什么才算爱？最抓男人心的挽回技巧

 shenmeshiai？niyoumeiyouyudaoguoneiyangyigeren，niwanbanquyuedequaita，renweitadouhuijizhunidehao，kezhihounicaigaoqingchu，yixiangqingyuandetouru，shiburongyibeiaixide。neimeshenmecaisuanaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 kegaoqingchudeqingkuangxia，nizaoyichabuzhuzhale，yingyaoyizhituozhebuyuanfangkaishou，zheidaduoshihenduorendechangjianwenti，laidaozuizhongyetaobulezishendebugan......

keqingganzhong，bingbushi“bufangshou”jiunengrangzishenruyuanyichangde。

 jiarunide“bugan”jinimeifafangkaishou，bibushangxuehaogenghelide“zhaoshu”，bawozhunanrenxin，neiyangcaikeyibaituokunjing，shitajijiwanhuini。

neishijiyaozenme“zhua”ni?

一、心态调整，寻找难题

xuduo nvxingzaifenshouhou，yishizhijianmeifajienazheiyijieguo，feichangrongyishenxianziganduoluodetongchu，rangzishenzixinxinhaowu。

buguanzuoshashidoubunaifan，yidiandianxiaoshibianhuidadongzishendejiaoqing，shenmeshiai？gangkaishibaotoutongku。

 faxieqingxushiduide，danjiarurangzishenshenxianwufazibadechujingjiubuhaole，buguanzheiduanshijianduojianao，bixuxuehaodiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai。

 rangzishendaqijingshenlai，pouxizishenbugou，xunzhaoqingganzhongdecunzaidewenti，liru：fenshouyuangu、xingqing、fenqi、zhengchaodianzheixie，xunzhaonantigenbenyuanyin，wanhuijiujiejueleyiban。

二、提高自己，创建信心

xiangshitahuishou，sisidejiuchanbuqingbuqizuoyong。

 nanrendoushiganxingdongwu，jinyouxuezhedaban，baozhuangzishen，rangzishenbianweiyijianshanliangdeshangpin，tacaihuiganyuanfanguowanshuiqianshanlaixunni。

 shenmejiaoai？ninengyunyongzheiduanshijian，jijizhudongdexuexipeixunchuanyidapei、meizhuanghufu、yundongjianshen、xihaodeng，nidexiangmutouzihuihuodeyigezuihaodeziji。

lingwaibiewangji，yishengbuxiangdejiangzishendeshiyongjiazhichengxianzaitakandeqingdediqu，lirushengchanzhizaoyixie“qiaoyu”。

huozaiweixinpengyouquandengwangshangpingtaishangzhanxianzishendezhuanbian，zaoyixixingemiandeni，yidinghuizaochengtadeliuyi。

三、再次捕捉主导权

 zheiyihuanjiehenzhongyao，youyuzaoqidemaixiafubihuishitaduixianzaidenitianmanxingquaihao，yinci bubixincunjiaoxing，bubiyouyutarangniyigehaolian，niyejiuyouyourouguaduandejijitiehao。

nixuyaochixubaochizishendexintai，neiyangcaikeyishitalingyanxiangdai。

 xianliaoshi，haiyaoliuyizishendejiezougan，bubijujuchuoxinmiaohui，youshihouhaiyaoxuehaoliangxiata，liaotianneirongyefangzhiliaoqingganyouguandehuatitaolun，gongxiangyouqudeshijiukeyile。

youshihounenggouyunyongyixiezhuiyi，shitagengweihouhuimojishiquleni，guobushangduozhangshijiantadangranhuiyuenifuhexing。

 shenmecaisuanai？wanhuikendingbingbushizhuazhelingyifangdeyibaibufangshou，zhishiyaoxuehaobawozhulingyifangdexinbufangshou，jinguanquanshizhua，danzheizaiqizhongdehanyi，quejiongranbutong，nixuehaolemeiyou?