征婚网交友：征婚交友的3大注意点

 yaotanqizhenghunjiaoyoudehua，jianxindahuoeryebushengshu，xiangbaihewangzhenghunjiaopengyouzheixiedouzaoyitingguohaoduobianleba，keshizaizheizhongzhenghunjiaoyouwangshangzhenghunyujiaopengyouyaoliuyixieshenme？

一、要实干

 liangrendelianaibuyingdangyouwuhuideguannian，yingdangshichunzhendeyouhaohemeilideqinggan，gexinghuadelejie，guanniandejiehe，tongyangderenshengjiazhiguanhexianghuzunzhong。

 zaixuduozhenghunjiaoyouwangzhannei，nanshitongchanghuibinvshiyaoduo，zaijiananshijijidexingqing，yincixuduonvshihuihuodexuduonanshideguanxin，neiyangjiuhuirangtamenyouyizhongzihaogan，bazishendangzuolegaorenyidengderen。jianghui，shijizhongbingbushizheiyang，pengyoujianghuiduitashuodaodibuxueyigu，tamenbiaozhuntongchang，qimaobuyang，nianjiyoushaoda，nengzhao1genianlingleisi、biaozhunleisidezaoyifeichanghaole，danshitamenhaihuidianjizhezhaogengqiangde“chizhewanlide，haikanjianguolibiande”zuizhongdejieguoxianeryijian。

 youyigeneiyangdeshili：1ge29suidenvshi，zishenbenshi1gezhongzhuansheng，genjuzhenghunwangkaizhanzhenghunjiaoyou，lejie1gedazhuanshengbingmingquelelianaideguanlian；danshidang1gebenkebiyejiashangtadeguanxinbingshenqingbanlihetapengmianshi，tajiushuaidiaodazhuanshenghebenkebiyepengmian；zhihouyimingyanjiushengkanguotadecailiao，xianghetayiqi，yincitayouqingdiaolebenkebiyetiaoxuanleyanjiusheng；zuihouwaiguojideyanjiushengxianghetalianai，tayouzhijieledangdeshuaidiaole“guonei”yanjiusheng，xueqilechuguomeng。danshineiweiwaiguojiyanjiushengkandaotashi，henxinhan，meishuoyijuhuajiulikaile，jieguohuoxujiushishuo“zhulandashuiyichangkong”。

 xianrujin，tayichengyimingsanshichutoudeshengnv，xiangzhezishenyiqianshuaidiaodezheixie，shishifenhouhuimoji，zhihoutashuo：“renqianwanbiemituzishen，jiarujiyubaifangzaizishendeyanqianjiubixuyaoganjin，wulunzhihouyoushiduoshaotiaoxuanyebukeyibianhua。”yuyixingpengyoujiaowangdequanguochengzhong，shibushiniyehuipengdaolingnikunaodenandian？siliangbuquedinglingyifangneixinjiujingzaixiangganshenme？

二、不必死脑筋

 youderenyouyuyiqiandelianaizaoshousunhai，jiuxiangzhao1gebiyiqiangengqiangde。danshimeigerendouyouzishendeyoushiyulieshi，geleigongzuonenglidouchaochutarenderenzhenshijiushishuoshaozhiyoushao。xingrong：jiarubideshangqianrenshuai，jianghuimeiyouqianrenfuyou；biqianrenfuyou，jianghuixingqingyoumuyouqianrenhao；xingqingbiqianrenhao，jianghuishengaoyoumeiyouqianrengao。yinci，jiaru1gejiyusinaojinderen，shibutaikenengxunzhaozishendexingfukuailede。

三、不必盯着这些是、看的

 yaoshiyouquntidediqu，jiuhuiyougaodiguijian，zaibaihewangzhenghunjiaopengyouzheixiewangzhidoushizheiban。douhuiyouneimamouxierenyizhidingzhezheixieshide。youdenanshizhongshinvshibiaomian，yincitamenjiuhuikanzheixiezhangdepiaoliangde，jinerhushibiededenvshi。aimeilizhiqingrenjieyouzhi，zaihaokanderenyehuiyoubuhaokandeneishihou，zhinenghaodezhiliangcaihuishizhongyouzheburongyixiaotui。yinci，shizhongdingzhezheixiehaokannvshikanderen，wangbiantiyibufangkanyixiazheixierongmaobuxiyinzhurendenvshi，yexutamenshoushangyoulenishizhongyuanyide。