什么样的爱?复联后第一次聊天！

 shenmeyangdeai?henduorenzhenduifuchouzhelianmeng4houdediyicixianliao，shuoqinaxie，douzhuyaobiaoxiandejiaolvqingxuyoumangran。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshizhenaidewenzhangba。

 jiaolvqingxushidanxinzijishuoshuocuo，youredelingyifangbukaixin，zaidubeilahei，sangshilianluo。keshixinliyoushifenqipannengshuoshanghua，genggaixianjieduanfenshoujiaozaodeqingkuang。

duiyumangran，neimejiugengxianzhule，buqingchushuoxieshenmecaikeyiranglingyifangbudichuzishen。

 shuoyixiewuguantongyangdewenhaohuaba，juedeyemeiyoushenmeyong，butengbuyang，haihuijixushenxianganliaodeqingkuang。jiaruyishangqujiuzhuyaobiaoxiandehezhiqianyiyang，neibankanqilaiyouqideshengying。jiaruraowanzideqingtuzishendeqinggan，yezongshirangxianghushenxianbuqingchugaizenmebandeqingkuang，lingyifanghenyoukenenghuitiaoxuanhuijuehuiying，jiuxiangdangyulangfeilejiyu。

 shubuzhi，wulunzheiyibuyouduomenan，yizhiyaotachuqu，youyujinyouwanchengfuchouzhelianmeng4，yihoudewanhuicaihenyoukenengjianchixiaqu。

jinrijiuhedahuoerliaoyiliao，fuchouzhelianmeng4houdediyicixianliao，keyishuoxienaxie?

 shenmeyangdeai?zaishuojutizuofayiqian，dahuoerbixugaoqingchuyidian：nidefuchouzhelianmeng4guishuyudanfangyaoqiu，jiranshidanfangde，neimajiuxuyaogaohaomeiyoudafudetiqianzhunbei。

 yinci zaixianliaoqian，niyinggaigaoqingchu：diyi，zheiyicixianliao，nihenyoukenengwufadedaohuiying。dier：jiaruhuiyingle，yehenyoukenenghuikanqilaihenfuyanleshi。disan：jishizheiyicixianliao，xianghudouhenkaixin，doubuyiweizheninengjiedaolijijianxiaodeshijixiaoguo。

 yinci zhenduizheiyicixianliao，nixuyaoyikaishijiujianshaozishendeqidaizhi，buguidingtayidingyaohuiyingni，buguidingtadehuiyingyaozuodaonideyugu。

 neiyangzuoshiweilegenghaodishinizaibeijujuehuoshibeifuyanleshizhihou，yirannengweichiyigelianghaodexintai，buhuibeilingyifangdexintaiyanlidajidao。

 shenmeshizhenai?neimajutizuofayoushenmeni?nanhaiziguishuyuchuangxinsiweinengli，zheidaibiaozhetamenzhenduipiankeguandeshierheyaoqiushimeiyoubanfahuijuede。

niyutashuodaoniaita，tahenyoukenengbulini，keshiniliangyaotabanggemang，tahenyoukenenghuitongyi。

第一种方式：依靠物件

 liangrenzaiyiqichuduixiang，nidejiazhongchuxiantadewupin，tadejiazhongchuxiannidewupin，tashihaowuyiwende，jiaruyiqiantongjushenghuoguo，neimejiugengmeifafenbianle。

 yinci zheigeshihou，nichedinenggouyikaoyaobatadewupinguihaita，shierfudedejiyulianluota，tuocidangran，buyibeijujue。

第二种方式：要求帮助

 zheiyifangshihenchangjian，xiangtaqiuzhu，lirunijiazhongdewupinhuaidiao，daobushangrenbangzhu。huoshiyiqiantarangnimailedemouxiewupin，niyongyuanbuzhidaonayoumai，dounenggouzuoweiyuanyin。

yingduizheizhongsuoshi，wulunshichuziyuduiqiannanyoudefanzaxinlizhuangtaihuanshizuoweinanshideshiminggan，tamenyibandouburongyihuijue。

第三种方式：感情桥梁法

yiqiyangguodexiaogou，zaiyiqishimeiyoujinxingdeshier，gaohaodechengnuozheixie，dounenggougenjuganqingqiaoliangfakaizhanlianluo。

 yiqianyouyigexuesheng，bianshiyouyuliangrendouhaimeifenshoudeqingkuangxia，dinggouleyigeqinglvlvyoutaocanneirong，zhihouliangrenbianshipingzhezheiyitaocanneirongzaidulianluodaoyiqide。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai?youjuhuabushishuodefeichanghaoma?jiarunihaoxiangqudechenggong，quanqiudoushihuijinirangzuo。yinci ，yaoshichengxin，meishenmeshiershizhaobuzhejiejuefangande。