如何面对爱情里的心动心痛?

爱一个人可以有多爱，放手的时候就可以有多决绝。不是因为不爱了，而是因为被伤透了。强迫自己要忘了，可心还是会隐隐作痛，这种 心痛 的滋味，心受过伤的人会懂。如何面对爱情里的心动心痛?

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一、如何面对爱情里的心动心痛

自我安慰法

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正确认识爱情

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