恋爱磨合期：高段位的挽回

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？youxuduorenlaiyaowozuowanhuizixundeqingkuangxia，yuqiannanyoudeguanlianzaoyishifenjiaolvbuan，jichuqiannanyouduitazaoyijiaruheimingdanlianyirebushuohuale。neimelianaileixingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaililundewenzhangba。

 henxianzhu，zheishihoudeqiannanyouduinidejingtixinzaoyishifenqiangle，caihuizheibanduofangweiditifangnideyijuyidong。erqiannanyoudejingtixinyueqiang，dajiawanhuidenanduxishujiuyuegao。

 danhenduorengaobudong，yikaishifenshoudeqingkuangxialianggerendeguanliandouhaimeizheibanjiaolvbuan，weishenmerujinhuifazhanqushichengzheiyangzi?

yibanzhuangkuangxia，shiyouyutamenganlexialiezhei2jianshi。

1.死皮赖脸求复合型

 zaifenshouhou，dabufenmeifajienafenshoukeguanshishiderenhuibuduansaoraoqiannanyou。dianhuasaoraoduanxin，paodaolingyifangloudixiadundian，yunyonglianggerenxianghudepenyouweizijishuohaotingdehuazheixie。

 tamenrenweitourulezheimeduoqinfendezishenhaowuyiwenhuidadonglingyifang，quebuzhidaozheiyixiliedeshijicaozuo，quehuibalingyifangyuetuiyuezhang。

 youyuzheishideni，shiyigezaiqingganzhongsunhaiguotaderen。jiarutongyinidefuhexing，haowuyiwenbianshirangzishenzaishouyicisunhai。

dannibubujinbidexingwei，zhihuirangqiannanyouyufaganjuenishiyigeweixianrenwu，gengweixiangtaochunideshenpang。

2.在挽回的全过程中曝露需求感

 youderenzaiwanhuishijiandaolianggerendejinduhaisuanfeichanghao，ganjueqiannanyouduizishenmeiyouhendadepaichi，jiupobujidaidigangkaishizhuiyidangshilianggerenchuduixiangdeqingkuangxiayouduomeduometianmei，xianghuweilegenghaodilingyifangganleyixieshenmeshiqing。

 shenzhiyou，gangkaishiyiqinglvdezhenshishenfenganyuqiannanyouderichangshenghuo，duilingyifangkaizhanzhitijiechu，guangergaozhilianggerenzaoyifuhexingle。

lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？zheileizuofa，qingqingchuchudigaozhileqiannanyounitiejintademudi。

 daoci，niyiqianquanbudegerenxingweizaiqiannanyoulaikanbianshiweilegenghaodiwanhuitaerzuodeyanzang。tadangranhuiganjuenixuqingjiayi，congeryibujinitiejinzishen。

neima，jiangguozheimeduobuzhengqueshifanxing，womenzaiwanhuizhonggairuherangqiannanyouxuehuifangxiajingtixinni?

1.愿意分手

 yiqieyigejijifenshouderen，zuidanxindemoguoqiannanyouduizishenjiuchanbuqingmeifang。erjiuchanbuqingmeifangdejieguo，bianshibaqiannanyouyuetuiyuezhang。

 lianaililunyounaxie？yinci ，jiaruniyaoxiangwanhui，jiuyidingyaoxianyuanyifenshou。danyuanyifenshou，bingbingbushiyiweizhezishenqueshiyaoxiangfenshou。zhishiweilegenghaodijilingyifangshengchanzhizaoyizhongcuojue，rangqiannanyouduinixuehuifangxiajingtixin。

nixuyaogaoqingchu，chukaifufuzhiwai，qinglvhepenyouzheierzhongzhenshishenfenshinenggouxianghuzhuanhuande。

yiner，bushishuodajiashiqinglv，yibeizijiuyidingshiqinglv。yebushishuodajiashipenyou，yibeizijiumeiyoubianweiqinglvdegailv。

 yinci ，liangzhezhijianweilegenghaodiweichiyizhongguanlianerrangqiannanyouduiniyulaiyushengshu。bibushanghoutuiyibu，gancuitongyifenshou。

 yifangmian，ninengzaifenshoudeqingkuangxiaweichitimiandi，baoliuzhuzishendezizun。lingyifangmian，qiannanyouyehuiyouyuniyuanyifenshouerxiangyaoyuniweichipenyoudeguanlian，burongyiduinichedidichu。

2.减少需求感

 ruguoniduiqiannanyoudexuqiuganguogaodeqingkuangxia，niyejiuhuimeishimeikedouqiangualingyifang，juedefangfomeiyoulelingyifangzishenderichangshenghuojiumeifayiqiezhengchangguoxialai。

erjianshaoxuqiugan，bianshiyaoguohaodanshenderichangshenghuo，bubirangzishenderichangshenghuoweizhuqiannanyouzhuan。

 yinci ，fenshouzhihou，nixuyaofujianzishenderichangshenghuo，bazijicongrongmaodaobenzhiwanquanshengjiyici，erqiefengfuduocaizishendekeyushenghuo。

 lianaileixingyoushenmeni？dangjinrenjiandaonifanguoyuehaodeqingkuangxia，tadangranhuijuedenizaoyiconglianggerenzhongjiandeqingganzhonglikailechuqu，jiuburongyizaiduijinijingtixinle。