爱一个人有错吗?挽回的几个原则

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?zaizixunquanguochengzhong，changchanghuichuxianneiyangneibandenanti：neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

woneiyangdeganqinghainengwanhuima?

tahaiaiwoma?wozenmefenhaojuedebudaole?

woshibushizhiyoufangqile?

……

geshuyijian，shubushengshu。

qiuzhuzhehuichuxianneiyangdenanti，shijishangshifeichangrongyilejiede。

 zhongjiuwanhuibingbushiyijianneimafeichangrongyideshi，genghekuangzaifenshouhou，suoyourendeqingxudouzhangqixingchuyufumianxinxidangzhong，xuehuisikaogongzuonengliyedafudujiangdi。

 danshi，wanhuijilvdi，yebingbuyiweizhezheniyejiubukeyiwanhui。shijishang，wanhuizheijianshiqing，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?shijigebiaozhunnenggoucanzhaode，dangnidongyueduo，sisuodeyueda，nijiuhuiyuelaiyuebuyiyang，duinieryanyiqieyehuiyuelaiyuefeichangrongyihenduo。

biaozhun1：qingxudepingwen，lijijuecelewanhuidequdechenggong

 nanshishizhongburongyijinideqingxuermaide，youyunizaoyibianchengtadeqiannanyou，dajiazhongjianyezaoyibianchenglishishijian，jibian nizaibugaoxing，jiusuanniyizhizaizenyangtongchu，tadouburongyisuibiandelianminni。

nanshijiuzheiyangwuqing，dantawuqingdeshenhouyingshechuqudetadelixing。

 zhongjiunizaoyibianchengtadeqiannanyou，buguannideqingxuduomedebenkui，buguannishuoleshiduoshaolangmandehua、bianruan，tadexinlingshenchudoushihuishihaowubolande;naizhiruguonipianzhidaoyaoxiangsunhaizishenshi，haiyaosisuoqingxi，tahuiaiyigeyixishengzijiweichengben，ququshitarangbudenvshima?

ruguonixiufudeyuelaiyuekuai，qingxuyuepingwen，nidewanhuijilvjiuhuiyueda。

huanyigeshijiaoxiangyixiangjiuzhidao，sheihuiqidaizishendelingyibanshiqingxubuwending，yiranwupindecunyouni?

 jibian tayouyidingdehouhuimoji，jiusuanzaigeyiduanshijiantaganjuetichufenshouyixiebulizhi，dantadexinliyezongshikaolvdaoyigexintaijunheng，qingxupingwendeyixingpengyou。

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biaozhun2：taburongyisuibianshandiaoni

zaifenshouhou，nanshiburongyisuibianshandiaoni。

 shide，jibian tazaizaizenyanglengkuwuqing，jiusuantaduinichuxianyichangwuqing，dantadexinlingshenchu，yeshilijingyicicisisuo，beineijiuxincuicanguode。

 taburongyisuibiandeshandiaoni，youyuzaifenliyihou，tahaiqidaizhangwoniderichangshenghuo，taxiwangnijiandaonikendingbuhuiyouyutichufenshouerjuedediluo，neiyangtacaihuianxin，yijiangdikuijiugan。

 ziran，zheibushijiniguzuozitai，youyizhuyaobiaoxiandechuxianyichangdiluoaitong，yiqieshierdoububizuodetaiguo，buranyezongshishitaganjuenimeijiule，yincidujuezheigefumianxinxiqingxulaiyuanyudi。

 aiyigerenyouduoku,taburongyisuibiandejiaruheimingdanni，chufeishinizuodetaiguofen，yikuernao，meirihaojinbuyiyangdefangfa，laiposhitayuanyinifuhexing，zuihouzaochengtadeyanjuan，rangqiannanyoupobudeyijiaruheimingdanni。

 yinci huanshinagebiaozhun，zaitamingquetichufenshouzhihou，tanlvdijienazheiyikeguanshishi，xunsudiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，zheicaihuijinijiexiaqudequdechenggongwanhui，zuoyouliangdemaixiafubi。

biaozhunsan：taqidaiyunizuopengyou

 zainiwanbanqinfenyihou，dajiayouyouzaicigoutongjiaoliudejiyu，rujinbaifangzainiyanqiandeyigenantishi，yongnazhongzhenshishenfenquhetajiaowangni?

 taziranbuxiwangnizhiqianrendezhenshishenfenlaihetajiaowang，youyuneiyangzongshijitamenchanshenggongzuoyali，bingqiezaizheigequanguochengzhong，niyehuixuxutaotaodeshushuoxiangnian，xushuzishendeshebude、buganxin、buken，zheiyezhiyoujitamenzaiwuxingzhizhongchanshenggongzuoyali。

heqiannanyoujiaowang，yaotuihaipenyoudezhenshishenfen，youyujinyougenjupenyoudezhenshishenfen，caikeyirangxianghutantandangdangjiaowang。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?yejinyouruguonibudailaitagongzuoyali，shitaganshoudaobuyiyangdecunyou，nicaihaiyoujihuianshizhefuhexing。