恋爱婚姻之前任迟早忍不住主动找你的方法

 zaiwanliushi，lingyifangburongyikanzheniganleshiduoshaoshier，zongshikanzhenizuodezheizhongshiyoumuyoushitajuedeshushi。neimelianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaihunyinjiatingdewenzhangba。

 youxierenshiyouyuqingxudiluo，youxierentaiguozheji，youxierengongzuojingyanpinfa，zheizhongdoushihuiduiniyizhizaiwanliushizuochudeshierzaochengweihai，bianweiranglingyifangjuedenanshoudeshier。

 zheizhongchunshibianhuixiangyizhishouhui，bazhichizhijiandetatuidaonicongcikanbujiandediqu。zaiwanliudequanguochengzhong，dajiadouhuifanruhedezaochenglejudabuzhengqueni?

决策太轻率

 jiranlingyifangdefenshoujueceshilijingshenzhongkaolvde，neimaniyizhizaiwanliuyiqianhaiyaolijingshenzhongkaolv，neiyangcaikeyihelingyifanglixingdeqingkuangchanshengduideng。

 2geqingkuangyizhideyouxiurencainengkaizhanshencengcigoutongjiaoliuhegoutongjiaoliu，erbushitazaojiumingquezishenyaoxiangdeshishale，niyaozaineilibaotoutongku，duilianggerenzhongjiandefenqiyiwensanbuzhi。

 zaiwanliuyiqian，nizuishaoyingdangsisuozheihaoduogenanti：woweishenmewangbudiaota?bicizhijiandeyagennantishisha，nenggouchulima?wodouxiangyaoweizheiyiduanqinggantouruma?

lianaihunyinjiating，jiarunimeiyoulijingjinshendesisuo，yehuifeichangrongyizaiwanliudequanguochengzhongzaochengsheqideniantou。

weiyouniqingxilezishenyaoxiangnaxie，nicaikeyihaobudongyaodezouxialai，yebuhuiyouyu“meixianghao”xiaohaodaliangdeshijian。

执行能力很差

 henduorendoushihuizainaoqiaolixiangxuduo jihuafangan，wodiyibuyinggaizenmezuo，yingdangruhegenlingyifangxianliaozheixie，keshishentilixingzhongqueyigeyemeiyouyongshang。

 yeyouderenxiaigenlingyifangkongtan，zuibianhuayanqiaoyu，zuochulexuduo fuwuchengnuo，zuizhonglingyifangquemeiyoujiandaojiejuekunnandejieguo。

 jiaruqueshijueceleyaowanliu，neimaniantoushiyidingyaoguancheluoshizaixingdongshangde，jiusuannishiyige“tuoyanzhengmoqi”bingren，cikeyebukeyizaizongrongzishensatuoxialaile。

 zaiqingganzhong，shuodeduobibushangzuodeduo，zuodeduobibushangzuodedui，shuodeguoduobudanmeiyouwanliulingyifangdehaogandu，fandaoranglingyifangganjuenixuqingjiayi。

cikezuoyixielingyifangnengkanzaiyanzhongdeshier，caisuanshizuizhongyaodetiaoxuan。

挽留姿势不好看，过多纠缠不清

 lianaihunyinjiating，guoduojiuchanbuqingbukeyichulifenshoudenanti，tajinjinzishenxintaidexuanxie，erqieshijiweimeiyoulixingdezuofa。

 zuochujiuchanbuqingxingweiderenduomeiyousisuofenshoudeyuangu，zhishibazijineixindeniantoutouyinglaidaolingyifangdeshenshang，juedeneiyangzuolingyifangjiuyidingnenghehaoruchu。

 haiyixiebulixingderentiaoxuanlemeiyoudixiandedequyuehetuoxie，renweineiyangjiunengranglingyifangjiandaozishendehao，xinhuaineijiugenzishenhehao。

 bieshale，neiyangzuozongshiranglingyifangyulaiyuqiaobuqini，jibian hehaola，yehuishinizaizheiyiduanqingganzhongmeishenmeyingxiangliketan，neineiyangdeqingganniyounengjianchibuxieduozhangshijianni?

shenxinjiankangdeganqingyinggaishilianggerenxianghuzhijianjiandaolingyifangdeyoushi，jienaxianghudebugou，gongtongfendou。

shenxinjiankangdewanliuyinggaishizaibujilingyifangzhaomafandezhuangkuangxia，zuohaozijixianggandeshi，zuodaozishendemudi。

 yaoxiangwanhuiaiqing，dajiazuixianbukeyidisanxiasi，weilegenghaodihehaoyiweigaibianzishendedaodedixian，cizhidajiahaiyaoweilingyifangkaolv，buzuozheixieposhideshier。

lianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni？huijuezheizhongwanliuzhongdezaochenglejudabuzhengque，dajiajiunengrangtabushedeliqu。