恋爱学堂：前任绝情分手后怎么挽回成功？

 lianaiyizhounianshishenme？tiankongburongyiwuyuanwugudediaoxianbing，tawanhuinixianeryijianyeshiyoubiaozhunde，tadebiaozhunbianshi：niyoushitakandaoletayaoxiangjiandaodeaiqingdemoyang，zaicishitatianranqiduinideaiqingdeqipan。neima，zenyangcainengrangtajiandaoni?huanshizheijuhua,zhibizhijibaizhanbaisheng。yinci ，shitawuqingfenshouhouhuiwanhuinideduicedayuenenggoucongzheijicengmianxiashou。neimelianaixuetangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaishujiba。

一、他什么会无情明确提出分手?

 yibanzhuangkuangxiananshengshijishangbinvxinggengbixuwendu，gengbixuyouxierenzaishenbianguanzhutazhaoliaotade。shishashitakeyixiajuexinjuerandiyunifenshou，shishayaotaningkechengdanyigerendeguduyebuyuanyihepingfanerbupingyongdenizaiyiqideni?dazhishuolai，tamenhenyoukenenglijingneiyangdezhengtuo。

1、情景一：从期待到失落

 dangnanrenganjuehenizaiyiqideqingkuangxia，wojuedechulexiaoshumudebuliangdehaogemenwai，dabufenzhuangkuangxiatamenquanshizhenxinshiyide，naizhihuihenxianghenizoudebaitouxielao，yiqizouruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，yiqigoujianzishendexiaojiatingde。zaidajiachujianshi，tayeshizhenxinshiyidexintengni，yaoxiangtaonihuanxi。neishi，nideshenshanghaowuyiwenyouyixiewupinxiyinzhuzheta，shitahenizaiyiqijuededuijianglaichongmanleqidai。

keshi，shishashitaduizainizheierjiandaodeqidaiyidiandianandandeni?

 nikeyizhuiyideqi，nihetazaiyiqishi，tayishuangbaohanqidaideyanshenma?nikeyiganshoudedaotaduinideyiciyouyicidexiwangmeiyoubeikandao，meiyoubeikaolvdemishima?yexujiushinidedadalielie，yexujiushiniganjuegezhonggeyang“buzhi”，zongeryanzhinimeiyouhaohaodidekandaitadezheixieduitaeryanneimaguanjiandeqipan。suihou，tamenyiqianduiniguangliangdemuguanggangkaishibujujiaodianle，gangkaishihaipakanzheni。

 rutongnimeiyicixinmanyizudixiwangzhetahuiruherangniqixijiedeyiwaijingxiyiyang，lianaiyizhounianshishenme？tamendeqipanyeshizhenzhengerreqingde。keshi，tamenbidajiagengnanyiyongyuyanbiaodanengli，tamenjinjinjingjingdixiwangnidongdeta。

keshi，nimeiyou!yinci ge，zongzhangzhezuiqipanniboyiketangjitamenzui，yizhidengbudaoyihou，jiuzhinenghebile!

 shijianjiule，tamenyeyibushahuhuyizhixiwangle。tamenhuizhizaijuedehenyoukenengbeikaolvdeqingkuangxiacaiyouxiwang。zheijiucongyuanrundereqingqingkuangzhuandaoleyayigandexiandingxiwangqi。

 jiaruzheigeshihou，niyiranmeiyoufajuetadezhuanbian，jinjinganjueshijianjiule，zaoyishilaofuqile，duitazaoyibeitasuoxiaodaozuiguanjiandexiwangdeqingkuangxiahaizhiruowangwenchongerbuwen，neima，dangtachibuxiaoneiyangdeqingshi，neiyangdeganbiebieqingkuanghou，tabianhuishiluodemingquetichufenshou。

dannizheigeshihoucaihuandehuanshidifajuetaneimewuqing!

shijishang，zaineiyangdeqingjingzhonghaizhenbieryuanzhitawuqing，zhishinitaihuandehuanshile。shenshenxinhanyihou，tazhiyoutaochu!

2、情景二：对大家的将来丧失自信心而明确提出分手

 qingganwangwangxiyinrendediqu，jiuqujueyutanengdailairenqidai，nenglingrenduijianglaimanhuaixinxin。jiaruzainiliangdeaiqingzhangpaozhongjingchangshihuxiangzhuangjide，benmodaozhide。

neimataduinideqingganyehuizaineiyangdezhuangjizhongbeijiangpei。

liru，dajiatanlianaiqineijingchangsantianyixiaonao，wutianyidanao。

 zheileipibeibukanhuishitaduidajiadejianglaisangshizixinxinnaizhihaipadajianeiyangdejianglai。naizhizaixiabanleyihou，tamendoubixuzailoudixiaduziyirenchoushangjigeyan，duziyirenweizijichongdianchichongdian，zhengxiuzhengxiu，caiganfanhuiyounidedifang。

 youliru，zaidajiatanlianaiyihou，tamanmanzhidaonideyishenyigui，tahuizaimeiyicixiabanlejingjingdibayinci jiusuanshiyiqiezhengchangdeyixingjiaowangdexinxineirongshandiaozhengjiecaiganhuijiale。

youyutaqueshibuqingchu，jiarunayitiantameiyoushan，jiandaoyiqiezhengchangxinxineirongdehenyoukenengzaochengdezuifandebutingdebiwen。

lianaixuetang,neiyangdehaosunzuishijishaochengduo，shenbukecede。

yinci ，xuduo yuanbenzhuzaitamenneixindeduiganqingdexiwang，tamenzhinengzhekouzhekouzaizhekou。

 keshi，henyihan，jinguanyizaizhekou，dajiadexiwangyiranbukeyibeizhaogudao，yinci tamendeshunxiangxiwangjianjiandibianchengleduifuxingqingjingdehaipa。

 yinci ，liangzhezhijiantaiyangtaiyinnanao，tamengengxiangyaotiaoxuanzhangtongbibushangduantongdefangfa。renyushengjulaibianshizhuiqiuwanmeihuanle，duobitongchudexiaodongwu，yinci ge，mingquetichufenshoubianshitamentiaoxuanduobitongchudeduice。

3、情景三：掉以轻心，分手是她们给自己留的侧门

 neiyangdeqiannanyoumingquetichudefenshouyeshiqueshi，keshiyuqianerzhedebuyiyangjiuqujueyu，neiyangdefenshoutamenburongyiyigunzidasi。tamenyimiandequecongyantanjuzhishangyunifenshoule，danlingyimiantamenyouduozainikanbudaodediqu“kuitan”ni。

ruguoyouyitiantamenkanjiannidebianhua，neimatamenyouhuichuqibuyihuijiajiechuanni，yunihehaoruchu。

yinci ，lianaishuji,congwanhuifeichangrongyishuipingeryan，zheiyiqingjingxiadefenshou，huibibiede2gehaonaxiayixie。