恋爱磨合期：挽回时别纠缠这样做

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心态沉积引起分手

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ciwai，congyuantoushangjiejuelingyifangdexintai，zuofabianshigaibianzishen，baranglingyifangbukaixindeshieryiyijiuzheng。

yaoshigaohaozhishangerdian，zheileifenshouxunsujiunengwanhui。

负面信息印像引起分手

 gangtanlianaishi，bicideyinxiangyidingquanshifeichanghaode，danjiaowangjiule，tebieshizaiyiqishenghuoyihou，henduorenbianhuiduilingyifangzaochengbutaihaodeyinxiang。

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cikenizaishuoshenmetaquanshitingbujinde，fandaohuijuedenishizaisibuchengren。

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lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？ciwaiyigezuofabianshi，zhuanhuanlingyifangdeyuanyouyinxiang。

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zhuanhuanyinxiangdezuofabingbuhuitainan，zongtilaishuobianshilingyifangjuedenishishenmeyangderen，niyejiufanzhelai。

 lirulingyifangganjuenibuzuzhenxinshiyi，niyejiuduorenzhenduita，baozhengduitabumanbaobumengpian，jianjiandideronghuatadexin。

shijishang，liangrenfenshoudaliangdeshiyouyuganqingbufuhe，dabufenshibuhuiyouxuehaishenchoude。

ruguonimeizuoranglingyifangtonghenzhijideshier，quanshinenggouwanhuide。

 lianaileixingyoushenmeni？zuizhongyaodebianshinonggaoqingchudajiadefenshouzhonglei，xuehaojiejuedefangshi，wanhuiyigerenbianshizheimejiandan。