什么才算爱？分手后别纠缠

 shenmeshiai？dajiadeguanlianbianshiniqinfendezhui，guanxintitie，lingyifangqinfendetao，buwenbuhuo，ailibuli。neimeshenmecaisuanaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 meimeiniqinfenyidian，doufajuelingyifangbinipaodexunsu，nizaoshangsonglezaofan，lingyifangyiburangniyijuwanandejiyu，lijijiaruheimingdanle。

 zheileishuoming，lingyifangzaoyiwanquanduinisilexinle，fenshoudejueceshilingyifangduizhenzhengdeyixiang，cikenixuyaoxiangwanhui，zuizhongyaodeshikaolvlingyifangdetanlianaiyaoqiu。

什么是恋爱要求

 renzuomeiyijianshiquanshiyouzhenduixing，liruyongcanshiweilegenghaoditianbaoduzi，rushuishiweilegenghaodirangrentixiexi，wanshiweilegenghaodihuanjieyali。

yiyang，chuduixiangyeshiyouzhenduixingde，liruhuijuegudan、gudu、leng，tihuitianmei、xingfukuaile、huanle。

 keshimeiyigerendejiatingfenwei、chengzhanglichengshoujiaoyuchengduzaocheng lemeiyigerenquanshiduyiwuerde，zaocheng meiyigerendetanlianaiyaoqiuyeshibuyiyangde。

 lirumeiyouanquanganderenbixudeshipingwen，jiarunimeifakaolvlingyifang，fandaorangtayicicichanidexingji，kannideweixinjiaoyijilu、zhifubaozhangdan，zhangqixialai，jieguobidingshifenshou。

另一方的谈恋爱要求是啥

 haodeaiqingshixianghukaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu，henduorenbeifenshoudezhijieyuanyinshi，yiweideguidinglingyifangshandaiziji，congmeisisuo，ruheailingyifang。

dangyigerendetanlianaiyaoqiuchijiuwufadedaokaolv，tahuiyulaiyumeiyouqudongliquweichizheiyiduanqinggan，zuihouxuanzefangshou。

zenyangfajuelingyifangdetanlianaiyaoqiuni?

qishibushihennan，zhuiyiyixialingyifangbiaoshuguodebumanyi，jinyibusisuolingyifangweiheneimeshuo?

爱的关键要求

 ruguonikaolvlelingyifangdeyaoqiu，lingyifangcaihuikaolvdaogennifuhexing，yaoxianggengjinyibuwanhuilingyifang，nixuyaoranglingyifangganjuezaiyiciaishangleni。

sisuoyixia，dajiazenmehuiaiyigeren?

 shenmejiaoai？aiqingpiangaozhidajiashuo，zhenzhengdeaiqingmangmugenfengde，keshixinlixuezhuanjiagaozhidajiashuo，zhenzhengdeaiqingnengbeibiaoshude。

 yingguozuijiechudekexueyanjiuzizunxin(self-esteem)dexinlixuezhuanjianasanierjixiejiyuan·bulandengzhuanjiajiaoshoubiaoming：dajiawangwanghuizhangjiudeaishangyigeren，shiyouyudajiadeshengmingbeikandaole。

liru，ruguonifajue，yigerenduinideguandian，yunixinlingshenchuzishenduizishendeguandianshiyizhide。

 shenmeshiai？erqielingyifangbiaoshuleduinidelejie，neineixingaohanhantongyixiazishunjianjingle，zhaojiabuzhu，nifeichangrongyibianhuiaishangyigeren，zheijiushishuobailedelejieni。

 danglingyifangganjuezheiyishijiezuidongtaderenjiushini，erqieweiyounideqingkuangxia，taweishenmehuidongdesheqinilei，zhongjiuyujianai、yushangnairexingfeichangrongyi，nandeshiyushanglejie。

 shenmecaisuanai？ganqinglishuobailedongnideren，bingbushixingzuoxuexing、shengaoyutizhong、huoshiqiancaiyingxianglizhishinengxianghumanzuxuqiudeliangren，yaoxiangwanhui，fajuelingyifangdeyaoqiu，kaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiushibibeitiaojian。