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最先:不斥责,做最好的自己
shenmejiaobuchize,zuozuihaodeziji。feichanghaolejie,bianshiyingduiwaiyudezhangfuhuoshinanyou,meiquchizeta,yemeiqumaiyuanta。
henyoukenengyouxierenhuiguaiyi:“lingyifangdouchuguile,aiqingmianqian,womamatamaiyuanyixiahaibuxingma”。
deque,zhangfudewaiyuduinvxinglaijiangbulunshixinlizhuangtaishanghuanshirentishangquanshijidadesunhaihecuican。yinci ,maiyuanshinenggoude。
keshijiaruniyaoxiangwanhui,zuihaoshiquzhaohaoguimishushuo,erbushiduitatongma。
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erzheikuijiuganbianshidajiawanhuishibunengquefadeshenqi。
次之:思考本身,找寻风采
doushuoganqinglaidaohunyinshenghuoshi,bianhuiyuelaiyuekuzaofawei,dequehunyinshenghuozhongdedabufenshijianquanshipingpingdandande。
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aiqingmeiyouduicuo,meirenhuimomingqimiaodeliqu,erlikaidedaduoshuyeshiyouyuleijileguoshaodexinhan。
suoyishuoyaoxiangfuhexing,sikaobenshen、zhaoxundangshidefengcaishibibukeshaode。
最终:运用愧疚感,造成联络
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