老公离婚妻子如何挽回他呢

　　danghunyinmianlinweijishi，youqishidangnidezhangfuxiadingjuexinyaolihunshi，neizhongwuzhuhejuewanghuirangrengandaobengkui。laogonglihunqiziruhewanhuitani？danbiedanxin，buguanqingkuangyouduozaogao，douyoukenengwanjiunidehunyin。yixiashibangzhunichenggongwanjiuzhangfuxinlingdeguanjianbuzhou。

　　1、冷静下来，接受现实

　　mianduizheizhongqingkuang，zuichudebuzhouwangwangshizuikunnande。nixuyaojieshouxianshi，chengrennidehunyinyouwenti，nidezhangfuyijingzuochulejueding。suiranzheigejuedingkenenghuirangnitongku，danjieshouxianshishijiejuewentidediyibu。

　　2、寻找问题的根源

　　nixuyaozhaochunihunyinwentideyuanyin。kenengshinimenzhijiandegoutongyouwenti，yekenengshinimenzhijiandeshenghuoxiguanhuojiazhiguanyoufenqi。zhiyouzhaochuwentidegenyuan，cainengzhaodaojiejuebanfa。

　　3、沟通是关键

　　zaizhaodaowentidegenyuanhou，nixuyaoyunidezhangfujinxingshenrudegoutong。jizhu，zhenchenghezunzhongshigoutongdeguanjian。nixuyaochengshidibiaodanideganshou，qingtingtadexiangfaheganshou。tongguoshenrudegoutong，nikeyizhaodaojiejuewentidefangfa，bingzhaodaoyigeshuangfangdoumanyidejiejuefangan。

　　4、寻求专业帮助

　　ruguonidewentigengyanzhong，nikenengxuyaoxunqiuzhuanyedebangzhu。hunyinguwenhuojiatingzhiliaoshikeyibangzhunijiejuehunyinzhongdewenti，bingtigongyouxiaodejiejuefangan。tamenkeyibangzhunitigaogoutongjiqiao，lejiebicidexuqiu，bingzhaodaoheshidejiejuefangan。

　　5、改变自己

　　zuihou，laogonglihunqiziruhewanhuitani？nixuyaogaibianziji。zheibujinbaokuogaibiannidexingweifangshi，haibaokuogaibiannidetaiduhexiangfa。nixuyaobiandegengjiazixinheyouxiyinli，zheikeyibangzhunixiyinnizhangfudezhuyi。tongshi，nihaixuyaoxuehuigenghaodilijiehejieshounidezhangfu，zheikeyibangzhunijianligengqiangdelianxi。