男生追女生的十大禁忌

 xuduonanshengyizhigaobudong，weihezishenwangshangkanguoneimaduoliaomeitaolu，jiangguoneimaduohuayanqiaoyu，nvhaibudanduizishenshierbujian，fandaoyulaiyutaoyanzijile。zenmezhuinvsheng?yuanyinhenjiandan，zhuinvshengjiqiao，yeshijinqu，dangnimeiyoulijingxitongruanjiandexuexipeixun，qinglvmoshitouguohe，feichangrongyiyouyuweifanzheizhongjinji，zaochengbeishandiaojiaruheimingdan。jinrijiulaihewomenyiqilailiaoyiliao，nanshengzhuibudaonvrendeshidajinji，jiqi zhuinvsheng jiqiaoyounaxie?zenmezhuinvsheng?

buzhengqueyi： duitataihao，danfangmeiyouliyounuli

buzhengque3： yizhishuncongnvrendejianjie，erqiexiangtakenqiurentong

juedabufennanshengyudaozishenxiaidenvrenshi，yizhiyixindiquzancheng、shuncongnvrendejianyi。

 tamenganjueneiyangjiunenghuodenvrendexin。tamenjuede，yaoshizanchengta，jiuhuirangnvrenjuedeshushi，gaoxing。niyizhiyanzheta，tayoumeiyoushenmeyuanyinbukaixin?

 duileyexutahuiduiniyoushan，yexuniyizhizaizanchengtajianjiedeneishihoutahuifeichanggaoxing，keshiduitalaijiang，dajiadeguanlianjiudaociweizhi，meibanfachaoyueyixingpengyoule。

 wojuededuinvreneryan，tamengengxiaizheixieyouzishenniantouheshangjinxindenansheng，erbingbushizheixieyitiandaowanzongshiyuanyitamendejianjieheguidingdenansheng。

想不到吧?

 youyujiaru1genanhaiziyizhishuo“haode”、“duide”zheizhongshuncongdehua，huikanqilaizishenqianqueshangjinxin，meiyounanzihanqigai，nvrenduineiyangdenanshengyouweishenmehuidongxinni?

buzhengque 4： yizhichangshigenjuqingtayongcanhesongtalipinlai“mai”taduinidexiai

 shuyixia，niqingnvrenchiwanjihuifan，mailaishiduoshaolipin，songleshiduoshaohuajita?dantahuanshixiaidaoletaren，naizhineirendegeleibiaozhunbingbibushangni，yemeiruhesongguolipin。

 wojuede，tashiyiqiezhengchangde。nizuozheizhongshiershi，wuxingzhizhongzhuanda1gexinxineirong:"jirannidebenrenfengcaimeifaxiyinzhuta，nijiuyongqiancaicaifulaihuilutadeqinggan。"

 zheiyiduanqingganbudanbeinixiazhetengbianchengzheichangjinxingjiaoyi，haipubiancunzaizishenwubibuzixin，duitayongyoumingxiandeyaoqiugan。yaolejie，meiyouxinxindenansheng，bukeyiweinvrenchanshengqipandeguishugan，youweihecongxinlilizhengfunvren?

buzhengque5： taizaogaobai，zaixiangchuzhongguozaodixiangtaqingtuniduitadeqinggan

lingwaibeijudebuzhengquejiushishuojuedaduoshunanshenghuiguozaodixiangnvrenqingtuzishende“tihui”，taizaoxiangnvrengaobai。

youmeilidenvrenshixiquede，yibanhuibeixuduonanshengguanxin。

tamenfeichangrongyizaochengnanshengdeguanxin，youyanguangpiaoshide，youguanxintitiede，naizhiyoudeshengshunanshenghuiguolaidahuazheixie。

tamenyibanbeixuduonanshengzhuiguo，naizhihexuduonanshengxiangchuguo，tanguolianqing，zaiqingganshangdaixuduogongzuojingyan。

yincitamenlejienideyijuyidongdaibiaonaxie。youjianshiernengrangtalikeduinisangshixingquaihao，mashangcongnishenpangliqu，

dangnijizhexiangtagaobai：“nizaoma，wowojuedequeshi，queshi，henduiniyouganjue。”

 zheiduiyoumeilidenvreneryan，xiangdangyugaozhita，niyubiedemeizhuishangtadenansheng，meiyoushenmebutong，bukeyiguanlizijideqinggan，danshishiguidaozaitashiliuqundeyou1getiangou。

yonghetarenxiangtongdefangshi zhongjiubukeyijinichuleibacui，fandaohuijiasunidebuchenggong。

