爱情来的时候,如何掌握挽回中的主动权?

 aiqinglaideshihou,changchangyouzixundepenyougaosuwo，jiaoshi，wokandaoxuduowenzhangneirongdoushuo，wanhuiyaoshigenggai，jiunengqudechenggong，danshiwozuoleneimeduoqinfen，yebatataoyandequexiandoujiuzhengle，weihehaishibaia.neimeaiqingkeyiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqinglaiqiaomendewenzhangba。

zaihuiyingzheigewentiyiqian，woxianyaorangdahuoergaoqingchu，shenmejiaotichufenshou，weiheyaowanhui?

zaidechuqingganzixundeqingkuangxia，tidaofenshoujiuhuiyouxierengenwoshuo：woshibushijijidianhao?

tidaopobingqideqingkuangxiayouhuitiwen：neiyangshifoutaijijile?

 wanhuiquanguochengzhongjijiyuchuyubeidongdexuanze，dequeshiyijianfeichangzhidedutedeshier，jinridajiajiulaitanyitanwanhuizhongxintaidexuanze。

 zuixiannixuyaoquelideyidianshi，wanhuishiyijianwendingpinghengdexinlizhuangtai，jiaruniquanguochengbaoyouyizhonggudingbudongdexintai，neimayagenjiujiejuebushangwuhuabamendenanti。

 aiqinglaideshihou,shehuixinlixuekexueyanjiuzhong，yizhizhongdianqiangdiaoxintaidebuquedingxing。youxiaorongqiahaoqingxu，ziranhuanjing，yijianfankuisanyaosucaikeyizhangkonglingyifangdexinlizhuangtaimaixiang，junhenglaogurenjijiaowang。

 huanjuhuashuo，nibujinzhangwozhudong，youyaoxuehaochuyubeidong。jinyouruguonijizhidezhangkongwanhuizhongdebuquedingxing，caikeyizaifuhexingzhongmaixiangzuihoudequdechenggong。

neimadajiajiuzuixiantaolunyixia，wanhuiquanguochengzhongzijuexingxinlitedianyuxiaojixingxinlitediandeshijifanying。

yi.zijuexingxinlizhuangtaitexingdedingxingfenxi

 shuobailezijuexingxinlizhuangtaitexingdedingxingfenxi，jijiushizhiniyizhizaiganqingzhutihuodongzhong，yongyujijizijintouru，lailijiweihailingyifangxintaidegoujia，heqingxufazhanqianjingdegerenxingwei。tongsuhuadianshuo，bianshiniweilegenghaodiwanhuiqinggan，douganleshenme，qianghangenggailingyifangzhuguanxingguandiandeqinfen。

yibanlaishuo，wanhuiquanguochengzhongdezijuexingxinlizhuangtaitexing，fanyingzaisangecengmian

1、genjuyuyanzhuyaobiaoxianzijuexing

 yuyanjiushinikeyiyingyongde，goutongjiaoliuganqingzuilijizuiyouxiaodegongluqiaoliang。lingwairujindeshehuixianzhuangxia，yikaogezhonggeyangdeshejiaowangluo，nikeyiyongyugoutongjiaoliudefangshiyeshifendeduo，shoujiweixin，qq，baidutieba，xinlangweibodengdeng。

 yinerruguonixiangzhuyaobiaoxianzishenzijuexingdeqingkuangxia，chuqulijilingjuligoutongjiaoliu，zheizhongyejiushinikeyijieyoudegoutongqudao。zongtilaishuoyuyanzuoweizuijichudegoutongjiaoliuzhuanyonggongju，yizhiyilaiyeshichengxianzishen，hegenggailingyifangzuiqiangyoulidewuqizhuangbei。wanhuiquanguochengzhong，jiaruniyaochengxianzishendezijuexing，yuyanwoshinideyouxuan。

2、根据行为自觉性

 xianglainiyizhizaiqingganshenghuozhong，yidinghelingyifangyouneixie，xinyoulingxidaoxinlizhuangtaidedongzuo。huoxushitabuzhibujuededashou，momoditiexindejiedaonideshoubao，lijiyouyoudianqiangshidejinixizhusandiaodexiesheng。zheizhongzishizaiqingganbiaodashang，fenhaobuxunyuyuyandeshashangli。

 yiyangzaiwanhuiquanguochengzhong，yifenyongxinxuanzedelipin，yichangyuyiquelideaijin。xingdongyiyangnengchuanlainiyaoxiangfuhexingdexinxinhemudi。zheiyeshizhuyaobiaoxianzishenzijuexingdeguanjianfangfa。

ruguonifajuebixutisheng fuhexingzhongdezijuexingshi，chukaiyuyan，xingdongyeshifeichangzhidenihuaxiaosixudamopaoguangdediqu。

