爱情来的时候,后悔主动提分手你还能挽回吗？

 aiqinglaideshihou,qianjitianjiedaoyigehenyouyouqidesiliao，shiyigenvshengliude。neimeaiqingkeyiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqinglaiqiaomendewenzhangba。

tagaozhiwojiang，zishenbulizhixiahenanyoutiletichufenshou，neishihouliangrennaodeyouqijiang，tahuayeshuodehenjue。

 danshirujinyizhouduoguoqu，zishenhouhuile，ganjuezishenxingziji，buyinggaineimawuqingdetitichufenshou，genwoshuohaishifoukeyishiwanhui。

shijishang，zaiwangrijierendeshilizhong，yeshiyouxiangjindezhuangkuangchansheng，neiwoyelaixiangjinjiangxiatichufenshouhouhuilegaizenmeban。

 zuixian，mingquetichutichufenshouderenjiushini，aiqinglaideshihou,houhuimojiderenyejiushini，zheicidajuyigerenbowan，ziranzuitongchudeyejiushinizishen。

jiaruniyijingkanzheijuhua，woxiangnidayueyouerzhongxinlizhuangtai：

yaobushiganjuetichufenshouzishentide，rujinshuowanhuifangbuxiaqingmian，buqingchuyinggaizenmeban;

yaobushihouhuimojitifenshouhou，zaoyigenlingyifangtilefuhexing，danlingyifangdefanyingbingbushiniyaojiandaode。

对不对?

估计你得搞清楚二点：

 diyidianshi，nitiletichufenshouyouhouhuile，xiangfanxiangyixiangninanyou，shijishangtadaliangdeshichuyuyizhongyilianmengbiqingkuang，zheishinidejiyudian;

dierdianshi，bubibatichufenshouzuoweiduliexingshijianlaiduidai。

我先而言第一点。

 nitidetichufenshou，nihouhuile，niyaowanhui。zheishijishangzishenshiyigeshifenshunxiangdeqingkuang。keshi，wodadunirujinhuiyouyizhongzishenfancuoshier，yaoxianglingyifangjinzaohuijiadexinlizhuangtai。

ruguonishineimexiangde，neiwonengqueliduinishuo：jiusuanniqudechenggongwanhuile，zhihoudeshenghuoyebuhuihaoguo。

为何?

 laipanneimeyigeluojixing，nijijitiletichufenshou，rujinyouyongkuanrongdaduquwanhui，zongshiranglingyifangganjuenimeizhongshitayuzheiyiduanqinggan，erqieruguonishiruo，lingyifangjiuhuilizaiyigeshangwei。

dangbeiwanhuiderendaoshangweideqingkuangxia，jichuniyejiumeiyouzhudaoquanle。

再而言第二点。

dajiarujinfenshou，keshi，bingbuyiweizhedajiadeguanlianjiuduandiao。

 nihouhuile，buxiangfenshoule，shijishangnenggoubaxianjieduandajiachuzaideqingkuangzuoweiyigelianaiqidechixu，zhibuguoshidajialinshifenlilebale。

 nixuyaoqujiandingbuyizishendexinxin，jinyoulichangjiandingle，buyinyizhong“woyijingsangshitale”deqingkuangqushijicaozuo，nihuanshihaiyoujihuide。

 keshi，youyidianwoxiangzhuyaotishini，mangmugenfengdequshizhejunhengxianghudeguanlian，shiyouweixianyinsude，feichangrongyibakongbutaihaodaozhibukenidebuliangyingxiang。

02

zainiyaoxiangqujunhengliangrenshiyongjiazhideqingkuangxia，wubigaoqingchu：shizhongcunyoudejiazhiganqifu，caisuanshifenlichulaideshizhi。

 zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，jiaruyaoxianghuifuxianghujiandehunyinguanxi，zuiguanjiandebianshizhonggouzishendejiazhigan，jinzaojiang2gerenshengdejiazhichabienongping，caiyouyixianshengji。

 duiyujiazhigandezhonggou，nenggoucanzhaowofangdaowenweiyibufendeshengpinkechengneirong【quanbuzhouguanlianhuifuke】，libianhuijiangdaozheiyibufendeneirong。

 zhiguanzhongyaodewentibianshi，faleyouyibufenrendaowanhuiyoushiyongjiazhichabiedeguanlianshi，zonghuizuoyixieduociyijudeshier，rangzishennenggouwanhuideqingkuang，youyuelaiyuecuozongfuza。

wozaizheihuizonglezonghuichuxiande6diancuowuguannian，yidingyaohaijideraokai：

01.chixuzhuzhongzishenruheai。

xuduo rendaowanhuiquanguochengzhong，zonghuichixufanfu“woshizenyangdeaizheni，nibuyaolikaiwo。”

 ziranfangshihenyoukenengbuyiyang，danxingdongdeshizhishibuhuigaibiande。yizhineiyangchixudefanfuhezhuzhongzishenduilingyibandeai，shijishangbingmeishenmeshunxianggongxiao。

 zaizishenbuzuochugenggaideqingkuangxia，zongshiyizhizhuzhongzishenshiduomedeailingyifang，zishenshizenyanglibulelingyifang，zongshitutiantadeyanfangan。

yigeweikongbiniburuderen，youweishenmehuibeiniwanhuini?

02.刚开始放大差别。

 yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangyejingchanghuichuxian，bianshizishenzaiqingganxiufudequanguochengzhong，weilegenghaodijinzaowanhuilingyifang，erdaozhixuduo shier、fenbian、juecenaizhiyuanzewentiexingshijiandouyizhaolingyifangdeyaoqiudabiaoniantoulai。

 zheizaixiufuzhong，shishifenzhimingxingde。youyudajiazishenbianshiyouyujiazhiganqifucaifenlide，neiyangdezuofa，zongshibadajiazhongjiandechabieladeyuelaiyueda。

aiqinglaiqiaomen,tahuiganjue：niguozhenshilibulewode。

yidanneiyangdeniantouchengxingle，qingganxiufudesuoyouzhudaoquanyejiudengtongyuzaoyijiaodaolingyifangle。

03.尝试解决否认。

 zaiyinweijiazhiganchabiezaocheng deganqingliekaizhuangkuangzhong，jibenshangdoushihuichuxianyifangfourenlingyifangdeqingkuang。zheileifourenkenengshiyibufende，yekenengshichedifouding。

yinci，henduorenjiugangkaishizaiwanhuiquanguochengzhongjielideyaoxiangniuqulingyifangdezheileifourenhefourendeniantou。

keshi，neiyangzuoyibanyemeiyounaxiehaojieguo。

 tadefouren，jinjinyigegenjuduofangmianyuanguerxingchengdewaizaizhuyaobiaoxian，erfeibenzhiyuangu。bubiwangjile，dajiafenlideshizhishiyouyujiazhiganchabie，bingfeitadefouren。

你也能够那样了解：

duoyuanhuajiejuele，tadefourenyeshunlichengzhangdehuixiaotui，youyumeiyougenbenyuanyin，waizaizhuyaobiaoxianyejiubuhuiyoule;

 aiqingkeyiyou,danjiarunijinjinchulitadefouren，neijiusuantabufourennini，dajiadechabieyirancunyou，bunenggenchu，yiranmeifagaohaoqingganxiufu。