异地恋中，如何让异地恋感情升温

 ruherangyidilianganqingshengwen？shishishang，youhenduoyidilian，youyuzhongzhongyuanyin，bunengzaitongyigechengshi。yaomeshiyinweigongzuo，yaomeshiyinweiqitayuanyin。

 danyidilianwangwanggengrongyijieshu。kunraoxuduonanrenhenvrendewentishiruhebaochiyidilian？ruhebimianyidilianganqingdexunsulengque？

shishishang，yidilianshiyizhongbijiaoweimiaodeqingganqingjing，ruguonibuxiangfangqi，ziranyoubanfa。

一：学会分析异地恋对象的意思

yidilian，xiangxinzaimeiyigezhengzaijingliderenxinzhong，yizhikunraozhebiciganqingdehuati。

eryidiliandecaozuosilu，qiaqiashidangshirenwufazhangwode。

shishishang，zheibingbunan，shouxianniyaoxuehuifenxi，duifangheniliaotiandehuayu。

liru，nimenjingchangliaodaoshenye，dangniquanshuoduifangganjinshuijueshi，duifanghuishuo：“haoba，woshuile。”

nibunenglijieduifangzhendexiangshuijue。shishishang，youqishinvhai，dangtaqingxubuwendingshi，tashuodehuawangwangqiaqiaxiangfan。

ruherangyidilianganqingshengwen？tashuohaoba，neiwojiuqushuijuele，bushizhendequshuijuele，ershiduinihenbugaoxing。

yinci，zaiyidilianzhong，niyaoxuehuifenxiduifanghuayudeshencenghanyi。

二：培养自己的吸引力

 zaiyidilianzhong，tongchangzhishipinfandeliaotianheshipin，zheibingbunengyizhinimenganqingdelengjing。ruguonizhishimangmudimianduiduifang，duitahao，guolehenzhangyiduanshijian，duifanghaishihuileide。

yinci，niyinggaicongxianzaikaishipeiyangninenggoubuduanxiyinduifangdeguandian。zheijiushisuoweide“dian”，keyishigegefangmian。

paokaiyanzhihejingjitiaojianbutan，nimenzongyaoyouyidingdeyoushicainengxiyinduifang。

jiarunizhaobudaozijidexiyindian，neimenijiuyaozaizheifangmiannuli。

三：情感共鸣

zaiyidilianzhong，niyaoxuehuiyuduifangdeganqing、qinggan、ganjueduihua。

buzhishijiandanditanyixierichangsuoshi，niyaoxuehuizaizheixierichangsuoshizhong，bawoqinggangongmingdian。

 suoweide“ganqinggongming”，jiushirangnicongduifangdezilixingjian，zilixingwai，lijiegengshencengcidehanyi。shizhequlijieduifangneixinshenchudeganshouheqinggan。

yaoxuehuiyuzijideqingxuheqingxujinxingduihua，kongzhizijideqingxu，tongshilejieduifang。

 wozhidaorangnizheiyangzuoshihenkunnande，danniyoumeiyouxiangguo，zaiyidilianzhong，wangwanghuibayixiesuosuideshiqingfangdabukewanhuidejieju。

 ruherangyidilianganqingshengwen？yinci，weilebimianzheizhongshiqingdefasheng，wulunsheizaiyidilianzhong，douyaoxuehuiyuqingganheqingganduihua。xuehuixianghuxinren，xianghukuanrong，xianghulijie，tansuoganqinggongming。