因此，不必那么做。

buzhengque6： yaoqiugantaiqiang，burongyiyouxiaoguanlizijixintai

 yaoqiuganzhijiushizhiniduitazaiyideshuiping。nishibushiyouyuyingbuyinggaifaxinxi、yingbuyinggaitongdianhuaerdanxindabantianni?nishibushiyouyuqixijieyaosongliwusongshenmeerfanchouni?nishibushidanxinyuyingbuyinggaiqiantadeshouhuoshixubuxuyaogaobaizheileidenantini?

 jiaruyou,nijiubiaomingniduitayoujiaoqiangdeyaoqiugan。ruguoyongyouganqingshangdeyaoqiu,jiufeichangrongyishenxianpugong,zheidoushi"sheixiangaobaisheixiansi"deyuangu。

 yaoqiugandechabiehuidaozhibicibuyiyangdeshicha。yaoqiuganxiangduixingjiqiangdelingyifanghuiganjueshijianbeibianzhangle,yizhixinshenbuanfeijinxinsihelingyifanglianluo，jinerbiandehusiluanxiang,yizhidanyouzishennaerzuodebutaihao,jilingyifangchanshengbutaihaodeyinxiang;huoshidanyousangshilingyifang,santianliangtoufaxinxitongdianhua,jiarulingyifangjilebutaihaodefanying,rutongtiantaxialaixiangtong。

 zaiganqingdeqianqi,yaoqiugantaiqiangshihuijudadijianshaozishendeyouhuolide,yinci,qingweihaizishendexintai,biezuoneigejisedenansheng。

buzhengque7： renwei“qiancai”he“xiangmao”shixiyinzhunvrendezhongyao

wofaxianxuduonanshenghaimeiyougangkaishijiuzaoyisheqile……tashi1gehenpubiandebuzhengque

youyutamenrenweinvrenzhiduishuainanhefuyoudenanshenghenganxingqu。

 huoxu，queshishiyoubufennvrenzhiduizheizhongwupinhenganxingqu。danjuedaduoshunvrengengzhuzhongnanshengdegexingtedian，yuanyuandiheduitadeqianjiahezhangxianghenganxingqu。

 zhinengjishaoshunanshengcailejie“gexingtedian”nenggousuibianxiyinzhuyiqienvshi，erqierangnvrenkongzhibule，rutongcitiexiangtong……zheijiushishuoweiheyixienanshengrenmenganjuebinghencha，queyizhibeigezhonggeyangnvrenweizhuzhuan。

tiqianzhunbeihao，woxiabianyaojiangdehuahuijinimashangjidongqilai……

ruguonixuehaolezheixie“gexingtedian”erqielejiezenyangyingyongtamen，jiunengbianchengnageshifenxiyinzhunvrendenansheng。

 yaowozaishuoyibian: jiarunilejiezenyangqiadangyingyongnideshentiyuyanhegoutongdejiqiaodeng“qiangoutongjiaoliu”dewupin，laichengxianzheizhongshenmidegexingtedian, neimajiunenggoujinvrenchanshengqiangjingdexingyouhuoli，jiuyunizishenjiandaoxingganmiren、huolameinvshidejuedexiangtong。

buzhengque8： taiguoduzaihunvrenchangshuodehua

 jiaruwoaita，woyedezaihutashuodemeiyiduanhua。tashuowoneijianyifukuzibupiaoliang，woyehennanmeiquchuanta，tashuotataoyandaijinshiyanjingdenanshengwoyedaiyinxingyanjing……

tashuotaoyanni，yincijiuhuiliquta?

zaihunvshuodehua，shixuduonanshengchangchangfande1gebuzhengque，zheihenyiqiezhengchang。

 jinjinniyizhizaihutashuodehua，huirangtaganjuenizaoyichongzugaoduzhongshita。yejiumeiyoubixuyibianjinizaihutaernuliqinfenle。

换句话：

 tanenggourujinxiangfengzhengxiaomoxiangtongjiangnifangdaotiankong，xiangjiannideneishihoudadianhua，buyuanjiannideneishihou，nifaxinxitadoubuxianghui。naizhi，shenbeiniqiaoqiaoheqitananshengyouhui。

buzhengque9： bumingbailijishengjiguanlian

 youxierenweiheshizhongzainvrenyanqianshi"haohaoxiansheng"?youxierenweiheshizhonggongkebushang"youqingguanlian"?youdeguanlianweiheshizhonghenfawei,meiyouyisisireqing?

