什么才算爱？挽回前任的四个小技巧

 shenmeshiai？fenshouzhihou，nirengzaiyitiandaowanmomoliuleima?benlaineixinhaiwangbudiaolingyifang，keshiyoubuqingchugaizenmezuocaikeyigenggaixianjieduandejushi，shitazaidufanhuinideshenpang?jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhewanhui，xiabiansigexiaoqiaomenzhuniqingqingsongsongwanhuiganqing。neimeshenmecaisuanaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

1、别着急着挽回，先调节好自身

 henduorenfenshouzhihou，doushihuimashangcaiyongwanhuixingdong，yiweideququyuetaohaolingyifang，qidailingyifangnenghehaoruchu。shijishang，neiyangdewanhuifangfabingmeimeishenmejijizhudongdegongxiao。liangrendouzaoyifenshoule，biaominglingyifangzaozaoyiduinijiandaoyanfan，zheigeshihou，nizuoshadoumeiyouyong。haihuijixuchixudejiangguanxijinzhang。

 yinci fenshouzhihou，xianbubijizhewanhui，fenshouyiduanshijian，jiezhezheiduanshijianninengdiaojiehaozishendexintai，wanhuibingbushiyifanfengshundeshier，yebushiyitianliangtianjiunenghuodeniyaoxiangdejieguo。yinci nixuyaoweizijiguwushiqi，gaohaochongfenzhunbei。

2、顺水推舟，转变思想

 nvhaiyibanzaitanlianaizhihou，huishifangyaliduizishendeguanlifangfa，ganjuezishenzaoyishiyoumubiaoderenle，shenmeshiai？yinci baoyinbaoshi，hulveleduizishenshenxingdeguanlifangfa，huoshiyitiandaowanshifendai，haiganjueshilisuoyingdang。shijishang，budanshinvxing，shijishangnanshengyoushiyeshixinkoubuyide，zuibianshuozhebuzaiyinideshenxingheluozhuang，keshineixinyiranhuiganjuedainichuqumeiyouqingmian。

 nanrendoushihaomianzideweishengwu，xiaizishendenvyouchuanzhedabandehuazhizhaozhan，yikanjiuyaorenxinkuangshenyi。yixienvhaihuijiangguo：weishayidingyaoweilegenghaoditaerchuanzhedabanni?wobutaixihuanchuanzhedabanyebuchuanzhedaban，shijishang，nvshengdabanzishenbujinshiweilegenghaodiqinglv，suhuashuodehao：shiweizhijizhesi，nvweiyuejizherong，nvshengdabanshiweilegenghaodirangzishenjuedegaoxing，erbushidanchunxingdeweilegenghaodizhaoliaonanshengdeyaoqiu。

 wanhuidequanguochengzhong，xuehaohaohaoaizijidelingwai，yeshunshuituizhoudekaolvdenanshengdeyaoqiu，shitazaiduduinizaochengxingquaihao，keweishiyijuliangde。

3、考虑另一方的爱慕虚荣

 renhuoyizhanglian，shuhuoyizhangpi，jiaruniqueshikanchuannanren，bianhuilejieqingmianzaitamenxinlidedaodiyouduoguanjian。xuduo qingganzuizhongmaixiangbuchenggong，shijishangbianshihenvrenbumingbaizhaoliaonanshengaimuxurongxiangguan，zaiqunzhongchangsuosiwujidandechizerumanansheng，fahuodeqingkuangxiadalingyifangdebazhang，huoshibinanshengguixiachengrencuowu，zheizhongquanshizaidalian。

 shenmejiaoai？nanrenweishenmedouxiaiwenroudenvren，shiyouyutamenmingbaikaolvkaolvnanshengdeqingmianguannian，andiliyounaxieshiernenggouchao，nenggouma，nenggouda，keshizaiwaimiandeqingkuangxia，yidinghuizuoyigewenroutitiedenvxing，zanyangnanrendeyoudianhetouru。qinglvzhijianjiaowang，duoyidianzanyanghekuanrong，xuduo qingkuangxiagenggaiyixiagoutongfangshi，jiunenghuodexuduo xingfukuaile。

4、学会赏识男生的思维模式

 nanrenshidianxingxingdechuangxinsiweinengli，xiangbinvxingdelixingyaoqiu，tamenduidainantidesiweiluojihenqiang，yinci jingchanghuifashengzhengzhi，liruxuduo qingkuangxia，benlainizaoyishifendefahuo，keshilingyifangrengzaiyunijiangli，jiangruhejiejuekunnan，zheigeshihou，nibianganjuetabuaini。

 shubuzhiruguonihuanweishangxidexintaiquduidainanshengdechuangxinsiweinenglishi，niyejiuhuifajueyigenengjinichuliwentidenanrenzhengshitahenyongyudandanghezerengan。

 shenmecaisuanai？nanhaihenvhailuojisiweibenjiucunyouchabie，jiaruniqiangzhiyaonanshengyizhaonvshideluojisiweiquduidainanti，ganshounideqingxu，zhangwonidebixu，ninengfajuezuizhongfahuobumanyidewoshini。xuehuishangshi，ninengfajuebuyiyangdejingse!