3、genjujianjiexingfangshizhuyaobiaoxian

 zijuexingshijishangyuyanhegerenxingwei，bianzuchengleshenghuoqijuzhongdesuoyoujijifangshi。keshiwojuedeyiweizhe，chukaiyuyanhegerenxingweijiumeiyouqita，zhuyaobiaoxianzijuexingdefangfale。

 xuduozhuangkuangxia，yuyanhegerenxingweidoushihuishouxianzhi。liruzhanyouqingganzixundabufenshujuxinxide，yiguolianwanhui。shineikongjianshangdegeduan，hexinxineirongshangdeqianque。henrongyidaozhixingdongshangdemafan，hegoutongjiaoliushangdegeduan。erqiezheigeshihou，ganghaojiushinideqiannanyouzuifeichangrongyiwujie，niqianquezijuexingdeqingkuangxia。

 yinerxuehaoyunyongzishenbiandeshejiaomeiti，jianjiexingdechengxiannidezijuexing，jiushifendehelile。genjudisanfangfushudeshijixiaoguo，henyoukenengbibushangnizijixingdong。keshizaijiquetigaozijuexingdeqingkuangxia，tashishifenkaopuhebixudefangshi。

er.xiaojixingxinlizhuangtaitexingdedingxingfenxi

 jiangwanlezijuexingxinlizhuangtaitexing，dajiazailiaoshuochuyubeidong。shuobailexiaojixingxinlizhuangtaitexingdedingxingfenxi，jiushizhizaiganqingdajianquanguochengzhong，niyingduilingyifangdeganqingzijintourushi，suozuochudeqingxuyijianfankuihegerenxingweidingxingfenxi。tongsuhuadianeryan，jiushinizenmedafulingyifangdewanhuigerenxingwei。

yibanzhuangkuangxia，shiyongwanhuidechuyubeidongxinlizhuangtaitexingyouqingjizhong，yousigebiaodaxingshi

1、tingshixingchuyubeidongxintai

 zheileichuyubeidongqingkuang，bianshigenjutuichinidafulingyifangdesulv，laigoujianzishendechuyubeidongyingxiangli。buxulingyifangfajue，niduitadegaoduzhongshishuiping。ninenggenjuyixiexiangjin，wogangcaizaimanggongzuozhong，wogangcaizaixianzao，wobujiuxinglaidengyuanyin，jizijidetingshixingzhaojiekou。

 aiqinglaiqiaomen,zheileichuyubeidongxintaizaiwanhuizhong，yibandouyongyi，lingyifangbuzugaoduzhongshinideqinfenshi。ninenggenjuzheileifangshi，tishilingyifang，niderichangshenghuobingbushijinjinzaijinjinweiraozhetazhuan，tuxianzishendezhutizuoyong。

2、制冷性处于被动心态

 zainiyingduiwanhuiquanguochengzhong，maodunshengjideqingkuangxia。zhilengxingchuyubeidongxintaishishifenguanjiande，yaolejiehenduofuhexing，bianshihuizaiyixiexiaomocadeshengji。nixuyaoqueliyidian，wanhuihelianaibuyiyang，wanhuizhonglingyifangbuyidinghaihuijixuwuxiandude，renshounideyixiexiaoquexian。

 zaiyingduimaodunyoukenengshengjishi，biannenggoushizhezhilengxingchuyubeidongxintai，tuxianyigebuzhudong，bubipo，buzhengchao。jijijidajiabiciyigezhilengqi，nixianbiequjinjinjijiaoduiyucuo，tiaoqizhengyi。xiandenglingyifangpingjingxialai，zaijianjiandigoutongjiaoliu。

3、回绝性处于被动心态

 fuhexingquanguocheng，yejiushinihetazaicichuangjianbiciganqingguanliandequanguocheng。zaizuoganqinggoujiadeqingkuangxia，niyidinghuifajue，lingyifanghuizaidugenjuyixiegerenxingwei，laiquedingnidedaodedixian，jiechuannidexintai。

 zheigeshihoujiaruniqiangzhide，xianglingyifangchuandinidexintai，ganyutaderenzhinengli，shibuqizuoyongde。zheitongchanghuijiqitadeqingchunqipanni，zheiduiwanhuidetongguolvweihaifeichangda。

 ninengshizhehuijuexingxiaojixingxintai，qiangshidehuijuelingyifangchaoyuenidaodedixiandegerenxingweiheguiding。yihoushitazishenqusisuo，nidedaodedixianzainaer，jiexiaqugaizenmezuo。zheileijiangzhudaoquanjiaojilingyifang，zishenzhibaocunjuecequandexintai，huidadadejiqilingyifangdetiaozhanxinlizhuangtai，tisheng tadeyingjixing。

 lingwai，aiqingkeyiyou,duidajiannizijide，dandulaogudeneixindajian，yeshihenyouxiezhude。zheinengshinizaiwanhuizhong，ganjinzishendezizunhedaodedixian。