如何挽回老公平淡的心情

　　henduonvxingpengyouzaihunyinzhongdouhuiyudaozheiyangdewenti：wozhangfuduiwomeiyouganjue。ruhewanhuilaogongpingdandexinqing？zaizheigeshihou，tamenjingchanggandaojiaolvhewuzhu。shishishang，zheizhongqingkuangbingfeibukewanhui。zhiyaonizhangwoleyixiejinenghefangfa，nijiunengzhongxindianrannimenzhijiandejiqing。

　　1、自己的心态

　　mianduizhangfuduizijimeiyouganjuedeqingkuang，womenxuyaodiaozhengxintai。buyaotaijiaolvhejinzhang，yinweizheixieqingxuhuirangnigengjiabeidong。baochizixinheleguan，xiangxinniyounengliwanjiuzheiduanhunyin。tongshi，yaoxuehuiaiziji，guanzhuzijideneixinxuqiu，rangzijigengjiadulimiren。

　　2、增加沟通，了解他的内心需求

　　goutongshijiejuewentideguanjian。weilelijiezhangfuduizijimeiyouganqingdeyuanyin，womenxuyaogengduodiyutagoutong，lejietadeneizaixuqiu。zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，yaobaochilengjinghelixing，buyaotaiqingxuhua。tongguoshenrudegoutong，nikeyilejienizhangfudexiangfaheganshou，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidefangfa。

　　3、改变自己的形象

　　youshihou，zhangfuduizijimeiyouganjue，yinweiqizidexingxiangyouwenti。zaizheigeshihou，womenxuyaogaibianwomendexingxiang。nikeyicongfaxing、yizhe、zhuangrongdengfangmianrushou，rangzijigengjiameilidongren。tongshi，yaozhuyizijideyanxing，buyaotaijianqianghuorenxing，yaoxuehuiqingtinghezunzhongbierendeyijian。

　　4、增加互动，共同参与活动

　　hudongshizengjinfuqiguanxidezhongyaotujing。ruguonixiangrangnidezhangfuzhongxinganshoudaoziji，nixuyaozengjiahudong，yiqicanjiayixiehuodong。liru：yiqikandianying、tingyinlehui、lvxingdengdeng。zheixiehuodongkeyirangnimenchanshenggengduodegongminghemoqi，ranhoucujinnimenguanxidefazhan。

　　5、给他空间和自由

　　ruhewanhuilaogongpingdandexinqing？womenxuyaojiwomendezhangfukongjianheziyou。meigerendouyouzijidedulixingheyinsi，guoduodeganshehuirangtagandaoyaliheshufu。zaihunyinzhong，xuehuizunzhongduifangdegerenkongjianheyinsi，buyaoguoduoganshetadeshenghuo。tongshi，jitazugoudeziyouhexinren，rangtaganshoudaonidelijiehezhichi。zheibujinkeyirangtagengjiafangsongheshushi，haikeyizengqiangnimenzhijiandexinrenheganqing。