恋爱学堂：原来让男友再次爱上我这样简单！

 lianaiyizhounianshishenme？tanqifuhexingdahuoerzuixianjiuxuyaozhoumeitoule，youyudouganjuezhendehennan，bingqiebazhudaoquanjiaojilingyifang，ganjuezishenhaodijiane，danshijishangfuhexingyeshinenggougaoaozidalaide，yinweitashiyige“ercixiyin”dequanguocheng，zaizheigequanguochengzhong，zhibudingfandaokeyitianbudajiayiqianguanlianzhongdeliefengyeweikezhini?neimelianaixuetangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaishujiba。

处在Hard方式，怎样扭转局势?

学生状况：

 xueshengyanyan(biming)yingduideshi“hardfangshi”defuhexing，youyuxianqiantaheqianrenlibo(biming)zaoyichaochaonaonaoxiabulaisancile。

 qian2cifuhexingshiyouyuyanyankudaoliboyourouguaduan，jiutongyile。shubuzhitamenzhongjiandenantiyirancunyou，guobushangduozhangshijian，guanlianyouhuizaiyiciliekai，libocicichedixiajuexinlexin，jiulianshenpangdepenyoudouquanyanyanshuo：“yaobujiuzheiyangba”。

 danyanyanzongganjuebugan：“tayidingshishuoaiwode，yaoburanweishenmehuiyouyuwokujiuyourouguaduan，haixiangyaoyuwoxiazhetengzheimeduohui，yidingshinalichulenanti，jinjindajiadoumeifajue。”

 tayuanbenbianshidajiaximalayafmkedezhongshitingzhong，yinci talijizhaoxiaozhuliyiyibaokaole。lejieleyanyandeyaoqiuyihou，yiyijitaxiangxijieshaole“fulianduizhang”miyaojiaoshi。

 miyaolaoshiwoguosanjixinlizixunshi，gelasigedaxuexinlizhuangtaiyanjiusheng，yongyou wuniandeqingganzixungongzuojingyan。zainiuqutanlianaidiwei，tanlianaifenshoufuhe、nanrenxinli、lianghaogoutonghuashu、zhenglihunyinguanxidengcengmianshifenshanyu，yongyou henduojingdiananli。

找到难题，连根拔

咨询顾问剖析：

 miyaojiaoshizaiheyanyanchupengyihou，fajuetaxianru“shouhairenluojisiwei”，zheishitadeganqingzaiyikaishidetianmeiyihou，yuetanyuefushang，budanyulaiyuchuyubeidong、diwei，haiyulaiyubiequ，guigenjiedibianshiyouyutajiletarensunhaitadezhipeiquan!huanyigejiaofa，zheiyizhipeiquan，yejiaozhaoliaotadezhipeiquan。

yanyanbakaolvzishenyaoqiudezhipeiquanjiaodaolingyifangdeqingkuangxia，lingwaiyebasunhaitadezhipeiquanjiaodaolelingyifang。

 jugeshili：zheijiurutongtashidongwuyuanlidedaxiang，yuanben，tayouhenduoxiangjiaopingguonenggouzishenchi，keshitabu，youyuzishenchisuoranwuwei，zishenchihaokeliana，taqidaiyouxierenweitachi。

 suihou，tayudaoyigeyouqixiaizheizhidaxiangdeyouren，tashuodao，daxiang，zhihouwozhaoliaonia，daxiangjianxinlejiujienatameirijideweiyang。

 zheiyiyourenyikaishihuiganjue，zheiyidaxiangzhenkeai，woyidingbukeyicuoguota，yinci tajinzhijinzediwei，dingshizhixingzhidingwei。

 keshi，renzonghuiyoucuxindayideqingkuangxia，youyici，tayouyuqitashimeiwei，daxiangjiuganjuelingyifanghushileta。youyici，yourenyoumeijiandaotadeyaoqiu;yeyouyici，daxiangshitakuaiyidianlaiwei，tashuodao：wodoumangzheni，nizijichifou!

neiyang，yaoshilingyifangweibushang，tadoushihuijuededaobeisunhai，suihougangkaishiyuantianyouren，zibaoziqi，chizemaiyuanlingyifang。

zheiyejiudaozhilebiciguanliandebuduideng，buduidengdeguanlianyizhiwufabaochiqietongchu。

 congliboqian2ciyourouguaduanjiufuhexingkanlai，liboduiyanyanshizhenxinshiyixiai，jinjinchibuxiaoyoushenmewentideguanximoxing，yinci yanyanjiaruyaoxiangzaiduwanhuiliboerqiechenggongtaruhunyinshenghuodehua，yidingyaochedixiaochuzishende“shouhairenluojisiwei”caixing。

 lianaiyizhounianshishenme？zaihuozhiyanyanhelibodelianxidianhuadourengzai，naizhihuanshiyouxiqinglvyihou，miyaojiaoshidechudetiyishixiandiaojiezishen，suihoucong“penyou”gangkaishizaidugongzhanlibo。

