恋爱的味道有什么？挽回时做这3个“小动作”

 lianaideyiyiyoushenme？huoxurujinnizhengchuzairenshengdaoludeshizilukou，yijingwanhuizishendeganqing，quemeiyouyiqieyouqise，meifajiandaoyiqiechengxiao。xinliyeyuelaiyuechuxianyichangxiaochen，dianjizheshifouyaocongcisheqi。neimelianaideweidaoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaidewendudewenzhangba。

 shishishang，juedaduoshurenwangwangtiaoxuansheqiwanhui，bingbuyidingqueshibuyuanwanhuile，zhishiyagenmeiyoushijixiaoguo，buguanruhezuo，wulunfaxinxi、tongdianhua，huanshidixiatouchengrencuowu，daotashenpangqiqiu，naizhisipilailian……zheizhongdouqibushangyiqiegongxiao。

benlaishienaidexianghu，ruhezuihoujiuyouyuanwufenleni?

zishenfadexinxiruhejiuniniuruhaileni?

 zishendixiatouchengrencuowu，kenqingtakuanrong，jibian zuochufuwuchengnuo，danyiranbuleyiqiegongxiao，fandaoyoushihouhaihuijixuganjue：ruhelianggerendeqingkuangyuelaiyuegengcaogaoleni?

daizhuzhuduotichuzhiyi，niyeyidingshebudewangji，zuihouhuanshiwanbanwunai，dianjizheshifoucongcisheqicaisuanshizuihoudeluni?

 shishishang，guoduoderendoushihuiyoulenineiyangdekunhuo，youshihoubushiniwanhuizuodebuzu，zhishinitiaoxuandefangfahejihuidoubudui。

 wangwangdajiahuifenshou，bingqiezaifenliyihou，lianaideyiyiyoushenme？shijishangnipinleminglazhe，yemeifawanhui，tongchangshizheizhongyuangu：

1.姿势太低

 ruguonidezishitaidi，suichuyanzhetashi，yiqiedouqiangrenta，lianaideyiyiyoushenme？rangzheta，zuihouzongshishitayuelaiyueyibuzhenxi，yebuhuizaixiangguoquneiban，aixidajiadeganqing。

 bingqiezainiwanhuiqinei，ruguonidewanhuizishitaidishi，yehuishitayouyizhongni“shanggan”deniantou，tayouzenmekenengzhenxini?

2.挽回的方法不对

 wanhuishibixufangfade，goutongjiaoliuyeshibixufangfade，jiaruwanhuiqueshizheimejiandan，jinjindixiatouchengrencuowu，zuochufuwuchengnuo，suihouyaoqiutadekuanrong，neizenmekenenghuichuxianneimaduoderencunyoukunhuoni?

 rujintatingbujinqunideyiqiebiaoshu，zheijiushijihuibudui，danniwanhuidefangfayagenmeiyouzuodaotadeyugu，gengbuyaoshuochaoguotadeyugu，yijitamenyiwaijingxi，tayouzenmekenengyuanyinidefuhexingguidingni?

3.使用价值太低

 zuichudajiabenlaihenenai，taduiniyejiabeiguanai，rujinquefenhaobuzhenxi，naizhibuzaiyinideyiqietihui，jibian jiangnisunhaideshanghenleilei，yefenhaobuzaihu。

这又是怎么回事呢?

 yiqieyuanyuyunideshiyongjiazhigenggaile，zhiqiannideshiyongjiazhihetadapei，naizhiyuanchaota，zheibianhuishitaqingbuzijindexiangqinmijiechuni，guanaini。

 kerujinnideshiyongjiazhijiangdi，ernanshideshiyongjiazhiyouhuibansuizhenianjihejingyandeyouyidingdetigao，rangdajiazhongjiandechabiedakaidechongzuxianzhu，zuichuhuizaochengtadebumanyi，zhujiandekenengshitaxincundaijuan，dangranyebuhuirutusuoshiyiqianneiban，fenwaiaixidajiadeganqing。

jiranlejieyiqiedeyuanyin，jiuxuyaocongjintiankaishi，zigenyuankaolv，bayiqiedoutuodangdejiejuehao。

1.更改姿势

 genggainidezishi，kuanrongdaduburongyijinizhaodaoganqing，jinyoutisheng nidexinxin，tigaonidezishi，caikeyiyiyizhonggongpingdexintaihetahuihua。

nanshengjiuzheiyangdeweishengwu，zhenduichuishoukedede，taburongyiaixi，danzhenduibixuzhuiqiude，tafandaoyaohuadaliangdesixu。

 yinci congjintiankaishi，diaojienidexinlizhuangtai，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengxinxin，xinlizhuangtaiyesuizheyuelaiyuegengpingjing，weijiexiaqudewanhuidiandingjichu。

2.更改挽回方法

lianaidewenduyoushenmeni？jiranzaoyiyishidaowanhuidefangfabudui，wanhuidejihuiyeshibuzhengquede，neijiuxuyaozuochugenggai。

disanxiasi，jibushangniyiqieganqingshangdetisheng，sipilailian，huanhuiqudeyebushiganqing。

 weizijiyigeshijian，rangzishenhuanjiechulai，yerangzishenyouyigechendingdeshijian，ziranneiyangyeshizaijitamenzaojiuhuanjiexintaideshijian。

ruguonidewanhuifangfagenggai，nidewanhuigousigenggai，ninengfajueyiqiedoujiangyuelaiyuebuyiyang。

3.提升自我使用价值

gerenjiazhi，yiyangfeichangzhidenitigao。

 zaiyuanxiandeganqingzhong，niyizhishixiyinzhutadeneiyifang，youyunideshiyongjiazhizuishaohetashixiangtongde，naizhijuedaduoshushikenideshiyongjiazhidougaoguota，zheicaisuanshitazhuiqiunideyuangu。

danrujinnideshiyongjiazhidangranwucun，niduitadeyouhuoliyedafudujiangdi。

 lianaideweidaoyoushenme？neimaniyejinyoutishengziwoshiyongjiazhi，genggaiyiqie，congjintiankaishi，buyaoyuantianyouren，yebuyaoziganduoluo，gengbubihuxiangcuican，nixuyaodejinjinhuayiduanshijiantigaoziji，erruguonigenggaiyiqie，ruguonideshiyongjiazhitigaodaoshitachayideshuizhun，huoshengdetianpingchengdangranhuixiangniwaixie。