男人怎么挽回自己的婚姻

　　nanrenzenmewanhuizijidehunyinfuqiganqing，rutongyisouzairichanghaiyanglichuhangdechuan，yihuierqingkongwanli，yihuierhaihuizaoshoudafengdalang。

　　dangganqingchuxianwenti，henduorendouhuixianrumimang，buzhidaoruhexiubu。shijishang，xiubufuqiguanxibingfeinanshi，zhongdianzaiyuzhangwoyidingdefangshi。

　　neiyang，dangfufuguanxiehua，gairuhequxiubuni?

　　01，dongdeyouxiaodegoutong

　　xuduofuqiganqingchuxianliehen，wangwangdoushiyouyugoutongbudaowei。yaomejiushishuangfangdoubuyuanyizhudongzhangkou，baxiangfaheganshoumenzaixinli，shijianyizhang，wuhuihejiedirutonggunxueqiuyiyangyuejiyueduo。

　　yaomejiushigoutongdeshihoufangfabudui，yikaikoujiushichize、maiyuan，bahaohaodigoutongjiaoliuchenglezhengzhi，budanwujiyushi，haihuishifenqijinyibuehua。

　　ruoxiangxiubufuqiguanxi，yidingyaoxuehuiyouxiaodegoutong。youxiaodegoutongdediyibushijijizhangkou。buyaozongshidengdaibierenxianzhaonijianghua，zijixiangxuehuifangxiasuoshuodemianzihemiantian，jiandingdimaichudiyibu。

　　nijiuzhaogeheshideshijian，liruwanfanguohouyiqitangzaishafashangxiuxishi，huoshizaisanbudeshihou，zhenxinchengyiheduifangshuo：“woqianjitianjuedewomenzhongjianfangfoyoudianbuyiyangle，woxianggenniliaoyiliao。”neiyangjijikaiqihuati，huirangduifangkanjiannidechengxinhexuyaoxiufuguanxijuexin。

　　zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，yidingyaozhuyilingting。lingtingbushijiandanditingbierenjianghua，fanershiyaoxixinlailijiebierendeganshouyuxuqiu。

　　ruguoduifangzaibiaodaguandianshi，bubidaduanta，yebuyaojizhebianbo，ershiyizhuanxindemuguangkandaoduifang，qiadangdidianlediantou，jiyuhuiying，rangduifangzhidaoniyizhizaiyongxinting。

　　dengduifangshuowan，zaibiaodazijidekanfahetihui，bingqiebiaoshudeshihouyidingyaozhuyiyuqiheyongyu，zuihaoyongpingjing、lizhidefangfa，jinliangshiyonggongjixingyuyanbiaoda。

　　02，重建信任基本

　　zunzhongshifuqiguanxidegenji，yidanxinlaisunshang，aiqingjiurongyichuxianyaobaibuding。

　　richangshenghuo，yixiekansibuqiyandesuoshi，liruyicixiaoxiaohuanghua、yigemeiyouduixiandechengnuo，doukenengchengweihuihuaixinlaidedaohuosuo。dangxinlaixianruweijishi，fuqijianyehuibiandehuxiangcaiyi，aiqingyehuimanmanmanmanshuyuan。

　　yaoxiubufuqiguanxi，jiubixuyaozhongjianxinrenjiben。zuixian，bixuzuodaochengxinyoushan。tongyilingyifangdeshi，yidingyaonulibaozheng。

　　ruguoshiyinweitufaqingkuangshizainanyiduixiannuoyan，yaojishixianglingyifangshuomingliyou，bingshenbiaoqianyi，zhengdeduifanglejie。qianwanbuyaojuedeyixiexiaoshibuzaihu，suiyizhaogeliyouhunongguoqu，neiyangzhihuirangduifangduinidexinrenyidiandianxiaotui。

　　cizhi，yaodongdeyichengxiangdai。bubiduilingyibanmanbaoziyidexiangfaheganshou，bulunshigongzuozhongdeyali，huoshishenghuodeyali，dounenggouhaowubaoliudeheduifanggongxiang。

　　yucitongshi，yexuyaolijieduifangdegerenyinsi，buyaoguofenganyulingyifangdeshenghuohuanjing。meigerenyoumeigerendemimi，zhixubushuyuyuanzexingwenti，jibiciyixiesuiyiyukongjian，fandaohuirangduifangkanjianniderentonghezhongshi。

　　ciwai，zaizhongjianxinrenhuanjiezhong，yaojiduifangchongzudeshijiannaixin。xinlaidehuihuaibushiyichaoyixideshiqing，zhongjianxinrenyexuyaoyigeguocheng。bubiyinweibierenyishibingmeiyouwanquanxinrenni，jiuchuitousangqihuoshinaopiqi。

　　nanrenzenmewanhuizijidehunyinyaochizhiyihengdiyishijixingdongzhengmingzijidiaozhenghechengxin，nengrangduifangjiandaonidefuchuhezhenxinshiyi。suizheshijiantuiyi，lingyifanghuizhujianzaicigoujianqiduinidexinren，aiqinghaihuigengjiawengu。

　　03，造就共同回忆

　　fuqizaiyiqishenghuojiule，rizikenenghuibiandepingpingchangchang，qianquereqingyulangman。cike，chuangzaoyixiegongtonghuiyixiandeyouweizhongyao。yitonghuiyijiuxianglianaizhongdezengweiji，keyirangfuqizhijianganqinggengjiajingcai，hainengrangbicihuiguwangshizhongganshoubicizhijianpeibanyuwennuan。

　　yaochuangzaogongtonghuiyi，nengcongyixiediandixiaoshizuoqi。liru，yiqixuexiyixiangxindejineng，xiangpengzhi、paishe、huihuadeng。zaixuexiguochengzhong，dajiakeyijiaoliuhudong、hubanghuzhu，yitongzhanshengkunnan，yiqijinbu。zheileiyitongchengzhanglichenghuirangnimenzhijiandeguanxigengjinmi，yejiangchengweidajiananwangdehuiyi。