzongshizaiyizishenzijintouruguodeshiqing，rutongrenmenbushedeliquziji，shizhishangshizaizheiyirenshoushangnulileguoduodeshijian、huoli、qingganzheixie。yincibixuyaoxuehaoqiadangde“huhuan”biaozhun，ruguoniduinvhainulilenaxie，haiyaoshidudeduitatimouxieguiding，rangtajuedenidenulishitazishenqinfendejieguo。

 liru，qingnvhaikandianshiju，nenggourangtaqubangnimaiheyibeiyinpin;nvhaijinibangzhu，nenggourangtaguohouniyaoyongcan，huoshizuishaohaiyaorangtayongxindezanmeizanmeinizheixie。

jilao，qianwanbiebazheilei“huhuan”biaozhunbianweixiaodujichang，xiangzhezaizheixingnvhaishiruhezuode?

rutongyoushi，worangzhuliyuanjiwozuomouxiegongzuozhongyiwaideshiershi，tajiuyaoshuo：

“wozuodeneimehao，buqingwoheyibeixianmokafeiya。”

yibizhidao，haizhibishen，fangkebaizhanbaisheng。

3.changchangchangshishuodongnvhai

 dabufennanhaizisuonuliderenhe，douhuibeinvhaihushi，naizhihuijue。youyigeyuangu，jiushishuonanhaiziyizhiwangtushuodongnvhaixiaizishen。dangnvhaiduirenmenbingbuxihuandeneishihou，qidao、shuodong、sipilailianzheixie，quanshikongxianggenjukeguandefangfagenggaitaduinideguandian，zheibingbushikandaiqinggangaiyoudexintai。

rutongxialiezheileixiangjindezhuangkuang，xiangxinxuduodixiongchangyoupengdaoguo。

nan：jintiandetianqifeichanghao，xiangbuyuanquxxwan?

女：不愿去。

nan：tianneimehao，jialidaizaijialiganshenme，duowuqu。(shuodong1)

女：不愿上去。

nan：chuquba，wopeinichimeiweidea。(shuodong2)

nv：bushang，woquxizaole。。。

男孩子，卒

xuduoneishihouruguonichangshishuodongyigenvhaitongyinideguidingshi，jiuyingdangxiangqitahuizhaodaowushutuocilaihuijueni。

“gaobaisi”jiushishuozuixianzhudeshuodongbuchenggongdejieguo。

dabufennanshengdegaobaijuxingquanshi：

“woshizaitaishizaitaiduiniyouganjue，woyuanxintengnizhaoliaoniyisheng，zhihouwonengruheruhe，qiunizuowonvpengyouba”

jiandaoleme，nanshiluojisiweizaiqianyishizhongdezuofa，jiushishuoxiguanxingshuodongnvhairuheruhe。

恰当方法：

 nvhaizhendui“youhuoli”zheiyidingyiyouzishendepingdingguifanhexiayishi，nimeibanfasuibiangenggaita。yiqiewangtushuodongnvhaitongyinideguidingdefangfa，douzongshirangzishenlunluoqingganzhongdeqigai。jibiantatongyileni，yejinjinchuziyukelinghewenminglimao。qiadangdefangfashirangnvhainenggou“zishenshuodongzishen”，zheizhongjianyoushizhidechabie。

ruguonichuangjianqichongzudeshushiduhexiyinzhudeneishihou，tadaziranhuirentongni，zhudongdexiangyaotongyinideguiding。

 zheierrenmennenggouyongyigemohubuqingyugudefangfalaijinxingzheiyiquanguocheng，liruniyunvhailiaodesuanshifeichanghaodeneishihou，nenggouxiangxiabianneiyanghudongjiaoliu：

ni：jiarupeiniquxxwan，nishifouhuizoudiua?

nv：nicaihuizoudiu，wojiaoxunhaozheni。

ni：heihei，neishihouwoyexuyizangqilai，kannishifouhuixunzhaowo。

女：你就试一下喽。

zheileifangfajiushishuorangnvhaizaizaiqianyishizhonglizaoyichanshengyunipengmiandezishi。

erdajiazhongjianxushuyuedadepengmianyugu，tayueduofeichangrongyitongyinideyaoqing。

huoxu，zheirenhedeqiantitiaojianquanshiyaochuangjianzaixiyinzhuheguishugandejibenshang，zhongjiubunengyongshuodongdefangfagenggainvhai。

zuoyou3dian，jiarunikeyiraokai，neimajiarushouwozhediyishouhaopai，lihuoshengyejiuhenjinle。