怎样谈恋爱?和男友吵架冷战分手该怎么挽回？

 xuduo nvhaipenyoujuedewanliushiyijianjiannanqiefanzadeshier，buqingchugaizenmezuocaikeyizaochengqiannanyoudeliuyi，lingwaiyoubuhuishitaduizishendichu，zaochengpaichi。neimetanlianaidemudeshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanzenyangtanlianaidewenzhangba。

 shijishang，yaowanhuiqianrenbingmeiyoudahuoerxiangxiangzhongneibanfanza。nvhaipenyouyaoshibaozhengxialiesandian，qiannanyouhenkenenghuijijihuishouqiufuhexing，qineibuyongnifangkuanrongdadu，gengbuyongnidijianqiqiu。

jiexiaquwojiangweidahuoerliejuzheisandiandejutineirong，qidaidahuoerkanlehoukeyiyouyidingdelijie：

01.分手不贬低

 jingchangtingshuoyijuhua——fenshoujianweiren。nideweirenzhengzhipinxingruhe，jiukanniyizhizaifenshouhoushifouhuibiandiqiannanyou，jiangqiannanyoudequexiansichusanbo，naizhigumingdiaoyu。

 zenyangtanlianai?yibannvhaipenyouneiyangzuodeyuanguyouliangge，yaobubianshifenshouhouxinhuaibufenyaoxiangduifu，yaobubianshixiangjieneiyangdexingweizaochengqiannanyouduizishendeguanxin。

 bulunshichuziyunayangyuangu，zheileizuofaquanshishifenbumingzhide，youyuruguonihaixiangwanhuiqianren，jiubukeyizuozheileiweihaitayonghupingjiadeshi，neiyanghuirangqiannanyouduinijuedeyanfan。

 yinci zaifenshouyihou，youqishizaidajiadexianghupenyouyanqian，ninengshuoniyuqiannanyoushiyouyifenshou，haikeyitanjiqiannanyouzaiganqingzhongzuodehaodediqu，dankendingbukeyisuibiandihui。

02.防止散播负面情绪

 sanbofumianqingxushiwanliuzhongdeyigejihui，keyouhenduodenvhaipenyouquebuyiweiyi，congerzaocheng zishendewanliulvcibuchenggong。shexiangyixia，jishijinjinjiaoyou，xianglaiyemeiyourenxiangyaotiejinyigetianmanfunengliangderenba?

 fenshouhoupubiandefumianqingxusanbo，bianshizaiweixinpengyouquanlaofayixiexiaochendetupianwenzi、bazijidepinpaixingxiangnongdehenxiaochen、qingkuangyanzhongnaizhiyouzinvequxiangzheilei，zheizhongzuofazongshirangqiannanyouduinibizhibuji。

 yiner，zaifenshouhou，nizuiqiadangdezuofabuyinggaishisanbofumianqingxu，zhishixiangfan，yaobiyiqiangengweifenfaxiangshang，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengyoubeiaidejiazhi。

 liru，zaizheiduanshijianlininengquyundongjianshen、fazhanqushizishendegerenaihao、xuexipeixunyimenxindezhuanyejinengzheixie，zuozheizhongshierkeyijinizengjiafengcai，yehuijinigengyouxinxin。

03.让自身越来越趣味

 zenyangtanlianai?youxiuderenbuguanzoudaonalidoufeichangrongyihuobao，zheiyeshitianbuzhangxiangbugoudeyidashenqi。yinci ，ruorichangshenghuodenishiyigesinaojin，neimanijiuxuyaoxiangbanfarangzishenyuelaiyuequweiqilai。

 “quwei”fenxuduo decengji，shenkedecengjimoguoyouzishendeguannianxiangfa，zaiyoupinweidelingwaiyekeyizhuazhutarenpaohuilaidewanxiaohuageng。jiaoweiqiandecengji，bianshinengshuogaoxiaoduanzihongnvhaixiao。

 yiner，tiyinipingchangnenggouduoshuayixiexinlangweibogenweixingongzhonghao，jiandaohaowanerdexinwenbaodaohuogaoxiaoduanzijiujiluxialai，wanghoumianyuqiannanyoufuchouzhelianmeng4deqingkuangxiabianbuhuimeiyouhuati，youhuozhexunsudibatianliaosi。

 tanlianaidemudeshishenme?ruguoniqudechenggongbaozhengzhishangsandian，xianglaiqiannanyouduinihaowuyiwenyiguamuxiangkan，zhidaoneishihouzaigentatifuhexingdeshi，wanliuqudechenggongdegailvkenengjinyibutigao。