我做错了怎么可以挽回老公

　　zaiqingganshenghuozhong，youshiwomenhuiyinweimouxieyuanyinshanghaibicideganqing。wozuocuolezenmekeyiwanhuilaogong？ruguoyigenanrendexinshoushangle，neimeruhezhengjiutadexinni?zheipianwenzhangjiangweinitigongliugejianyilaibangzhunizhengjiutadexin。

　　1、认真反思自己的错误

　　shouxian，nixuyaorenzhenfansizijidecuowu，kankanshishenmeyuanyinshanghailetadeganqing。shiyinweinideyanxing、taidu、goutongfangshihaishiqitayuanyin?zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan，cainengyouzhenduixingdigaibian。

　　2、主动道歉，表达感受

　　dangnizhaodaowentidegenyuanshi，nixuyaozhudongxiangtadaoqian，biaodanideganshou，renshidaonidecuowu。daoqianbubishuo“duibuqi”。nikeyiyongzijidutedefangshixiangtadaoqian，biruxieqingshu、faduanxinhuozhetongguoqitafangshixiangtachuandanideqingxuheganshou。

　　3、改变态度和行为

　　gaibiannidetaiduhexingweishizhengjiutaxindeguanjian。nixuyaocongneidaowaigaibian，rangzijigengwenrou、titie、guanxinheaita。tongshi，womenyeyaozhuyizijideyanxing，buyaoqingyishanghaitadeganqing。

　　4、给予时间和空间

　　youshi，yigenanrenxuyaoyixieshijianhekongjianlailengjingdisikaohechulitadeqingxu。nikeyijitayixieshijianhekongjianlaichulitadeqingxuhesikaonimenzhijiandeguanxi。tongshi，rangtazhidaoniyuanyidengta，bingzhichita。

　　5、加强沟通，倾听他的想法和感受

　　wozuocuolezenmekeyiwanhuilaogong？goutongshijiejuewentideguanjian。nixuyaojiaqiangyutadegoutong，qingtingtadexiangfaheganshou。tongguokaichengbugongdeduihua，lejieduifangdexiangfahexuqiu，zhaodaogongtongdejiejuefangan。

　　6、考虑分手或接受现实

　　ruguoshangshufangfadoubunengzhengjiutadexin，neimenixuyaokaolvfenshouhuojieshouxianshi。yiduanbujiankangdeguanxihuirangnigandaofannaohebuan，shenzhiyingxiangnideshenghuohexinlijiankang。ruguonirenweiniwufarenshouzheizhongzhuangtai，buyaohaipajieshuzheiduanguanxi，zhaodaogengshihenideren。