eryanyanyaochulidezhuyaonantibianshi“shouhairenluojisiwei”，miyaojiaoshijiyanyanliejulexialiejiejuefangan：

diyibu：xuehaoziwomanzu，bubiyizhizishen

 yanyanyiqianmeiyicidoushiyouxuduo fumianqingxuxiangliboxuanxie，meiridoupanwangtadekuanweihekaolv，rujin，tayaoxuezhediaozhengqingxu，zishenzhaoliaole，yaolejieniyuanbenbianshiyouzheizhonggongzuonenglide，jinjinyinwei“zishenshiya”beixianzhizhule。

 yinci，yanyangangkaishizhiliyuzishendegongzuozhong，duyixieleishutishengnengli，quzigezhengshu，qujieshidaliangdepenyou，qukuodazishendequanqiu，zaiwomenduizishendequanqiuyongyou“caokonggan”yihou，bianhuimanmanbaituo“shouhairenrenwujiaose”shengzhibianchengzishende“zhengjiuzhe”renwujiaose。

dierbu：suzaozhengjiuzheluojisiwei，wanquanbaituoshouhairenluojisiwei

 shijishang，meiyigeshouhairendebenzhidoushiyouyigeshouhairen，yigeshihaizhe，dangshihaizhesunhaideqingkuangxia，shouhairenbianhuijuededaoyouqidewunaifali。

 zheijiubixudajiasuzaoyigeqiangjingdezhengjiuzhezaizishendeneineixin，rutongdajiakandexuduo yingxiongrenwudeyingpianyiyang，meiyiciyouxierenjiuxuyaobeisunhaishi，manweiyingxionglikebianhuichuxian，jibaihuaidan，jiejiutamen，shifouhenshuai?

 yinci ，meiyiciruguonishouhairenluojisiweideniantouchuqushi，nidounenggougouxiangyigeyouqiqiangdadezhengjiuzhe，tahuibuguyiqie，jiangnicongshihaizhedeshoushangjiejiuchuqu，jinicongneixinbaituotongchu。

 zheiyizhengjiuzhe，shijishangbianshizishenfuwei，zishenshiyongdenengliang，ruguonideshouhairenluojisiweihuanjieshi，zishendequanbuqichangdoushihuiyuelaiyuebuyiyang。

disanbu、xuehaozhangwohekaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu

 guoquyanyanyouyuyizhikunzaizishen“shouhairen”deluojisiweizhong，feichangshaokaolvdachengdeyaoqiu，neimalibojiujingyounaxieyaoqiuni?congtamenpingshidexiangchumoshikanlai，tabixudeshi“zhixiangshuozhenxinshiyidezanyang”，zheileikaolv，bingbingbushichedidekaolv。

 youyu，chedikaolvhou，lingyifangbianhuilisuoyingdang，bingqieburongyiaixi，yidannijibushang，lingyifangbianhuichizemaiyuanfahuonaonu，nideshenghuoyenanguo。yinci ，duilingyifangdeyaoqiu，nixuyaoshidudekaolv，youshihoukaolv，youshihoubufuhe，kaolvdeqingkuangxiayaobubiyaobufuhedeqingkuangxia。

 neiyang，zheiyinanhaizibianhuijiandaoyigeshiyongjiazhihengaode，buhuishoudaozishencaozongdenvxinglaikaolvzishen，erlingyifangbingbingbushineileiguitiannandezishizhizhongkaolv，zhishi，youshikaolv，youshibulianaixuetang,fuhe。zheileizhongduanjiaqiangbianhuishitayaoxianghuodenidebuduankaolv，bianhuichixuzijintouru，yihuodenijiyudaliangdekaolv。

 cike，shijishangrutongduqianyiyang，tayazhuxiadeyuelaiyuedayulaiyuduo，tabianhuizhibubuqian，nigangkaishikecaozonglingyifangdesuoyouxinuailele。

jiejue“shouhairenluojisiwei”，huodetianmeixingfukuaile

学生成长：

 zaiyanyanchixudegenggaihou，libogangkaishijijilejietadeyixiexiankuang，liruzigezhengshujieguoruhe，xxshenmedifanghaowanma?yanyanyezaitamende“xiangshijinianri”faguoyitiaoweixinpengyouquan：“diyicizishenguoliangrendejieri，youdianerbeishang......”

 guozhen，zaizheilitiaoweixinpengyouquanchuanchuqubushangshifenzhong，libojiujijifaguolailexinxi，zheigeshihouyanyanjiubazijiyiqiande“shouhairenluojisiwei”pouxijiliboting，bahuachedishuokaiguo。

 zhihou，yanyan4yuefenzuoshengrishi，libohaifaguodahongbaojilelipin，yanyanjianjixingshidiqingtayongcan，liboyedafangyingyao，zhihoudeshierbianshiliboyi“buyuanjinizaiguoyigerendejieri”weiyoufuhexingle。

lianaishuji,nikankanyaoshixunzhaonantidegenbenyuanyin，jianjiandiqugenggaizongyouyitianninengpengdaonagezhenshishuyunixingfukuaile。