爱情没有对错,分手后这样断联再无情的前任都会心软

 aiqingmianqian，wojinnianershiwusui，nanpengyouyuwotongling，womendoushigenjushejiaoruanjianlejiede，jianmianhoutajiugangkaishizhuiqiuwanmeiwole，woneishihouyeshidanshenhaozhangshijianle，ganjuezheiyinanhaiziduinihenhao，henjiqing，woyeyuanyile。neimeaiqinglianshangyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingmeiyouduicuodewenzhangba。

 zaiyiqihou，taqueshibangwochanshenglexuduo kuaile，yehenchongwo，bangwotaoqianyecongbuxintong，manmandiwofaxianlewoyulaiyuxihuantale，henyikaota，yeyulaiyuxiguanxingtadehao。

 yizhiyuzhihouwoyulaiyuwangdao，ganjuetawubineiyang，wubineiban，henrenxing，yaoshitabutingwode，woyehenshengqi，henshangnao，yinweiwolejieneiyangbutaihao，danbianshikongzhibuzhu。

 shangxingqi，tashuodaotayaoxianghexiongdiqudalanqiu，womeiyuanyi，tajiuqiaoqiaolaidao，wokandaotajingzhundingweihou，youqifahuo，gentadachaodanaoleyijia，xiangbudaotacicijurangenwotilefenshou。

tashuodaotafeichanglei，yeyulaiyudanxinyingduiwo，ganjuedajiaxingqingbushihe。

 woneishihouyouyuqingmianjiuyuanyile，congzheiyikeqitajiuzaiyebuhuiliguowo，yinweiwomeiyouzhaoguota，keshiwoqueshihenhouhuimojizhongjiandeyantanjuzhi，jiarunengwanhuita，wozaiyebunengneiyangduitale。

wonengzuoshenmecaikeyiwanhuitani?huoshi，ruhezuocaikeyishitajijiwanhuiwo?

答：

 jiandaonidexushu，zuixianshifenlejienideqingxu，keshi，wanhuijiaruguoduzhuzhongqingmian，shibuhaode，nilaijijilianluolingyifang，huoshiranglingyifangjijilianluoni。

 zheizhongdoubingbushiwanhuideguanjian，wanhuideguanjianshijiejuekunnan，zaizhonggouqinggan，yinci xiwangniyouyigeyouliangdewanhuixinlizhuangtai。

 zaixushuzhong，nishuonihenwangdao，zaiqingganzhongzhangkongyuheduzhanyujiaoweiqiang，yinci ranglingyifangfeichanglei。aiqingmianqian，zaiqingganzhong，duzhanyuhezhangkongyunenggouyou。

 keshiguoyouerbuji，ruguochaochulezheiyifenqingganbenyingchengdandezhanbi，shijianzhangleneimasheidoushihuileide，tashidajiaqingganzhongjiaoda denanti，xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanhuishangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

思考自身

 zaidajiazheiyifenqingganzhong，jiaoda denantiqujueyunibenshen，ninenghaohaodixiangyixiangzishenzenmehuiyouneimemingxiandezhangkongyuheduzhanyu。

 nicongheshigangkaishiyaoxiangzhanjulingyifang，caozonglingyifangde，yizhiyulingyifangyaoxianghepenyoudageqiu，neiyangyiqiezhengchangdeyaoqiuyebutongyi?

 youshi，qingganjiuhaoxiangsuishizi，nizuandeyuejin，lingyifangdeaixiaoshideyuelaiyuekuai，bibushangshifangyalizishendeshou，ranglingyifangchuanyikouqi，yerangnizijichuanyikouqi。

qinggandeguanjiangouchengbufen，congbushizhanjulingyifanghecaozonglingyifang，zhishixinrengan、shangxi、qinpei、heshiyong。

改变自身

zainidexushushangshuo，nilejiezishendegerenxingweibushiduide，keshinikongzhibuzhu，nilejieweihema?

 youyu，buzhengqueshiyongyujiuzhengde，bingbushiyongyucaozongde，jiarunizhidianjizheguanliziji，ziranhuichuxiankongzhibuzhudeqingkuangxia，keshijiuzhengbuyiyang，gaibianshiduibuzhengquedeqingchu。

 yiner，qidaininenghelingyifangfenshouyiduanshijian，haohaodidiaojieyixiazishen，ninengzhaoyigexingquaihao，huoshiduoqubaomingcanjiayixiekuanghuanpaidui、zhutihuodong，bahuolifangdaoshifangyali、huanledeshiershang。

 zhidingyixiegudingbudongdezhutihuodong，rangzishenpeiyangfensanhuahuoli、duijikaixinqingxudexiguanxing，neiyangdengdajiazaicihehaohou，jiukeyifangshouquzuozishenxiaideshi，bubiyitiandaowandingzhulingyifang。

试着联络

 aiqingmeiyouduicuo,ruguoniyouyidingdegaibianshi，nidexinlizhuangtaiyehuiyouyidingdezhuanbian，cikeninengzhaoyigetuocitanjiuxingxuexidilianluoyixialingyifang。

 liru，gongtonghaoyoubuqingchudajiafenshou，jidajiayoudilelipin，nijuedezhaoyigeshijianjitamenyixia，huoshi，nijuedelingyifangneiliyoulenideshenme，jinishijianquzhaotanayixia。

neiyangdeyuanyin，lingyifangburongyiduinitaiguofangbei，yebuhuisuibianhuijueni。

 neiyangzaidupengmianhou，ninenggenlingyifangliaoyiliaonijinqidegaibian，shundaigenlingyifangdaogeqianshuo：“liquhou，caizhidaoyuanxiandezishenneimetaiguo。”

diandaoweizhijiukeyile，shuoduolefandaobutaihao，bingbiaomingqidaihelingyifangzuopengyou。

 haijideduoxianglingyifangzhanxianniquanxinshengjiqingkuang，quanxinshengjideshenghuoxiguan，ranglingyifangjiandaonidebianhua，neiyangdenicaikeyiranglingyifangzaochengshenmigan，haijideshidudijianruoyixiazishen。

 zairichangshenghuozhongduodongxianglingyifangqiujiaoyixienanti，huoshiqinglingyifangbangyixiemang，ranglingyifangganjue，nishihenbixutade，neiyangyongbushangduozhangshijian，dajiadangranhuifuhexing。

 aiqinglianshangyin,qingganzhongsheidoushihuiyou“cengjingaiguoletou”deqingkuangxia，danaiqingjiuxiangshiyibasuishizi，zuandejinle，bujinlingyifangtoubuguoqi，nideshouyehuiteng，hebushiyixiafangkainideshou，ninenghuodegengsuiyi，gengxingfukuailedeganqing。