解决异地恋最好的方法，异地恋如何能走到一起

 jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？xinlixuedaiwomenzhaodaolezijixingfudefangxiang。wohenanpengyoucongdaxuekaishijiushichulian。daomuqianweizhi，tamenyijingxiangaiqinianle。

 gongzuoyuanyinzaiguoqudeliangnianliyizhichuyuyidilianzhuangtai。yikaishi，zaibutongdedifangmeiguanxi。tamenfenkaideshijianyuezhang，chongtujiuyueduo。tebieshizaiguoqudeliugeyueli，womenjihumeitiandouchaojiajuedetabuxiangyiqianneiyangguanxinwo，aiwo。

 gezhonggeyangdedanxin，tagaibianlezhuyi。tabujinmeiyoujieshi，haizhizewotaizhanren，meiyoujizijikongjian。womenzaiyiqideshihouyoudianganga，yiliangtianjiuhaole。

xianzaichaojiajibendoushilengzhan，maodunyuelaiyuejiya。wozhendebumingbaiweishenmewomenzheimexiangai，guanxizheimehao。

 suoyoudeyidilianrendounantaofenshouma？woxianggaosunimendeshi，congyikaishibutongdifangdeganqingjiuzhudinglesangefengxian。zheishishenme？

第一：风险被怀疑和不信任摧毁

 jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？yinweitamenzhijianmeiyouzhijiedejiechu，tamenzhinengtongguoyuyanganshoudaoduifangdeqingxuhexiangfa，danyuyanzhinengchuandadayue30%dexinxi，erqiedabufenxinxidoushitamenzijidehuanxiang。

yinci，xuduolaizibutongdifangdefufuhuihuxianghuaiyi。tamentongguoyuyancaiceduifangbuai，xinxihuifuhuanman。

 zaiwoxinzhonghuiyouyichangjudadefengbao。wojuedewodebanlvbuguanxinwoziji。ruguowoquefaanquangan，henrongyihuaiyilingyibanduizijibuzhong，renweilingyibankenengbeipanziji。zheizhonghuaiyihuishilingyibangandaobushouxinren，jiajubicidemaodun。

第二：重风险是出轨

 youlejihuihekongjian，butongdifangdeganqingshiquleshentijiechu，xuqiudebudaomanzu，banlvbuzaishenbian，meiyoujishideyueshu，ganqingrongyichuxianwenti，ganqingzhendehuijiajutaduizijidefangzong。yinci，xuduomeiyouguizeganderenqueshihuizaibutongdedifangzuobi。

第三：冷战无解

 zaibutongdedifang，ganqingshiyuanchenghudongde。ruguonibutongyiduifangdeyijian，henrongyizhengchao，erqiezhengchaoyinqideqingxumeiyoumianduimiandejiaoliu，suoyihennanduzixiaohua。

 yinci，henduorenhuicaiquqingxugulidefangshilaichuliqingxu，yejiushishuo，dangqingxufeichangxiaojishi，tamenbuhuixianghujiaoliu，ershizaixinlijileiduilingyibandeshiwang，bingqiwanglingyifangchengrenzijidecuowu。

 raner，tamendouyouqingxu，bunengtongguoyouxiaodegoutonglaijiejuewenti。zheizhongqingxuhuizhujianneihua，xingchenglengzhandejumian。lengzhandeshuliangjiangyuelaiyuepinfan，duibicideshiwangyejiangyuelaiyueshen。zuihou，lianggerendouhuijuedetamendeganqingyijingshiqu，tamenbunengjixuxiaqu。

 shishishang，zaibutongdedifangyousanzhongganjue。guanlinenglifeichangzhongyao。suzaomaodunjiejuejizhidenengli、xuqiudebiaodanengliheaidebiaodanengli。

 ruguowomennengzaibutongdedifangsuzaobicidegoutongmoshi，bingzaichuxianwentihouyulingyibanxieshangyitaojiejuewentideguocheng，wentijiubuhuikuoda，maodunjiunengjishijiejue。

 ruguoninengyouxiaodibiaodanideganshouhexuqiu，yindaonidebanlvmanzunidexuqiu，nijiubuhuidanxindeshi，yebuhuihuaiyiduifangdeganshou。

 jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？ruguoninengjishiyouxiaodixianglingyibanbiaodanideai，rangtaganshoudaoniduiaidequeding，nibanlvneixindeanquanganjiuhuidedaomanzu，tamenjiubuhuizongshiyinweiquefaanquanganerchanshengfumianqingxu。