什么样的爱?降低挽回需求让前任乖乖回到你身边！

 shenmeyangdeai?ganqingbixuyunying，gengbixuxuexipeixun。xuduo penyoutanlianaideganjueyebuchongyu，bumingbaizenyangjingyinghunyin，bulejieaiqingdedingyi，yinci zaiganqingdelumianshang，henduorenzhenduiganqingdelejiebingbujishi。naizhizailiangrenjiaowangqinei，yinweibulejieganqingdeyiwu，yinci zuihoudaozhileganqingchuxianliefeng。dangqingganyipengdaocuobai、yinyou、wujiedengzhuangkuang，liangrenzuihoumaixianglefenshoudechujing，zenyanggenggaifenshouxiankuang，fenshouleruhewanhuini?neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshizhenaidewenzhangba。

 yingduifenshouhou，nixinliyidingshifanzadeganqing，nanguo、mishi、quehan……wuyibuzhi。fenshoufenshouhoubingbukongbu，kongbudeshijibian fenshitule，hairengranmeiyoulejiedaozishenzaiqinggancengmiandebuchenggongzhijieyuanyin。zhenduixinzhongdeyihan，nihenyoukenengyaoxiangtianbu，yinci henxiangyaozhidaofenshouleruhewanhui。

 ruguonituranyouyitianchajueziji，xinliyiranshenaizhelingyifang，yaoxianglejiefenshouleruhewanhui，shenmeyangdeai?zuixianliyingzhangwofenshoudeyuangu，jinyouyijunizijifenshoudeyuangu，caikeyizhidingzuihaodewanhuifangfa，jinerzhaodaoxinlidezheifenzhenxin。

分手缘故一：年轻气盛

 shenmeshizhenai?qianbianjiangdao，zhenzhengdeaiqingbixuxuexipeixunde。henyoukenengzaiaiqingdelushang，meirenbangnizhidao，yinci feichangrongyimaixiangwuruqitu。nianqingqishengdeni，zaiheqinglvjiaowangdequanguochengzhong，manmanhuiganjuetaduinidehaoshilisuodangran，yinci ganqingxinlihuimanmanyuelaiyuekuangwangzida，tashirangnijianglingyifangtuizoudezhijieyuanyin。bingbushitaruguobuaile，shihaipazaiaizhenile。

 zhenduizheileizhuangkuang，fenshouleruhewanhuidechulifangfa，shilinshirenkelingyifangdefenshoujuece，jitayiduanshijiansisuo。bingzailingyifangsisuodequanguochengzhong，manmandewanshanziwo，zhidaozaiduchupengdequanguochengzhong，jiyutachongzudeguanai，ranglingyifangjiandaoniyizhizaiganqingjiejueshangdegenggai，jinerzaiduxiyinzhulingyifang，zheijiangyouyiyunidewanhui。

分手缘故二：实际与想像中的差别

 zheiyifenshouyuangu，shizuiheshimeiyouaiqinggongzuojingyandexiaohuobanmensisuode。tingwentanlianaishiyijianxingfudeshier，zheiyidianzaoyiyinjizaijibian douhaimeitanlianaidenixinli。keshiruguonitanlianai，fajueqingganbingbushidianshiji、wenxuezhuzuozhongneibanshi，nishibushihuiyixiexinhan，juedeyuzishenxiangxiangzhongdeganqinghuiyixieqifuni?

huoxugengshizheileiluochagandeyuanyin，jiniduiganqingmanmandexinhan，gengrangdajiadeganqingzuihoumaixiangzhongdian。

keshiqidaizhongguishiqidai，zhenduizheiyidianzhuangkuang，fenshouleruhewanhuini?

 guanjianshiyibenshendexinlizhuangtaigenggai，zaicichuangjianquanxinshengjideqingganhexinlinian，gaoqingchuzuizhenzhengdeganqingsuoshu，suihouzaiyongquanxinshengjidewaimaozaiciquchupenglingyifang，rangqinglvjiandaoyigeshenxinjiankangaiqingguanniandezishen。

分手缘故三：争执

 zhengzhikenengshijuedaduoshuqinglv，zuihoumaixianghunyinpoliedejiaoda yuangu。zhenduizhengzhi，huoxuninengyouyizhong“womenliangbushihe”deniantou。shijishangbingbushizheiyang，zhengzhidezhijieyuanyinbingbushibushihe，zhishibumingbairangbu，gaobudongqingganzuizhongyaodeshihuxiangkuanrongheyuanliang。

针对这类状况，分手了如何挽回呢?

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai?ziranshichuangjianyouliangdeqingganyishi，yongyizhongquanxinshengjidewaimaoquzaicixiyinzhulingyifang，zuizhongyaodeziranshirangqinglvkandaolenidegenggai，bingzaixinlihuiyouyizhongxianggenzaiciwoyigerenzouxialaidebulizhi。