在爱的人眼前如何克服自卑?怎么追妹子？

 zenmezhuimeizi? zaiaiderenyanqianruhekefuzibei?yiqianbujin1gedixionggaosuwo，zishenpingchanghenvshenggoutongjiaoliu、huoshiheqitapenyounaxiedegoutongjiaoliu，doushifendaziran，keshipengdaolezishenaideren，jiushuobuchulaihuale，danxinshuocuohua，danxinshenxiannankan。shishishangtashixintaizhuangtaishangbiandeyiqiezhengchangfanying，renmenbixuzhengqueduidai，xunzhaoqijibenyuanli，zaishizhuangkuangerchulijiuhaola。

 ruguonipengdaozishenaideren，haipashanglaidahua，zaochengzibeigan，shishishangjiushishuoyouyunidexiaibalingyifangqinglile，buzhengquedijuedezishenbupei。

 zaiaiderenyanqianruhekefuzibei1. niyeshibeitamougeyoushixiyinzhu，qiangjingdeyouhuolijinihushiletaqitagexingtezheng。lirunihenxiaipiaoliangmeinv，tazhangdehenmei，ninengquanzidonghushiletapiqibuhao、manhengwulidengquexian，naizhiganjuepiaoliangmeinvjiugaiyoudianerxingzi，tashidianxingxingderenzhinenglibuzhengque。

 zaiaiderenyanqianruhekefuzibei2. guogaodianpinglingyifang。weihetongchangrenguangfanshiqu“nvwang”huoshi“gaolengnanshen”，youyudangnijiangyigerendangzuo“shen”xiangtongdecunyou，batalagaodaoshifengaoshangdeyingxiangli，jiuhuiganjuewanwandabudao，zibeixintaimeibanfabuzhaoshangnini。

举例说明

 dangnihenfuyou，qupao1gewangluohongren，nicongneixinjinjinbatadangzuo1gefuqiandewangluohongren，suibianwanwandexiaowanju，buhaojiuhuan，bingfeiyouyutaderongmaoerluandao，neimanidexintaizhuangtaishineiyangde：wokeyijitagengyouyuedeyishizhuxing，tayingdangyiqingchunnianshaorongmaotaohaowo，tanuliqingchunnianshaowonuliqian，sheidoubukuijiushei。

jiarunishineiyangdexintaizhuangtai，jiujueduibutaikenengzaiwanghongmeinvyanqianchengxianbuzixin，fandaojiagouhengao。

 yiyangdezhuangkuanghuangexintaizhuangtai，nibingbushipaotabale，niyeshifazifeifuxiaita，ganjuetaderongmaojinigandong，nihenfuyou，qitacengmianyechusechediduideqishangta，danninengneiyangxiang：tashisihuaxiangtongdenianji，shenxinghenhao，neimahaokan，yeyouneimaduofensi，beixuduorenpengzhe，keshiwojiushishuo1gepingchangren，chukaiqianwoquandoujibushangta，yiqitayehuichuguiba…huoxulianjiyudouburongyibangwo……

 ruguoyongyouneiyangdeniantou，ninenghenhuang，haipazhuiqiuwanmei，haipaqushuohua，suihouzaichixuqinglilingyifangdelingwaiyerangzishenyulaiyubuzixin。zenmezhuimeizi?

 zheierzhongxintaizhuangtaixiaojiechuqujiushishuo，qianmianyizhongdaliangdejiandaolezishendeshiyongjiazhi;houmianyizhongdaliangdejiandaolelingyifangdeshiyongjiazhi。ruguonijuedezishendeshiyongjiazhigaoguolingyifang，jiuhuizaochengbuxieyigu，feichangrongyimeifazuodaozhongshilingyifang;ruguonijuedezishendeshiyongjiazhixiaoyulingyifang，jiuhuizaochengbuzixin，feichangrongyibazishenfangdaobeiyongtaidebuweishang。yincizheierzhongxintaizhuangtaidoubuzukeguanxing，buzuquanfangwei。

 neimabuzixindeneiyibangren，jiushishuohoumianyizhong，juedezishendeshiyongjiazhiyuanyuandixiaoyulingyifang，balingyifangdangzuoshenlingtongchangdecunyou，yinciyimianbieryuanzhi，yimianbugancongcicaixing。

zhuinvhaijiqiaoyounaxie?zaiaiderenyanqianruhekefuzibei，niyoumuyouguoneiyangdeqinshenjingli?

 nibuzugaobuzushuai，yincijuedezishenpeibushangdalanqiu;nibutaiaishuohua，jiuguoduanraokaiherengoutongjiaoliu;touzizhemenzhendeqingchunvhai，jiuhuaizheshoujiyongshoujiyouxikuanweizishen;

 nishenxingbutaihao，jiuguoduanmeiqushizhedaliangyangshideyifukuzi……nidanxinzheixie“buguishuyuni”dewupinjinihaoganga，yincijinkenengquraokai，keshiyujianniaideren，nimeifaquguanlizijiraokaile，youyuniyexiangzhengde。

 jiarutashi1gepiaoliangmeinv，woyehuidanxinzishenshifouzugoushuai，zhangxiangshifoubupei;jiarutashigexiaofupo，woyehuidanxinzishenshifouzugoufuyou，jingjifazhanhuifoubuxing;

 jiarutahenyoucaiyibiaoyan，woyehuixiangzishenchukaizhuanqianhaihuidiannaxie?huanjuhuashuoruguonijuedezishenmoucengmianmeiyouzaitazhizhong，jiubupeita。zhuinvhaijiqiaoyounaxie?