恋爱的法则之90%男人分手后都是这么想的

 lianaidefazeyounaxie？zaiyiqihenjiule，tafangfozaoyibianchenglenirentilideyibufen，tazoule，yebanideaiqiediaodaiqule。neimelianaidesigejieduanyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

 yinci，weilegenghaodishitahuijia，niyibianbiandezaiwangluoshangxunzhaodaan，niqinfendibianweitaxiaidemoyang，kezuizhongdejieguoquehuanshihuandeyiju“bushihe”。

nimeigaoqingchu，weihequanbudewanhuifangfadouyongle，keweihezuizhonghuanshiyidianshijixiaoguodoumeiyouni?

jinridajiajiulaijiangxia，weihenidewanhuifangfameiyouyong，jiujinggaizenyanglingbiandeyingyongfangfayichuojizhongdewanhuiganqing。

一、联系实际

xuduo fensishuo：“wanhuifangfawohaishiguoqule，kebianshibuqizuoyong，zheishiweishenmeni?”

 youyutamenhushilehenzhongyaodeyidian，bianshiwangjileyaolianxishiji，lianaidefazeyounaxie？liruzishennanpengyoubenlaishigexingqingshifenguzhide，kenifeidejianchibuxiefenshou，zaocheng nanshenggengweipingdinglefenshoudekeguanshishi。

 hailirunanpengyoushigexingqingquefazixin、meianquangande，nipianyaozaipenyouquanzhongfanggezhonggeyanghaizhao、zaochenglingyifangwujiezaocheng bukeyiwanhui。

 yinci wanhuifangfa，zuizhongyaodebianshiyaolianxishiji，shulianzhangwo，qiezhunnanpengyoudezhenzhengyaoqiuzaiduizhengzhiliao，wanhuicaiyouxiao。

二、合理性挽回

chukaiyaoshulianzhangwowai，yeyouyidianhenzhongyaobianshihelixingwanhui，bubixiaowentidajiejue，wentixiaojiejue。

 lianaideweidaoyoushenme？liru，yuanbenyijianbudadeshier，daogeqiansagejiaojiunengchulide，niquefeiyaoxiangrangnanshengjijigennizhiqian。

yincizhaolexuduo wanhuifangfashiyong，jieguoxiaowentibianweiwenti，wuduantishengwanhuinanduxishu，yinxiaoshida。

 yinci ，wanhuiganqingyeshibixuhelixingwanhuide，fangfafuyi，zhenxinshiyiweizhudao，duiyunantizishenqukaolv，henyoukenengyaobiyiqiefangfabixuyouyong。

三、心理 调节

 zaiwanhuiqian，yeyaohaijidelianxuxingdexinlidiaojie，youyuwanhuidequanguochengzhonghenkenengyouyulingyifangdeyixiexingweierzaocheng nixinlizhuangtaitanta，jiyuqiucheng。

yinci zaiwanhuiqian，chukaiyaogaozhizishenyaoyouxinxinwai，yeyaoweizijineixinjiaogedi。

youyujinyoulejiezishennenggoushuaideduocan，caikeyigengweihaowugujidequwanhui。

 yaogaozhizishen：“jinguanbingbushimeiyijubaoqian，dounenggouhuandeyijumeishier，keshiyaoshiqinfenle，meijieguoyebuhaipa，youyuzuilanyebuguoshiherujinyiyangbale!”

 lianaidesigejieduanfenbieshishenme？wanhuiganqingzuizhongyaodebingbushiqujiezhufangfa，zhishiyaoshulianzhangwo，fuheshiji，jiarunijiangquanbudeqidaidouqujueyufangfa，neimajibian wanhuile，yeshibukeyibuduanyibeizide。