zaiqingganshenghuozhong,youshiwomenhuiyinweimouxieyuanyinshanghaibicideganqing。wozuocuolezenmekeyiwanhuilaogong?ruguoyigenanrendexinshoushangle,neimeruhezhengjiutadexinni?zheipianwenzhangjiangweinitigongliugejianyilaibangzhunizhengjiutadexin。
1、认真反思自己的错误

shouxian,nixuyaorenzhenfansizijidecuowu,kankanshishenmeyuanyinshanghailetadeganqing。shiyinweinideyanxing、taidu、goutongfangshihaishiqitayuanyin?zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan,cainengyouzhenduixingdigaibian。
2、主动道歉,表达感受
dangnizhaodaowentidegenyuanshi,nixuyaozhudongxiangtadaoqian,biaodanideganshou,renshidaonidecuowu。daoqianbubishuo“duibuqi”。nikeyiyongzijidutedefangshixiangtadaoqian,biruxieqingshu、faduanxinhuozhetongguoqitafangshixiangtachuandanideqingxuheganshou。
3、改变态度和行为
gaibiannidetaiduhexingweishizhengjiutaxindeguanjian。nixuyaocongneidaowaigaibian,rangzijigengwenrou、titie、guanxinheaita。tongshi,womenyeyaozhuyizijideyanxing,buyaoqingyishanghaitadeganqing。
4、给予时间和空间
youshi,yigenanrenxuyaoyixieshijianhekongjianlailengjingdisikaohechulitadeqingxu。nikeyijitayixieshijianhekongjianlaichulitadeqingxuhesikaonimenzhijiandeguanxi。tongshi,rangtazhidaoniyuanyidengta,bingzhichita。
5、加强沟通,倾听他的想法和感受
wozuocuolezenmekeyiwanhuilaogong?goutongshijiejuewentideguanjian。nixuyaojiaqiangyutadegoutong,qingtingtadexiangfaheganshou。tongguokaichengbugongdeduihua,lejieduifangdexiangfahexuqiu,zhaodaogongtongdejiejuefangan。
6、考虑分手或接受现实

ruguoshangshufangfadoubunengzhengjiutadexin,neimenixuyaokaolvfenshouhuojieshouxianshi。yiduanbujiankangdeguanxihuirangnigandaofannaohebuan,shenzhiyingxiangnideshenghuohexinlijiankang。ruguonirenweiniwufarenshouzheizhongzhuangtai,buyaohaipajieshuzheiduanguanxi,zhaodaogengshihenideren。
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