爱情算什么?分手后只要你停止这些行为

 aiqingsuanshenme?rencongchushigangkaishi，zhongjiugudan，weilegenghaodirangzishendegudankanqilaibuneimatuxian，yinci jiuhuizhaoxunyuzishendewuliganleisidehuoban——xiangchujiuhuizaocheng。neimeshenmeshizhenai?zhenaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeyangdeaidewenzhangba。

 qiannanyouyoupaichi，shijishangshiyouyuniyizhizaizheiyiduanwanliuli，yongdefangfabudui，niwanliudeluojixingbuzhengquezaocheng de。jinrijidahuoerliaoyigegaopaiweidewanliudingyi——wanliulideluojixing。

shenmejiaowanliulideluojixing?nenggoubeilejieweigerenjiazhijingzhundingwei。

 gerenjiazhijingzhundingweiwucongyibu，erzaiganqingwanhuizhongyeyulaiyubeigaoduzhongshi。youyuzheileisiweiluojigerenjiazhijingzhundingweidenengliangchanghuijinguankanbudaomobudao，keshiqueduinidewanliuzaochengguanjianweihai。neima，jiuxianrangwomenyiqitaolunyixiazheileiluojixingzenyangweihaidajiadewanliu。

刚大家早已说过去了不一样的逻辑性会对大家的挽留造成不一样的危害。最先大家需先来做一个区别说白了的不一样逻辑性实际上关键就是指两大类逻辑性群体。

1、个人价值精准定位低的，低动能逻辑性群体。

 zheixiexiaohuobantamenbenshendongnengbugou，jingchangduizishendeshiyongjiazhijingzhundingweibugao。qizhongzaiguanjiandexinxinshi：aiqingsuanshenme?“woshiruanruowunengde，woshimeiyoushiyongjiazhide，wobushibeibierenjieshoude”。

 zaizheixierenzaoshoufenshouyihouduitameneryanhaoxiangshidazainanyiyang。tamenhuiyuantianyourenfeijinxinsi“yixiaba，woyeshuowoshibuzhishenaide，tayiqiannenghewozaiyiqiwoyijingshijianhuiyigedahuasuanle。”dede，kanyixianeiyangdedidongnengluojixingqunti，tamenbazijigaodezheibandijian。

zheileirenchangjiandewanliujihuafanganshineiyangde：

①yaoweiqilianshidewanliuduice

 zheileirenbiyiqieqitaleixingderengengmingbaizhuangkeling，bankelian。tamenhuirangtamendeairenganjueshiquzishentamenqueshiguoxiabulaile，niganjinlaijiujiuwoba。tianya，yongnidejiaozhixiangyixiang，lingyifangshiyaoxiangyunichuduixiang，huanshiyaoxianglaizuohuofoguanyinpusade。

②“danqiuxinqingengyun，butanhuode”detouruxingduice

 youyugerenganjuebutaihao，henyouzhirenzhimingderenshizijimeiyouchongzuxiyinzhulingyifangdewupin。yinci jiuzhiwanggenjubutanhuodeshidetourulaijuedelingyifang。ranglingyifangganjuezishenshigefeichangzhidexinlaideduitahaoderen。

 jiaruyingyongduilingyifanghaojiunengnaxiaaiqingdehua，neimazhigongduitamendelaozonggouxingba!xiaoshourenyuanduitadexiaofeizhegouxingba!naizhilianmeiyigeshengchenyebuluoxialaidezhongguoyidongtongxindounenggourongshengruxuan!

③勤奋努力型对策

 xianeryijianneiyangduicedeshiyongrenyelejiezishenjiazhiganbuzu，yinci xianggenjuqinfennulilairangzishenjiazhiganshangsheng。keshitamendedidongnengluojixingqueshibingbushikaoqinfennulijiunengjiejiudelede。youyutamendedidongnengshiyouneishifangchuqude。jibian youchaoyirihaohuachejingfuyeyangaibushangtamendedijiangan。

2、个人价值防护的动能散播群体

 ruguonishizheiyizhongleidehua，nihenyoukenengyagenbuguanzhushenmeluoji，naxiegerenjiazhi。youyudajiayanzhongjiandaoyiqiedouneimaqueshi。woyoufangyouche，tanianqingmaomei。wokeyijirangtaguoshanghaoriziananwenwenderizi，tapingshabugenwo?

 xingba，jiarunizhengtishilichongzushenhoukenengshiqueshibuqueairen。keshizheierdajiajineryanshuozheiyizhongleidepuluodazhongdezhuangkuang。

 zheiyizhongleiderenjimeiyouxianzhudeziwojiazhigandi，doumeiyouxianzhudexinlizhuangtaiyoudian。zheiyixingjingchangshipingpingchangchang，yaozhaodemubiaoyeduoshihezishenguoshenghuode。yinci tamendewanliuduiceyejiaoweiqueshi，yibanyouneiyangdejileixiangjin：

①比较有限投入型

 shenmeyangdeai?yudiyileidedanqiuxinqingengyunbutanhuodedewujintouruxingbuyiyang。zheileidongnengsanboxingyougengqiangdeshijijianyannengli。zaoqitamenyehuitouru，keshitouruhoutamenhuiguanchalingyifangshizenyangyijianfankuide。jiarulingyifangbuyijianfankuihuoshifumianxinxiyijianfankuidehua，tamenjiuhuizhongzhitouru。

yeshishishuozheiyixingyehuiquwanliude，keshiwanliudezhangjiuduzaiyulingyifangdefanying，jiarufanyinghaotacaihuizaici。

②交换价值型(EquivalentExchange)

 zheierhenyoukenenghuihehenduorenderenzhinenglibuyiyang。henduorendoujuedeaiqingdedingyishijiaohuanjiazhi，qishibushi。jiaohuanjiazhizhiduimouxierenyouyong。liru，duixiongxingheermengchongdongxingjiubushihenyouyong。jiaohuanjiazhixingzunzhaodebiaozhunzongtilaishuoyeshitatouzhiyitao，xiangyaonibaozhiyili。buranjiusaygoodbye!

3、高个人价值的，高效率能量逻辑性群体

 zheiyileirenjiujiaoweilebuqi，tamenkeyigenjuzishendegaoxiaolvnengliangfusheyuandaozhoubian，rangtarenbuzijuedebeixiyinzhu。zheileirenzhengtishangeryanrenyuanrenpindoubijiaohao。

 yinci jiaruhezheiyangderenfenshoutongchangbingbushiyouyujiazhiganbuzu，zhishiyouyubiedejutixingbuzhengquenanti。buqingchushibushiniguishuyuzheiyizhonglei。

 shenmeshizhenai?danshibiezheji，yaobushiyemeishier，dajiazaixiamiandeneironghuirangnizheixiededuice。yinci womenyaoxuexipeixundezheileirendewanliuduicejiuxiannonggeguanzi，xiabianzaieryan。youyudajiayeyougezaiwanliuzhongdeluojixinglideguanjianneirongyaojiang。