爱一个人有错吗?分手后这样做

 aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?wojinnianershiwusui，nanpengyouyuwotongling，womendoushidaxuetongxue，congdayigangkaishizaiyiqidaoxianzaizaoyisannianle，yizhiyilaidajiadeqinggandouhenhao，fujindexueshengmendoushuodajiaruguofenshoujiucongcibuzaixiangxinaiqingle。neimeaiyigerenyoucuoma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenyouduokudewenzhangba。

 zhizhidasineiyinian，yuanxiaoyouchuguoliuxuejianxidejiyu，tayeqianglietuijianwoshiyixia，erqiefuwuchengnuoyidinghuidengzhewoyinian。

woyizhiyilaiduitahenanxin，ganjueyinianbale，xunsujiuguoqu，yinci jiuzaishangnian10yuefenlaidaoaodaliya。

 yikaishiwaidideqingkuangxiahaifeichanghao，zhihoujianjianditayijianshiyulaiyulengmo，zhihouyouyicijuranshijitianwohailianluobuleta，woxunwentashifouxiaishangqitanvshengle，tayeyizhijiaowobiehusiluanxiang。

 zhizhiwoyouyuqiyedeyuangu，tuichishijianlehaiwaidejianxi，guiguoyihou，.wolejieyuanxiantayuqitanvshengzaiyiqile，zaoyisangeyuele。

 woneishihoulejieshiqinghoushangxindejijiangyiyule，zhihouwoxiaohuobanmenyedoujiwoquanta，bubiyouyuyishideshenmiganercuoguoledajiasanniandeqinggan，keshitameiyouting。

 zhihou，tadepenyouchuxiangfashuorangwozhaotababamama，youyutababamamayijianshiyinxiangdouhenhao，yizhihenshiyongdajia，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuoma?danshiwoyebuzhidaoyingbuyinggaiqu，woqueshibuqingchugaizenmebanle，laoshiwohainengwanhuima?

 jiandaonidexushu，woshifenlejienideqingxu，juedenihenaizhenidenanpengyou，ketadepanbianqueshitapeibushangnideaihexinrengan。

 woshishifenbuqianglietuijiannilaizhaotababamamade，yishiyouyujibian tababamamazaiduiniyouganjue，yemeifaniuqutarujindeniantou。

 ershijibian tazuncongbabamamadehualikaineigenvren，neitahuigengweihenni，youyuzaitayanzhong，jiushinichaikailetade“zhenzhengdeaiqing”，erbushitadebabamama。

 duiyudajiazhongjiandeqinggan，yinweiwoqidainikeyipingjingxialai，youyuneiyangzuishaoburongyirangzishenqusipilailian，naodetaibuhaokan。

 yeyounixuyaoweizijiyigeshijian，quhaohaosikaoyixia，lingyifangfeichangzhidenilaiwanhuima?xiabianwonengrangniyixieqingganshangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

让自身平静下来

woshifenlejienirujindeqingxu，sanniandeqingganzailingyifangyanzhongjingranbaijiduanduansangeyue，zheiyidingjinishifenshangxin。

keshiyuefazheileiqingkuangxia，yuefayaorangzishenpingjingxialai，nijibukeyihuihuaitamenyebukeyisunhaizishen。

nixuyaolizhidewenyiwenzishen，lingyifanghaizhibuzhiwanhui，weizijiyigehuida，jiarunihaixiangyaowanhui，neimajiuwangxiakan。

 rangzishenkuaisujiangwen，congyiqiandeshangxinyoushang，bianhuaweikailangxinxin，quhaohaodihuiyiyixiayiqianlingyifangaishanglenishi，xuduonianyihou，zaikanyixiarujinxuduonianyihou，nishibushizaoyijuechulezheizaiqizhongdequbie?

打造出全新升级的自身

dajiajiaowanglesannian，lingyifangduinideyiqiedouleranyuxiong，shinizailingyifangyanzhongzaoyiyibuneima“xinxian”le。

danzheizhongganjuedouhuituokuandaoxiayirendeshenshang，zheileikuzaodouhuijianjiandishanguozaitamenzhengzhongjian，zheibuguoshiyichangxunhuaneryi。

 yinci ，tazaimanmanlejielingyigenvhaideqingkuangxia，nijiuxuyaozhuanxinzhizhidiqudazaochuyigequanxinshengjidezishen，baituoqiannanyouduiniquanbuderenzhinengli。

 ninengchenzheiduanshijianhaohaoditishengziwo，rangzishenhuodegengweihaokan，qinfenyundongjianshen、xuexipeixunchuanyidapei、jifuhuli、meizhuanghufu，qinfenzaigongzuoshanggaochuzishendeqiankun，rangzishenbianweitakewangbukejidemoyang。

jilao，yeyaoshitakanjiannidequanbuzhuanbian。

有时候给他们一些关注

 zainiyuelaiyuegengweichusedelingwai，tamenzhongjiandeshenmiganyehuijianjiandibaitui，tamenhuijianjiandilejiexianghu，ganjuelingyifangyemoguoyuci，manmantamenyehuichanshengyixiezhengzhi，erzheishideniqueyuelaiyueyulaiyushanliang。

aiyigerenyouduoku,cike，jiuxiangyaonizhaoyigetuocigenlingyifangchuangjianyixialianluo。

 tuocinenggoushidajiazhongjiandeyixiexianghuwujiana，huoshilaotongxuejuhuiadounenggou，suihouxianliaozhongwuyijiandibiaolujilingyifangyixieguanzhule，yebubiguoduo。

cikenidepinpaixingxiangyidinghuizaitaneixinzaicisuzaoqilai，erqieduinizaochengkuijiugan，gangkaishihouhuimojiyunifenli。

 fangshibaifangzaizheier，danshiniyeyaokaolvdaoyidian，lingyifangyouyuyishideshenmiganerlikaini，yehuiyinyishideshenmiganersheqixinganqing。

jianglaitajiuburongyiyouyushenmiganerzaidulikainima?neiyangdenanshengqueshizhidema?

 niyuxinganqingshijishangguigenjiedi，quanshikeliandenvhaier，jinguanshinenggouwanhui，keshijiujinggairuhexuanze，zheihuanshibixuwenyiwenniziji。

 ganqingzhongshenmigansuiranguanjian，danzheizhibuguoganqingxunhuanzhongdeyigexiaobaxieryi，jiaruweilegenghaodiyishideshenmiganersheqizishenhenduonianyunyingdeganqing，caisuanshibuzhi。

 aiyigerenyoucuoma?youyulijingshiguangmoheqichuqudeganqing，caisuanshiwanmeideaiqing，burannijiangshizhongtaobulezhei“shenmigan”dekongbulunhui，yeshizhongwufazhaodaozhenzhengdeaiqing。