爱是个什么东西?“冷落”男人的3个技巧

 aishishenmeni?aiyoushihourutongyipianzhaozedi，nijuede，yaoshiduitahaoyidian，jitamendaliangdetouru，tajiuhuihuishou，kejieguoqueshijinibunengziba......neimeaishigeshenmedongxini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmedewenzhangba。

shijishang，nineiyangdisanxiasi、kenqiuaiqingdeyangzizhenbuhaokan，yaoxiangwanliunanrenxin，kukuwanliushizuibuqizuoyongde。

youyunanshengyushengjulaijiuaitiaozhan，tamenneixinshenchudezhengfuyu，zongrangtamendui“chibudaodetang”wangbudiao。

yinci zaiwanliushi，nvxinghaiyaoshidudexuehao“lengdan”ta，caikeyirangnanshenggengweiyuelaiyueaini。

一、让“冷淡”激起他的求知欲

 zaiqingganzhong，laolaoshishirenyounanshengfaluodenvxing，shiburongyihuodenanshenggaoduzhongshide，youyuzaitamenyanzhongtongchangyuefacongmingcongmingdenvxing，yuefasuoranwuwei。

yinci yaoxiangwanhuilaogong，diyibujiuxuyaoxuehaorangtaduinizaochengqiuzhiyu。

怎么做呢?

diyi、bubiwailuyiqieyaoqiu、qingjingdejienafenshou。

 dier、duanzanxingxiaotui。youyuniqingjingdexintaicaikeyirangtakanbuchuanni，lingjianixiaoxiao“xiaotui”，fandaohuidiaoqilaitaduinideshiyu，rangtazaochengxinlizhuangtaiqifu。

jinbuzhuyaoxianglejienizaizuoshenme，neiyangcainenggoujiqitaduinideqiuzhiyu。

二、让“冷淡”生产制造一种紧迫感

ninengweizaoyiguishuyuzishendewupinfuqianma?

huidaziranshiburongyide，budanburongyi，zaoyihuodedewupin，haishiwomenquefaleyifenaixigan。

danjiaruzheiyijianwupinhuranyuelaiyuehenhuore，naizhiyouxierenyaoxiangqiangzouta，neimejiulingshuolele。

 qingganyeyiyang，zaiwanliushi，nvrenyaoshengchanzhizaozishendegaoshiyongjiazhi，erqieshidudelengdanta，aishishenmeni?caikeyirangtazaochengjinpogan。

 jiurutong，nijiangzishenyunyingbianchengyijianyouqijiageangguideshechipinbaobao，erqieshifenhuore，neicengjingdewomenguozheiyijianshechipinbaobaodenansheng，jiuhuizaochengyizhongjinpogan。

zheizhongganjuehuirangtahouhuimojishiquleni，fandaohuihuishouzhengdeni。

三、让“冷淡”激起男生的独占欲

yuqingguzongzhong，zuizhongyaodebianshiyige“zong”zi，keshiruhezongyeshishifenyouzhuzhongde。

ninengzaidajiaxianliao，huoshiyouhuishi，xuehaozhangwofencun。

 liru，zaidajialiaodaoxinggaocailiedeqingkuangxia，huranxiaotui，duitashuonibujiujielegedianhua，dannijiushibuyongshuodaodishisheidedianhua。

huoshizaiyouhuidejinyaoguantou，hurantizaohuijiale，neiyangcaikeyirangtaduinihuiweiwuqiong，jiqitaduinideduzhanyu。

 aishigeshenmedongxi?yiweidesipilailian，duiwanliushibuqizuoyongde，mingbaishidude“lengdan”caikeyijianjiandisuzaonanshengduinideqipan，rangtagengweifengkuangdeaizheni。