jiarujinizuoyouyihuo,qingzaicijianchayixiaxia,niyutazailianqingquanguochengzhizhongshifoushaole"rentichupeng"zheiyijieduan!

 shenglixueweihaixintaizhuangtai,xintaizhuangtaiyouxiangfanweihaishenglixue,rentichupengshibiciqingganshengjidebijingzhiluquanguocheng,rentijianjudeqinmijiechuhuijianshao2gexintaiguochengjianju,jinerjiazhongbicideguanlian,zaijibenshangquanbudewenhuayishuzhizhong,rentichupenggangkaishiquanshinanshihexinde!

 yinci,tongzhimenliuyile,rentiqinjinchixushengjidezheiyimeirirenwushirenmennanshimendeyiwu,zaigai"zuo"deneishihou"buzuo",nideduifangjinguanburongyishuo,keshinijiuhuifaxian,dajiadeguanlianmanman"leng"chulai!

yinci,"beiheiguo"derenmenbei,"wulai"derenmenzuosheijiaorenmenshinanxing!

keshi,xuduonanshenghuipengdaonanti:wojiushipengtahaoni?huanshibupengtahaoni?pengnaerhaoni?tahuifoudawo?

 deque,zaimeiyouxitongruanjiandelilunchuangxindeneishihou,zheiqueshihenkunrao。youbufenrenjinjinyuwangdi"zuo",rangnvshengganjuenanshou,huoshi,naizhiyiqingdudebaolidichuerjieshu。

 lingmouxierenjuecemeiqutanxian,huijuerenhechupenghuoshentichupeng,neiyang,changchangzhuanda,taduinvhaibuxihuan,huoshitataiqieyubiaoshu,lijibeiqiang。

neima,jiujingruhechulizheiyifanzadenantini?reliehuanyingguanxinrenmenbishizhijinkouqingganjiaoyujingyingtuandui。

buzhengque10： conglaibuqiuzhu

tashiquanbu10gebuzhengquezhong，jiaodade1ge。

gengshizheiyibuzhengque，rangjuedaduoshunanshengzhongjiumeifahuodetamenzhenshixiangyaodenvrenyutamendeai。

wolejie，renmennanshengtaoyanxianchuzishendequedianhuowunaideyibian。renmentaoyanxunzhaotarendexiezhu。

wochedilejie，wozhiqiandoushineiyang!

rujinnizhixuhaohaodibuduanxuexipeixunrenmendecailiao!

huoxunihaikeyizhangwoxiarenmenbiqianshouwangzhandehulianwanglianqingkechengpeixun、huoshixianxiatuiguangkechengpeixun。

 erqie，cihouchulibuqingchuhenvshengliaonaxie，zenyangyuehuinenggourangnvrengengweiduiniyouganjue，quanmiantigaohenvrenqinmiwujianshuiping，jiqiruhejianyikuaisudihemeinvyuanmanchaoguo“shentiqinmiwujian”deshuiping。

zuizhong，woyaoyunigongxiangzheitiao“jindao”。

 duilezairenmenbishizhijinkoujingyingtuanduidelaoshidouhualeliangniandeshijian，likailexuduodewandaohou，renmenfajuelezheitiaojindao，zheiwomenyiqiyonggengkuaideshierlejieerqiebawolexiyinzhunvrendemimi、fangshi 、yishihexuduofangfa。

neitiaojindaojiushishuo：xiangneizaoyinenggouhensuibianxiyinzhudaonvrendezhenshidashenquxuexipeixun。

niyizhizainianshushiyudaoyoutixingzuochubulai，gengkuaidejiejuefanganshisha?quwenzheixiezaoyibazheidaotixingzuochuqudetongxuemen。

 niyizhizaigongzuozhongdeneishihouyudaomouyijiannan，gengkuaidejiejuefanganshisha?quwenzaizheizhongcengmianzaoyihenyougongzuojingyandelaoqianbeihuoshipengyou。

 niwanyouxideneishihouyouyigeguanruheyetongguobule，gengkuaidejiejuefanganshisha?juqidianhua，huoshikaiqiqqquwenzaoyitongguandexiongdi。

xiyinzhunvrenyiyangdoushi。

 keshi，jianghuizainideshenghuoquanzimeibanfaxunzhaozheixingzhenshidedashen，huoshijibiannizhaodao，niyemeibanfacongtamenzuizhongzhenshixunzhaoduiniyouxiaodefangshi ，youyu，wofaxianlexuduorenzishenhuizuo，keshiburongyijiao，huoshibuxiangyaojiao。