挽回咨询：怎么努力挽回婚姻

　　zenmenuliwanhuihunyin，jiejuehunneichuguikunjingshi，qimayoushicizhishangdetanpan，keshihenduorendoubuzhidaozenmetan，zheitangkewonengshijijiaoniruhequzuodeshiqing。

　　zaijiaosheshang，womenxuyaozhidao2geqiantitiaojian。

　　第一个前提条件：不能急

　　jiuhaoduorenyishanglaishangtan，bianshi：“nimenshenmeqingkuangxiazaiyiqide?shenmeshihouduan?nijiwoyigeshijianfanwei。”

　　jiuchangshiyicikeyisuoyouchuliwenti，rangtalikehewaimianduandiao，likelangzihuitou，duiyujiatinghao，bukenengdeshi。

　　qishijiuxiangjiaoshiqianbianshuode，shangtanqimayoushushici，yincinibiezongxiangzheshuoyicijiukeyigaoding。

　　第二个前提条件：别害怕

　　weishenmedajiashangtantanbuxiaqule?shiyinweipa，nihaipale，lingyifangqishijiushinenggouganshoudaode，tabiandiqiqilai。

　　ziran，jiaoshihenlijiexiaohuobanmendepa，liru，haipatafangqini，haipatafapiqi，haipahaizishoushanghaideng。buguozheixiepa，rutongshengsuojiangnibangzhule，zheishihoujiukaishiwusuogujishanghainile。

　　neiyang，zhidaozheiliangqiantitiaojianyihou，dajiadaodiyinggaizenmequshangtanni?sangehexin：

　　1、tanpanjiben：degongshi

　　zenmenuliwanhuihunyin，niruguoxiangherenjiatanyijianshiqing，shouxianrangtaganjuenihetashidachengxieyide，burandajiayagentanbuxiaqule。

　　nijiuhuifaxianhenduorendoubuzhidaotanpancelveshi，tamengenbenmeiyoutan，shanglaijiuzhengchaochaoledabantian，“niweihebeipanwo?nineigehundan!”“wobingbushi，quanshinidenanti，quanshinibutaihao，nibiwode”……

　　buguozuihounijiuhuifaxian，liangrenchaoledabantian，bingmeiyoutidaoyijianguanyutapanbiangaizenmechuli，qishijiushizaizaoqishimeiyoudachengyizhi。

　　suoyizheishihou，keyixianhetadachengyizhi，lirunanshengxianfazhirenyouxi：“woyaohenili。”

　　neiyang，nijiunengshuo：“nixiangyaolihunxinga，meishenmewenti。”

　　keshi，dayingleyihougaizenmebanni?“nixiangyaolihun，wodayingni，dannixianzaizheigerenxingwei，duiyuwozaochenglejidadesunhai，nishifouyaobuchangwo，tianbuwo。”

　　cikebanidexiangfaquanzhichulai，liru：“cheshuyushei?fangziguishei?huxiaxianqianruhefenpei?”jiangzheixiequanjiangqingchu，zheishihoutaziranyejiuzhinanershangle。

　　zuishaoniyizhizaihoubiannitileguiding，yeshuolezheijianshideliyubi，shifouzhujianzhaohuatile?

　　jiaruqianbianguoduanjujuemeiyouliao，yinciqiantishixiandachengyizhi，zheiwuluntashuoshenme，xianyunxu，zaiwuliyaoqiu，nawenshangtanzhudaoquan。